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Would you have taken him back?
So lets say your guy leaves you and gets with someone else. He didn't even bother telling you he left you FOR someone else, he just said that things aren't working out and I don't think we should see each other. Now, here's the catch. You think the whole time he left you because he actually liked the other girl, but in reality he never liked her like that. They were just friends with benefits. You've already taken him back but this was before you knew of the friends with benefits relationship. Now you're pissed and you don't know how to bring it up with him but you want answers and in the past, he's told you that his past is his business and only if he chooses to tell you, then he will. What would you do?
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Well I would talk to him. I wouldn't care if he said that it's his past and only his business. Yeah, he has a choice to tell you or not but if it his bothering you, you guys need to talk about it. If he refuses to at least talk to you about it then you're just gonna be left wondering and it's going to bother you right? You don't want to be in a relationship with a guy who won't even be honest and talk to you about it. So if he chooses not to, don't stay with him. You're just gonna end up hurting yourself and over thinking things. You don't want that. Good luck!
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You might wanna just move on and forget about him. Thinking about the situation will just continue to agitate you. You seem like a good person and deserves someone who will treat you well. Don't stress in the meantime just enjoy hanging with friends and enjoying life. A new boy will come around. Trust me.
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What would I do?
Sit down and discuss it with him, Let him know that it bothers you and you want to make sure that you two have the stability to work through things. However, I normally say once a cheater always a cheater. Personally, I would probably go my own way. As he originally left you for someone else. He calls it friends with benefits but reality he obviously had feelings for someone else. I would think long and hard to whether he was worth my time or not. I on the other hand, I'm a once chance person..You blow it, You're gone.
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