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I'm a 19 female. I just got married 2 months ago and recently my husband and I rented an apartment. I love it here and things are going great..except for one thing. I invited a friend of mine to come live with us because he is leaving for a year in Iraq so I wanted another person in the house. Me and my husband smoke...alot. Two days ago she turned to me and told me she didn't want me or cook to smoke in the house anymore. I told her I would talk to him and discuss it with him. It's getting cold and it's my house I don't want to go outside. He told me to compromise with her and tell her we'll only smoke in the bedroom with the window open. I told her this and she said that she didn't want us to do that either because it goes into her room and she gets sick. We are trying to compromise but she wants it her way or she said she was gonna leave. It would be fine except that I have seen her smoke before and been around people that smoke. I am too the point that I want her gone. I can't stand being in the same room as her. Please someone help me so I don't kill my roommate... (link)
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Let her leave. Getting married and then having a friend move in with you just won't work. As you can see. Its your home and you shouldn't have to compromise for one thing. I'm sure she knew you smoked before she moved in.
It either truly bothers her or she is looking for a reason to get out. Let her go and preserve your friendship. Unless you need a roomie to help make ends meet, live on your own. It takes a bit but you will soon enjoy the time with yourself. :)
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how do you get over a guy who dumped you?
15/f (link)
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You find a new guy to concentrate on. Honestly. Its the only way you will get completely over anyone ever. :)
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ok my boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob right nd i would nd everything except im really not so sure how ur supposed to do it can u pleaseeeeee give me some advice (link)
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i always feel like i am approaching death. like im 15 years old i dont have any real friends anymore. everything i try at, i can't succeed. ive never gotten along with my family at all. it might sound liek im complaining but honestly nohting can go right in my life no matter how hard i try. it just doesnt seem liek there is a place for me in the world at all, or like i dont know i dont feel like the purpose of me being alive is doing good for anyone or myself. i get very very depressed most of the time and i honestly just want to kill myself, liek there really isnt a point ofme staying alive. ive gone to a therapist for over a year but nothing really seems to help.
i guess i dont know what im asking but please help meee, and dont just reply with something like "hang in there it will get better" i want actual advice (link)
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All teens go through times like you are. Most snap out of it quick enough but may have it off and on.
Others need to seek help, which you have. Just know you aren't alone.
As a teen you have so many hormones bombarding you all at one time. You are going through other changes too. You are thinking about boys, learning to drive, thinking about what you want to do in the future, Most are trying to keep up with all the latest fashions. being a teenager is a stressful time.
Trust your therapist. He/she will keep what you tell her to herself. So don't hold back. You might ask if she has a teen group meeting. It might be
helpful for you to talk to others going through the same things. :)
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Ok so I'm a 15 f and i'm 36 weeks, 1 day pregnant today. My due date isnt until novemeber 17th but I was wondering if there was any way I could schedule a C-section before hand so I won't have to go threw giving birth and I could have my baby home sooner. Please answer fast I need to know. Thanks.
Love, Amanda. (link)
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Unless there are complications with the birth you will not get a c-section. They cost a lot of money and insurance companies frown on paying for unnecessary surgery. So no. unless your doctor has said you need a c-section, you have to go through the birth naturally. :)
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how do you do the splits??
i used to be able to when i was 7 but now i can't and i'm 15 now
i want to be able to them again??
any excercises on how i can learn to do them again?? (link)
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I found tons of sites. So many choices I will let you pick. There are even some youtube videos. :)
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ok, well my breats are unique lets say haha. there always perky and up and like RARELY hang down. my question is, i can fit into a size 32C, 32B, and 34A. I buy all of my bras from victorias secret, and non of them are padded, and they're all from the pink collection. so how can i fit into different sizes? i fit best in a 32C, but without a bra, my breast look like a size A? whats up with this? am i just wearing the wrong size bra, how do i measure properly? thanks! (link)
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Here is the way to measure correctly for the perfect fit. Courtesy of breakout bras website.
tep #1: Get a soft measuring tape.
This is the only type of measuring tape that can be used for accurate measurements. If you do not have one, you can get one a Wal-Mart or many other stores for less than a dollar.
Step #2: Take off your bra.
