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Hey Everyone :) I'm Kate and a level 2 mod on here. I've had this account since July 2004, so I've been on here since I was 13! Wow ... crazy for me to think how long ago that was. I will admit I don't check in as often as I once did, but being away at college, being in a sorority, and having a job when I'm not at school is very time consuming. I still try to help out as much as possible, and if you send me a question I WILL answer it. This site helped me a LOT when I was in high school and had a lot of questions, and I'm here to help anyone who needs it :) Feel free to write in my forum or send me a question any time!

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wut does love really mean?!?!?!?!

it's a feeling

like...(stolen from the movie The Hot Chick)
when your heart beats faster and slower at the same time

you can't explain love

but when your in love, you will know, there are no words to describe it
it's the best and strongest feeling you will ever feel

your knees could get weak, ur heart melts whenever u think about him/her

it's a WONDERFUL feeling!!

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whats that song on the titanic that i think her name is rose sings or w/e and i think it goes "wherever you are...." or something

my heart will go on by celion deion, idk how to spell her name

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Me and my two other friends make-out. We say we just do it to practice for when we make-out with guys. But my friend say her name is "Katie" and me like really get into it. I know I am not a lesbian but for her I would do anything. And I like making out with her. We caress each other. Sometimes we even make-out when her parents are home. We even play games with other close friends just to make an excuse for making out we pretend we're in college and that we're lesbians. We lay down on each other and touch each other. I need help and I am confused. I AM NOT A LESBIAN but around her i think i am but around every one else I'm straight.. Please give me advice ASAP..

Signed,
Straight but Confused?

your probably just a bisexual, where u like guys and gurls

she mite also be bi
and hey yall could always get together, then you'd have a particularly good reason for making out, being a couple, there's nuttin wrong wit bein bisexual

i think i mite be bisexual, i've always wondered wut it would be like to kiss a girl

but i really don't think there's anything wrong wit it

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hey folks... i need a little help here. i weigh 200lbs and am 5"7... (i'm 14, female) i really need to lose some weight. i don't need to lose it real fast... just like, 10 or 15lbs in the next month and a half... any tips?

http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm

that measures ur BMI and lets u kno ur weight level

Excersises u can do
runnin
joggin
walkin
sports
walkin around a mall
crunches
pushups
sit-ups
playin wit pets(if u have a dog volunteer to walk it)
BABYSITTIN requires lotsa runnin around lol

whenever u excersise MAKE SURE U HAVE WATER
soda will hurt u, and make the heat worse

if ur gunna jog or run or walk, then do it at nite about a half an hour to an hour before ur curfew, that way it's cooler outside, unless it's cold wherever u are, then do it during the day

cut down on eating
like at dinner just have one serving, don't go aneorexic or bulemic or anything, just don't fill up wit junk food

i kno im a lil overweight, but i try to lose it, it's harder for me cuz i have a slo matabolism, if thats ur problem(slow matabolism) then talk to ur doctor, and ask he/she about weightloss tips!!

And remeber
Have Fun
if ur hurtin urself, then it ain't worth it
do wuts easy for you
DON'T GIVE UP
No Pain No Gain is a LIE, if ur hurtin urself do sumthin else


if u have a member to a YMCA, then go to the Y

when u go walkin have sum friends
if u go joggin or runnin then have a portable CD player or radio, so u have sumthin to listen to!!

Hope u lose the wight and remember NO MATTER WHAT U WILL ALWAYS BE BEAUTIFUL

Hope I Helped :):):):):)

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hey how do you tell what level a moderator you are at???? ill rate you for this!!!!

it should say on ur main screen


i didn't look at when u asked this Q, so i have no idea how long it's been, so sry if it's not helpful anymore

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okay, well i have a question..it says on the site that if you have a rating of over four *(which i do)* and you've been rated more than five times(i've been rated 11) that you are a level one moderator, but on my screen it says that i'm not one. does like someone hafta do something to make me a moderator?? please help!

i bet u have enuff answers, but i asked the admin about it, and u hafta be a member for atleast 2wks, but if u r all those things, then i guess u should be a moderator

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THIS AIN'T A QUESTION, AND IM POSTIN THIS MYSELF

every1's been askin me where i got my backround
well the site i went to was http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/

and the person that told me the site was missj1414

she gets the credit, so if yall still wanna kno where i got it, thats where

if ya wanna kno how she found the site, ask her!!

im answerin my own question, amazin
well that wasn't a questin, it's just that lately every1 is askin where i got it so i posted that!!

