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I really need advice on what to do about this situation. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year..new years is one year. We are both 21, and go to the same college, and when we're at school we pretty much live together. However, for break we are like 4 hours apart. I thought I trusted him completely..until recently. I got on my computer and got on facebook, and because he uses my computer sometimes it was automatically signed into his name. I didn't realize this until I clickd on the messages and saw messages from a few girls. The one that really caught my eye was one asking a girl to come over at 3am. He said soemthing along the lines of being able to keep her up even though she was tired. So i don't know what happened after that...my problem is that I don't want to tell my boyfriend I was on his facebook because he will think I was snooping on him. But i would like to confront him about it because I want to know what is up with this. I just don't know what to do!! we just had our christmas together and it was great..he wrote me a really nice card that was very loving, and he spent quite a bit of money on my presents...I just don't understand!
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This girl may not know you're dating, so you can friend her and ask a few questions. like how do you know him or if she's been out with him etc. He may seem like a great guy but great guys don't try to hook up with other girls. There's a small chance it was a joke but it doesn't appear that way. It may be time to find the truth and move on to a guy that treats you good in front of you and behind your back. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Your boyfriend asking a girl to come to his place at 3am clearly shows he is not as trustworthy as you hoped. Nobody ask someone to show up late in the morning unless they have intentions. You've caught him red handed, You need to sit down and talk with your boyfriend bring up that you were attempting to log into facebook and he had forgotten to log out. Your boyfriend is going to assume, Lie, Beat around the bush all together. Your boyfriend is already in hot water. If he can't be faithful then obviously he doesn't deserve you. People who are caught cheating normally do not like to admit to it. Once a cheater, Always a cheater and if you talk it out and forgive him it's only saying "Hey Honey, It's okay...I forgive you" Don't be fooled because if given another chance and he cheats again.The difference is he will be extra careful NOT to get caught.
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