The measurements you take will be much more accurate if your bra is off. Almost all women wear cup sizes that are too small which smashes the breasts down causing the measurement to seem smaller than they really are. If your breasts hang or sag, just try and get someone to help you so that you can prop your breasts up while measuring. If you really need to, just take the measurements with a bra on. The size will still be a lot closer than anything you have been wearing and the fit a whole lot better. And if you need help or feel the numbers are just not making sense, just take BOTH measurements, one with the bra on and one with the bra off and call us and we will help you determine the best size.
Step #3: Measure underneath your rib cage.
This measurement will help you determine your band size. So measure right underneath your breasts where a bra band would normally sit. Make sure that you keep the tape level all the way around and pull the two sided together until they meet and lie flat against your body. Do not pull it too tightly but it does need to be somewhat snug. Whatever number you get here, in almost all cases just needs to be rounded up to the nearest even number. So if the measurement is 33 than you would just round up to 34. Very easy. But there is one exception to this rule. If you measure 34 1/4 or even 34 ½, you should round down to 34 instead. The reason for this is simple. Bras lose elasticity every time you wear them so the fit will only get less and less supportive the longer you wear the bra. So when you first purchase a bra it needs to feel snug but not too tight on the LOOSEST hook. Then as the bra stretches from wear, you can move the hooks in tighter to maintain a higher level of support longer. If you buy a bra and need to wear it on the tightest hook from the start, you have nowhere to go but to buy a new one when it starts getting stretched out. For a bra to be supportive, you must wear the correct band size.
**So for the above example, the band size is 34. I will use this measurement again below to determine the final size needed.
Step #4: Measure across the widest part of your bust line. (NEVER MEASURE UNDER YOUR ARM PITS AND UP OVER THE TOP OF YOUR BREASTS AND NEVER ADD INCHES.)
Just measure across your nipples at the widest part of your breasts. Nothing at all needs to be done to this number except rounding it up if the measurement falls between two numbers. So if you measure 41 ½ just round it to 42. That is it. Nothing else.
Step # 5 Do a little math.
Now take the number from step 4 and subtract the number from step 3. This then gives you a cup size to go along with the band size that was determined earlier. The band size we had earlier was 34 and for the above example the bust measurement was a 42. So you have 42-34 = 8.
So you have a band size of 34 and an 8 inch difference for the cup size so your bra size is a 34H. Each number represents a cup size as the chart below details.
1 = A
2 = B
3 = C
4 = D
5 = DD(E)
6 = F(DDD)
7 = G
8 = H
9 = I
10= J
etc. etc.
Now you have a size that will fit you so much better and support you so much better and make you look so much better than anything you have ever worn before.
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okay so my name is lauren.
14/f
so i like this guy who has a girl friend and he wants to make out with me and i want to too. the problem is i have never made out with someone b4 but he thinks i have. will he notice that i havent. and do you have any tips!??
thanks
~LaUrEn~ (link)
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I agree with thelaura. The best advice is just don't get involved with this guy at all. You are the one who will get hurt. He will just be using you for the things she won't do. Not a good situation to put yourself in.
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It started with nick calling me beautiful and him wantint to date me we made out at some party and then over the next month i didnt wanna date anything then finally on the 6/20 we started dateing. he was nice and called me and we partyied and hung out all the time he also took me to movies and he was whiped at one point then i started careing to much and he broke up with me 1st time bc he didnt want a girlfriend then a day later we began kiss the kissing goes on for like 2 weeks then we start dateing again this point its the beginning of the school year tthe next few weeks were very deep and i told nick i loved him and he said it back.. but he was more a asshole by not answering my calls and he just didnt care as much like my pictures used to be on his myspace n such.. finnaly like sept 19 he breaks up with me on the phone saying THE WHOLE I LOVE YOU THING, NO and rude ass shit about me.. then a week and a half later i kiss another boy and nick wants me back and we get back together. and I GAVE NICK MY VIRGINITY BACK IN AUGUST. we have a passionate night bc i sleep over at his house alot. and then the next two weeks i can tell things are werid then monday night he breaks up with me in a text and i find out he loves becca this girl he liked like all of last year and in early august he told me he liked her but in september he told me he had no feelings for her.. his bestfriend told me he reallt loved me but. YEA BECCA- shes a whore and a bitch shes had sex with atleast 7 people i know and she had three boyfriends like a week ago. everyone tells me she is grossed out by nick and she is like useing him ive been told and he broke up with me because hes in love with her. AND I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT NICK AND I HATE IT BC HES A FUCKING ASSHOLE AND told me he has loved her for a while and EVERYONE NEW.. fuck that shit. i cant belive him and now we were drifting apart because i just dont want to talk to him i am so hurt like HE WAS A ASSHOLE WHILE WE WERE DATEING AND THEN THIS IS HOW WE FINALLY BREAK UP. what the fuck!!! (link)
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Seems a lot of using is going on here. I think you are being used to make this Becca jealous and she is using other guys to make Nick jealous. Hard as it will be, I think you need to keep away from the situation. You will only wind up hurt every time
he goes running back to her.