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where did u get ur backround
IT'S SO COOL!

http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/

WOW lotsa ppl are likin my backround, hey if i remmeber ill tell ya who i got that site from, she deserves the credit!!

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WHERE DID U GET UR BACKROUND
I THINK IT IS SUPER KOOL
I WANT ONE LIKE IT!!

http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/

glad ya like it

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does anyone know any good sad quotes about drinking and driving, death, losing someone, cutting yourself, someone cutting or hurting themselves, suicide, ect or anything else you can think of thats sad

Drunk Driving
*near the door he paused 2 stand
as he took his class ring off her hand
all who were watching did not speak
as a silent tear ran down his cheek
and thru his mind the memories ran
of the moments they walked and ran
in the sand hand in hand
but now her eyes were so terribly cold
4 he would neva again have her 2 hold
they watched in silence as he bent near
and wispered the words... i luv u in her ear
he touched her face and started 2 cry
as he put on his ring and wanted 2 die
and just then the wind began 2 blow
as they lowered her cascet into the snow
this is wut happens to man alive
wen friends let friends drink and drive

Johnny
Mommy.. Johnny brought a gun to school
, He told his friends that it was cool,
And when he pulled the trigger back,
It shot with a great crack.
Mommy, I was a good girl,
I did What I was told,
I went to school,
I got straight A's,
I even got the gold!
But Mommy,
when I went school that day,
I never said good-bye,
I'm sorry Mommy, I had to go,
But Mommy, please don't cry.
When Johnny shot the gun,
He hit me and another,
And all because Johnny,
Got the gun from his older brother.
Mommy, please tell Daddy;
That I love him very much,
And please tell Chris; my boyfriend;
That it wasn't just a crush.
And tell my little sister;
That she is the only one now,
And tell my dear sweet grandmother;
I'll by waiting for her now,
And tell my wonderful friends;
That they always were the best;
Mommy, I'm not the first,
I'm no better than the rest.
Mommy, tell my teachers;
I won't show up for class,
And never to forget this,
And please don't let this pass.
Mommy, why'd it have to be me?
No one deserves this, Mommy, warn the others,
Mommy I left without a kiss.
And Mommy tell the doctors;
I know they really did try,
I think I even saw a doctor,
Trying not to cry.
Mommy, I'm slowly dying,
With a bullet in my chest,
But Mommy please remember,
I'm in heaven with the rest.
Mommy I ran as fast as I could,
When I heard that crack,
Mommy, listen to me if you would,
I wanted to go to college,
I wanted to try things that were new,
I guess I'm not going with Daddy,
On that trip to the new zoo.
I wanted to get married,
I wanted to have a kid,
I wanted to be an actress,Mommy,
I wanted to live.
But Mommy I must go now,
The time is getting late,
Mommy, tell my Chris,
I'm sorry but I had to cancel the date.
I love you Mommy,
I always have,
I know; you know it's true,
And Mommy all I wanted to say is,
"Mommy, I love you."

