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Me or sex?
Ok, so I like this guy, I'll refer to him as Bob. I'm 17 and he's about to be 22, but the age isn't the problem because I turn 18 in two weeks and we agreed that our relationship wouldn't go past friends until then. So that is not the problem. What I wanna know is how can I tell if he's in it for me or because he wants to get laid. Is there any warning signs? If so, please let me know, because I really like Bob, and I'd rather not be fooled because of that. Please and thank-you!
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It really depends on how he treats you when other people are around. Does he brag about you to his friends, is he proud to call you his girlfriend, does he talk about everything but sex. These are some things you need to consider before you give in to his needs and get left behind. I'm thinking you already have second thoughts about him if you're writing on here. Just be patient and if he's not the right one, you should move on and find the guy that fits your needs. I hope this helps and good luck.
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The only way to know is to not have sex. If he hangs around, he's not just interested in getting laid. If he backs off, well, there's your answer.
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Ways you can usually tell if a guy is into you or not is all about the way he acts towards you.
Is sex all he talks about?...If so well, I would start to suspect that maybe that's all on his mind.
A guy who is into a girl for who she is, Normally is not all about sex. Respect, Is a huge thing in relationships...Does this guy respect you enough to lay off the subject? Does he listen to you?...Does he seem pushy?, Does he pressure you? These are signs to watch out for. One thing you don't want to do is when you two start dating DON'T RUSH IT, Take it slow because the truth is if you take it slow and wait a bit before it gets that far then you'll really know what he's in for.
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