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A few weeks back I met this guy and we became fairly decent friends. We've spent some time together and I honestly believe I've fallen head-over-heels for him. He's pretty darn wonderful but (there's always a catch, right?) he's pretty much taken. He's in love with another woman and I don't see that changing anytime soon. He often talks about her to me and I really think there's not much hope he'd break it off with her and look for someone else.
My question, really, is should I continue to be friends with this man? Should I distance myself and stop going out to lunch with him as often? We've had great times and I'd hate to lose such a friendship but I'm fearful that my other emotional feelings will end up getting the way. I find myself almost jealous over the other lady but realize I am only a friend and nothing more. (link)
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I don't think we should ever give up friendships.
Good friends are hard to find. It sounds like he enjoys talking to you and having lunch with you.
Unless he is married to this other woman, there is always a chance. If the opportunity comes along
tell him how you feel. It could be he just hasn't thought about you in that way before. Give him something to think about! If you are already friends you are off to a good start already.
If he is really crazy in love with this other woman, there isn't much you can do but continue to be friends. Just let him know how you feel. That way he at least knows why you might want to avoid some situations, like seeing them together. He will know you aren't avoiding him, but avoiding a situation that is just to much for you to handle emotionally right now.
Best of luck! :)
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say you've had about a year of experience with sex. and then you dont have sex for a year later. do you get tighter, like as if you were a vrigin? or would you still feel loose? (link)
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sex doesn't cause a person to be "loose". Having children may do that, but having sex does not.
So I guess the answer to your question is it would have no effect at all.
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has anyone heard anything lately about some superbug that kills??? and theres no cure for it? i heard someone talking about it and me, being out of the news loop, i wouldnt know. MRSA bacteria? so its recent? (link)
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MRSA has been around for years. It is not new.
It is a staph infection that they say is spread through hospitals.
Most I have seen with it are from nursing homes. Punch in almost any residents name
from a certain nursing home in my area and MRSA
contact infection control will come up on the
hospitals screen. These patients are isolated, probably more for their own good than anything else.
Some strains of MRSA are resistant to antibiotics.
Personally, I believe more and more infections will become resistant to antibiotics because so many people insist on having one for every little thing.
People for years have insisted on an antibiotic for every cold or other irritating thing they have. Doctors give antibiotics out like candy because basically, it shuts the patient up and they leave the office happily thinking they will be well soon. This is changing now but it may be
a little late. The germs are fighting back.
Sorry for the run on. I believe that antibiotic resistant infections are a serious danger in the future. Calling this one infection a superbug is probably a little over the top. I think there will be more and more in years to come. There are other ways to treat it I believe.
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Can I offer to be a volunteer somewhere where they don't advertise for volunteers?
As in, would it be odd to email them and offer to be a volunteer even if they don't have a history of taking on volunteers? (link)
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I think it would be okay to offer your services as a volunteer. Many places would probably appreciate the helping hand. :)
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2 questions, how can you calculate the days of your ovualation period? And also can you get pregnant if only the head of the penis enters (without a condom) and you were starting your period the night after you had sex? (link)
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If you want to do this for birth control I don't recommend it. It rarely works. You have to keep all kinds of charts and you have to do it for at least 3 months in a row BEFORE you use it. I have included a search with the information. Most are geared toward getting pregnant but they all work the same.
Anytime a penis gets anywhere near a vagina there is a chance for pregnancy. Doesn't matter if its before, after or during your period. Even if he does not ejaculate there is pre-ejaculate. You never no when it will show up and neither will he. It contains sperm.
If pregnancy prevention is what you are after condoms and birth control pills or other device
are your best bet. Anything else is much to risky.
