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Something makes me curious about him even though he is a BAD guy?
Hey! I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. So I was at this party last night and there was this guy that used to go to my school (he got expelled for getting busted with pot) so he goes to a school nearby (he's a junior, 17). So I barely even knew him until last night and a few factors, ahem, impaired my judgement and I went up to him and sat in his lap while he was playing cod. He taught me how to play and then we stared dancing. For awhile. And we hooked up, but just making out. He asks for my number and I give it to him. He texted me today. I don't know what to do. Im kind if interested in him but I know he's not what you'd call a "good kid". Okay I'm not exactly a good kid either but I've never been interested in a guy this bad (I try to avoid potheads) and I know I barely know him but there's something that's making soooo curious about him and I dunno why.
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I have dated guys like this before, they are more interesting. There seems like there is something mysterious about them, and you want to know more about him. Go for it! Bad boys are always better kissers, just saying..... (: I mean, inside, hes probably a big fluffy teddy bear(: thats what I've found out about the bad boys I've dated
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I completely understand; the bad guys are always more interesting because they aren't the typical guy. They seem mature because they're being rebellious and doing their own thing, but honestly, where do you seem him down the road? Right now, since you're in high school, there will be a lot of flings, but you're curious just because you haven't dated someone like him before- my advice, DON'T. If you did pot and your boyfriend didn't, wouldn't you want him to join you in doing something you enjoy? Be realistic. You're still young, and you have such a great life ahead of you, that can be filled with really great guys- not pot heads. Be careful! If you date him, he's only going to lead you down a bad path- because he's already led himself down that path. Go for the good guy; they might not seem as interesting, but they'll lead you on the right track, i promise :)
-Sophie
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Everyone is atracted to someone they dont think they would be atracted to. think of these things before you jump into a relationship. you wont try pot just because he does it? who knows maybe he would quit because you dont like it.? you cant not go for it just because its not someone your used to dating. im sure you dont have a type
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Everyone has different things that turn them on
If you like him, It is up to you whether you want to date him or not. However, Remember one thing...When two people end up dating they have a mutual influence on one another. Do you want to date someone who is into this sort of stuff? Would it be a smart choice on your behalf?..Can you see yourself having a healthy relationship? Everyone has their views, Some will say trouble makers are people too yes, but whether you want to be involved with someone's crap is highly up to you. You can let the crush eventually blow over or end up going down a similar road. Why do you like him? Maybe it is because what Missy said below, They are "fun" in their rebellious ways but are his rebellious ways worth falling for is the question.
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Its simple. Bad guys are so much more fun! There not whiny or clingy. Something about them is just so very attractive. If your interested in him then go for it! Don't let someones image or reputation keep you from getting to know them
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Ohhhhh... its an AGE old problem. Why do us good girls like bad boys? Dunno, but I do know it never works out for the better. But, saying that, you can only do what you feel is right. I just caution you to not let any boy, bad or good, push you to do things and say things that you know aren't good for you. Good luck! And Merry Christmas!
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