Daddy's Special Day

Her hair was up in a ponytail
Her favorite dress tied with a bow.
Today was Daddy's Day at school,
And she couldn't wait to go.
But her mommy tried to tell her,
That she probably should stay home.
Why the kids might not understand,
If she went to school alone.
But she was not afraid;
She knew just what to say.
What to tell her classmates
Of why he wasn't there today.
But still her mother worried,
For her to face this day alone.
And that was why once again,
She tried to keep her daughter home.
But the little girl went to school,
Eager to tell them all.
About a dad she never sees
A dad who never calls.
There were daddies along the wall in back,
for everyone to meet.
Children squirming impatiently,
Anxious in their seats.
One by one the teacher called,
A student from the class.
To introduce their daddy,
As seconds slowly passed.
At last the teacher called her name,
Every child turned to stare.
Each of them was searching,
For a man who wasn't there.
"Where's her daddy at?"
She heard a boy call out.
"She probably doesn't have one,"
Another dared to shout.
And from somewhere near the back,
She heard a daddy say,
"Looks like another deadbeat dad,
Too busy to waste his day."
The words did not offend her,
As she smiled up at her Mom.
And looked back at her teacher,
Who told her to go on.
And with hands behind her back,
Slowly she began to speak.
And out from the mouth of a child,
Came words incredibly unique.
"My Daddy couldn't be here,
Because he lives so far away.
But I know he wishes he could be,
since this is such a special day.
And though you cannot meet him,
I wanted you to know. All about my daddy,
And how much he loves me so.
He loved to tell me stories
He taught me to ride my bike.
He surprised me with pink roses,
And taught me to fly a kite.
We used to share fudge sundaes
,And ice cream in a cone.
And though you cannot see him,
I'm not standing here alone.
"Cause my daddy's always with me,
Even though we are apart
I know because he told me,
He'll forever be in my heart"
With that, her little hand reached up,
And lay across her chest.
Feeling her own heartbeat,
Beneath her favorite dress.
And from somewhere in the crowd of dads,
Her mother stood in tears.
Proudly watching her daughter,
Who was wise beyond her years.
For she stood up for the love
Of a man not in her life.
Doing what was best for her,
Doing what was right.
And when she dropped her hand back down,
Staring straight into the crowd.
She finished with a voice so soft,
But its message clear and loud.
I love my daddy very much,
He's my shining star.
And if he could, he'd be here,
But heaven's just too far.
You see he was a fireman
And died just this past year
When airplanes hit the towers
And taught Americans to fear.
But sometimes when I close my eyes,
It's like he never went away."
And then she closed her eyes,
And saw him there that day.
And to her mother's amazement,
She witnessed with surprise.
A room full of daddies and children,
All starting to close their eyes.
Who knows what they saw before them,
Who knows what they felt inside.
Perhaps for merely a second,
they saw him at her side.
"I know you're with me Daddy,"
To the silence she called out.
And what happened next made believers,
Of those once filled with doubt.
Not one in that room could explain it,
For each of their eyes had been closed.
But there on the desk beside her,
was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose.
And a child was blessed,
if only for a moment,
By the love of her shining bright star.
And given the gift of believing,
That heaven is never too far.

Jenny was so happy about the house they had found. For once in her life 'twas on the right side of town. She unpacked her things with such great ease. As she watched her new curtains blow in the breeze. How wonderful it was to have her own room. School would be starting; she'd have friends over soon. There'd be sleep-overs, and parties; she was so happy It's just the way she wanted her life to be. On the first day of school, everything went great. She made new friends and even got a date! She thought, "I want to be popular and I'm going to be, Because I just got a date with the star of the team!" To be known in this school you had to have clout, And dating this guy would sure help her out. There was only one problem stopping her fate. Her parents had said she was too young to date. "Well I just won't tell them the entire truth. They won't know the difference; what's there to lose?" Jenny asked to stay with her friends that night. Her parents frowned but said, "All right." Excited, she got ready for the big event But as she rushed around like she had no sense, She began to feel guilty about all the lies, But what's a pizza, a party, and a moonlight ride? Well the pizza was good, and the party was great, But the moonlight ride would have to wait. For Dan was half drunk by this time. But he kissed her and said that he was just fine. Then the room filled with smoked and Dan took a puff. Jenny couldn't believe he was smoking that stuff. Now Dan was ready to ride to the point But only after he'd smoked another joint. They jumped in the car for the moonlight ride, Not thinking that he was too drunk to drive. They finally made it to the point at last, And Dan started trying to make a pass. A pass is not what Jenny wanted at all (and by a pass, I don't mean playing football.) "Perhaps my parents were right....maybe I am too young. Boy, how could I ever, ever be so dumb." With all of her might, she pushed Dan away: "Please take me home, I don't want to stay." Dan cranked up the engine and floored the gas. In a matter of seconds they were going too fast. As Dan drove on in a fit of wild anger, Jenny knew that her life was in danger. She begged and pleaded for him to slow down, But he just got faster as they neared the town. "Just let me get home! I'll confess that I lied. I really went out for a moonlight ride." Then all of a sudden, she saw a big flash. "Oh God, Please help us! We're going to crash!" She doesn't remember the force of impact. Just that everything all of a sudden went black. She felt someone remove her from the twisted rubble, And heard, "call an ambulance! These kids are in trouble! Voices she heard...a few words at best. But she knew there were two cars involved in the wreck. Then wondered to herself if Dan was all right, And if the people in the other car was alive. She awoke in the hospital to faces so sad. "You've been in a wreck and it looks pretty bad." These voices echoed inside her head, As they gently told her that Dan was dead. They said "Jenny, we've done all we can do. But it looks as if we'll lose you too." "But the people in the other car!?" Jenny cried. "We're sorry, Jenny, they also died." Jenny prayed, "God, forgive me for what I've done I only wanted to have just one night of fun." "Tell those people's family, I've made their lives dim, And wish I could return their families to them." "Tell Mom and Dad I'm sorry I lied, And that it's my fault so many have died. Oh, nurse, won't you please tell them that for me?" The nurse just stood there-she never agreed. But took Jenny's hand with tears in her eyes. And a few moments later Jenny died. A man asked the nurse, "Why didn't you do your best To bid that girl her one last request?" She looked at the man with eyes so sad. "Because the people in the other car were her mom and dad." This story is sad and unpleasant but true, So young people take heed, it could have been you.