I have also included a site with useful info on birth control, and other things important for you to know about. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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Ok I have a question is there any free software that cleans your Registry cause my computer is really getting slow and please dont tell me how to make my computer faster just please tell me of any free software I am an advanced user for a 16 year old thanks (link)
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I'm sure everyone has their favorite.
I use regseeker. :)
http://www.hoverdesk.net/freeware.htm
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I know that you can't judge this by the internet, but I'm extremely paranoid. I'm 16 & I was drunk this past weekend. I ended up hooking up with a boy. He's the kind of kid that acts like he gets a lot of action, but I don't know if he's lying or not. (I have no real proof). Well I started to perform oral on him for about 3 minutes (unprotected) but then I stopped and said I didn't want to do it. And the next day I kind of had a sore throat but barely, it wasn't severe at all. Just tiny bit. But it might have been from making out for so long because that's happened to me before. Well now I just have some phlegm (sp?) but it's not bad. And my gums by 1 of my teeth barely hurt, but it might be from brushing my teeth so hard. Do you think I'm at risk of an std? (link)
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You can be at risk for an STD while having any type of unprotected sex. For your own safety it is best to just assume someone who even claims they are free of STDs isn't.
Here is a cool site to visit. They have a link that
explains all the STDs to look for as well as other useful information. So do some looking around while you are there. I will let you click on the STD link.
That way it won't show up on your internet history. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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Alright ......theres this guy who i Really REALLY like and he likes me back but hes still in the stage between immature and mature he plays way to many games and thinks everything is a joke when his friends are around....... When we are alone hes a totally diffrent guy...i really like him but i want him to act the same whether his friends are around or not...What should i do? (link)
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Tell him that. Tell him you want to be treated the same way he treats all his other friends. If he can't be mature enough to do that, you'll have to reconsider if you want to be more than just friends.
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does it matter if we write "office of admissions" or the college name first? (link)
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I think I would write college name, attention
office of admissions.
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18/f hes 24
i have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 months now. a few weeks ago i had a few friends over and we all drank. (this is the first time hes met any of them). ive told him about my friend jen , who is a slut and he was like grossed out by her. me, very very drunk made a bad decision and made out with jen and one thing lead to another and me her and my boy were in bed together. she went down on me and so did he. no one else did anything except for me going down on him. i am so ashamed about it and we never really talked about it ( because first he was mad/grossed out because he knew she was a slut and thought she was dirty) except for last night, we discussed it (like 1 month later).
he pretty much said he was mostly into it cuz i was in it and it was his first time doing anything like that. hes a guyy, he`d obv do it again so im worried. i told him it would never happen again expecially with one of my friends, and he was like okay we will have to find someone else haha jk. and i was offended. does he need another girl? what if he got feelings? i would Not be okay with seeing him even touch another girl and im just so nervous now. what can i do? he tells me he is fine with just me and he moslty enjoyed it because of me but im just so ashamed and worried. thanks=( (link)
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I'd be offended too. Now that hes done it and you participated he will expect it to be no big deal again. He will just get you drunk.
Tell him it will never happen again under any circumstances.
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Younger [teen] guys are easier to start a conversation with than guys who are, lets say in their late teens or early 20's. i think, and you can correct me, that after they've hit 27 and older, they start seeing you more as a daughter and little girl than anything else [not that i'm interested in anyone that old]. so i'm l6/f, and i like an older guy who i'm sure feels the same way. The problem is that even though he's only 19, he acts more mature than his age, and i don't think he knows quite how to get more comfortable with me, which in turn, makes me feel awkward as well. I want to do so without him thinking of me as a little whore who needs to get screwed, but i don't know where or how to touch him, playfully of course. interestingly enough, when he's around not only do i freeze and ignore him, but when i don't, my affection comes off as hate and indifference. does anyone have some good tips on how to avoid getting nervous and acting this way?? thnXx in advance (link)
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You won't want to hear this but chances are he won't
get comfortable with you. If you touch him in any intimate way he will probably avoid you like the plague in the future.
You are considered a minor child. By the way, paid users get your age which shows as 14 and not 16.
Either way, if he gets intimate with you he could go to jail if found out. Most decent guys are going to want to avoid jail time. You could date legally, but couldn't be intimate until you come of age. That varies in different states. Here is a chart that will let you know.
http://www.coolnurse.com/consent.htm
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