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Older guys
Younger [teen] guys are easier to start a conversation with than guys who are, lets say in their late teens or early 20's. i think, and you can correct me, that after they've hit 27 and older, they start seeing you more as a daughter and little girl than anything else [not that i'm interested in anyone that old]. so i'm l6/f, and i like an older guy who i'm sure feels the same way. The problem is that even though he's only 19, he acts more mature than his age, and i don't think he knows quite how to get more comfortable with me, which in turn, makes me feel awkward as well. I want to do so without him thinking of me as a little whore who needs to get screwed, but i don't know where or how to touch him, playfully of course. interestingly enough, when he's around not only do i freeze and ignore him, but when i don't, my affection comes off as hate and indifference. does anyone have some good tips on how to avoid getting nervous and acting this way?? thnXx in advance <3.
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You won't want to hear this but chances are he won't
get comfortable with you. If you touch him in any intimate way he will probably avoid you like the plague in the future.
You are considered a minor child. By the way, paid users get your age which shows as 14 and not 16.
Either way, if he gets intimate with you he could go to jail if found out. Most decent guys are going to want to avoid jail time. You could date legally, but couldn't be intimate until you come of age. That varies in different states. Here is a chart that will let you know.
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Stop letting the age difference intimidate you. And stop using such negative self-talk. Why would you ever assume he would think of you as a whore? Relax. You're just getting to know the guy.
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