PLEASE IF YOU FEEL LIKE SUICIDE OR SUMTHIN DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!

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I'm 12 and i like to watch soap operas... am i weird??

no, wheneva sum in my family is watchin 1, instead of goin upstairs in my to watch sumthin else, i watch the soap opera's wit the fam

sum of them are intersting, im 13 turnin 14 REAL soon, and i like 'em

your so not weird

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Hey...
What does the word modest mean? Is that a good thing if you are modest? Thanks!!

if ya wanna kno the real definition, then go to www.dictionary.com
but it's like when ur really pretty or really good at sumthin and u don't brag

yea i would consider being modest a good thing

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i dance alot (about 12 hours a week) .. does this have anything to do with my not having my period yet because of heavy exercise?? that's what my friend said and i want to know if it's true

yea it's part of the reason

u also have to EAT! not so much as to where ur overweight, but u hafta eat, i was aneorexic for a while, and my DR said that had effect on y i haven't gotten my period, well why i didn't have my period, but now that i've started to eat again...
anyways, it also depends on ur age

if ur 16 or older, SEE A DOCTOR, but when ur really active, it has an effect

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is this a good poem:
Surrounded by friends, but she has none of her own, shes in a crowded room, but feels so alone.

Late one night she was lying in her bed, tear drops falling, thoughts running through her head.

Her hopes and dreams and she cried until she could no more.

Home she could no longer stay, so she ran far away, she left her quiet home that night, she went down the street and out of sight.

She didnt see the car until it was too late. she felt all emotions at once. Pain. Love. Hate.

Now shes somewhere where everyone cares and the streets are paved with gold. She looks down from heaven, shining her light upon the young and old.

So if you have a friendship that is strong and true, then guard it with your life, unlike the girl who spread her wings and flew.

did you like it?
i need advice.

that was so sad :'(

BUT REALLY GOOD, hey if you publish it at www.poems.com (i think thats the site) u could win $1,000 or $5,000, or $10,000 i forgot how much

but there's sum poem site where you could win $$$$$
and i SO think u have that potential!! :):):)

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what would u do if your son was at home. Crying all alone on the bedroom floor because he's hungry and the only way to feed is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money.

i know u posted this atleast 3 months ago, BUT WHO SINGS THAT, i haven't heard that song in SOO long, but i LOVE it, i was just wonderin who sings it

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is rub on tan bad for u?

lets just say a PALE WHITE guy friend of mine tried it, and the nxt day he showed up at skool ORANGE, it was pretty fun, not for him but it gave all of us a laff hehehe

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Im a 29 yr old guy and I found my dogs stuck butt ot butt one day. i called up tha vet and he said they she gona have puppies.. and that i need to take rectal temp. so its kinda hard to do that without the dog running away. so i decided tha easiest way was to hold her and strap the thermometer to my penis. well in amids of this my wife walks in. I tried to explain but she didnt buy it. She either wants counceling or a divorce. Im too embarrased to go to counceling.. can someone please helpp me?

hehe, funny
Get a Divorce
take the dog
and the house
and the money
leave her wit nuttin
JP JP
well im assumin this is all made up
if it ain't the u have sum SERIOUS probs, go to councilin wit a fake name or sumthin

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Do you think diet pills really work? If so what kind is the best to take? Thanks

usually they dont work

and if u wanna watch a paid programming commercial on diet pills, u would realize that in SMALL WHITE print, it says only works if u excersise and eat healthy.. what would be the point in taking the pills??

i say ur best off excersising or sumthin

Hope I Helped
Check Out my inbox for anything!!

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i think ur backround is really cool
where did u get it?

im pretty sure the site is

http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/

Hope I Helped

im glad ya like the backround!!

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hey, i like the advice u give, so im askin u

if ur 13 and haven't had ur period does that make u weird?
it's almost as if outta all my friends, im the only person that doesn't have it

nah, i got mine just a week or so before my 13th birthday

just think, i have a friend wh didn't get it until she turned 15, wait about 2 years, then consult a doctor

Hope I Helped :)

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