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Hey Everyone :) I'm Kate and a level 2 mod on here. I've had this account since July 2004, so I've been on here since I was 13! Wow ... crazy for me to think how long ago that was. I will admit I don't check in as often as I once did, but being away at college, being in a sorority, and having a job when I'm not at school is very time consuming. I still try to help out as much as possible, and if you send me a question I WILL answer it. This site helped me a LOT when I was in high school and had a lot of questions, and I'm here to help anyone who needs it :) Feel free to write in my forum or send me a question any time!

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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom?

no your not bein an 'overprotective mom'
your lettin him kno that u care dearly about him

it's good that u care, don't worry about wut his friends think, u care about him, and if he hasn't noticed wut he's doin is illegal, and he could get in trouble
u just have his best interests at heart(sounds like a mom, but it's just a caring girlfriend!)

u love him and want wuts best for him, he's the man in ur life and u want him to be okay

well idk if thats how u feel, but thats how i feel about my guy joel!

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Whats the average weight if your 5`1 - 5`2 ish.

http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm

go to that site, type in ur high n weight, it'll tell u ur BMI, then u can look at the chart and see if ur underweight normal overweight or obese

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am i considered over weight if i'm 5'2" and 120 lb.? i'm not fat fat, but i have a gut. my thighs are big too, but my arms and legs aren't.

your perfectly normal, but if u think that u look overweight, then work out, run or walk anywhere from an half hour to an hour every day, or every other day!!

but don't let any1 tell u ur oveweight, cuz ur not.. im ur height and i weigh the same as u! were good, actually u'd still be normal if u gained 10-14 pounds hehe DON'T gain it, but if u wanted to gain weight u can still gain 10lbs and be normal weight!! isn't it just great how life works lol!!
Hope I Helped!!

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does anybody have any idea what 'You can't fight fire with ruby lipstick' means?

i think it means the same thing as u can't fight fire wit fire, prolly because they are almost the same color, or it means u can't fighte fire wit blood, since RUBY lipstick is like a blood color

im really not sure
just givin an opinion

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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him!

it's called abuse(not trin to say that in a rude tone)

u need to inform authority whether it be cops parents or a friends parents, or a totally trusted nayber!!!

he needs to be taken care of, maybe he has anger manegment, maybe not, but sumthin caused him to, IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT, just let sum1 in higher authority know, and he will be taken care of, u have to do this for your protection!!!!

also, is he old enuff to know wut he's doin is wrong, if so u need to let sum1 know IMMEDIATELY

so they can see the bruises and so they'll believe u

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Am i considered fat if i am 5 foot 4 and i weigh 195 lbs? i know i dont look it and i do have a lot of muscle in ym arms and legs from playing sports. Am i considered over wieght or not?

technicly, that would be considered overweight

but because you have muscles, and muscles weigh more then fat, then it mite just be the muscles

if u look like ur not overweight, like if u have abs, and/or ur calfs and biceps are really strong, then it's just muscle

but since u also kno u don't look it, i wouldn't worry about it

but next time u go to the doctors for a physical, ask

Hope This Helped!!

go to this site, and look at ur height and weight, and it will tell u if ur over or not

http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm

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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks!

i doubt that it would be damaging, but even if it was, ur eyelashes grow back

i like to pull ot eyelashes, cuz when u blow them u make a wish... just like birfday candles hehehe

Hope i helped!!

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wuts the normal weight for a 13 year old and 5'-5'1?

around 100lbs-120lbs

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what does cybering mean?

using words to have sex over the internet

like sayin to 1 person
im givin u head
and him sayin back im eatin u out

stuff like that!!

like 69in over the internet

hope thats sum wut of a help

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Oh, gosh! I have a canker sore, but I forgot about it yesterday after I had already given my boyfriend head. Should I be worried about him developing Herpes or anything else?

no, kanker sores aren't that big of a deal, i have about 2 or 3 in my mouth, then again i just got braces a week ago, but it shouldn't matter, if ur REALLY SUPER DUPER worried, then talk to ur mom or dad, or gaurdian or w/e

After Feedback-thanks, also i have stuff that helps gettin rid of it, it's called...
Colgate Peroxyl (hydrogen peroxide) Antiseptic Oral Cleanser

u can either get it from an orthodontist, or u can get it at a loval drug store like CVS Walgreens Eckard, u swish with it, it's just like mouth wash, except it helps irritations in the mouth!!

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ok i dont know why but my first page on my column has like disappeared?!? is there a way to bring it back??
ill rate ya if it helps
*Melody

it's either because of ur text
or if u scroll all the way down, then maybe u answered so many questions, and it went to a dif page

gimme the site to ur column, and ill let ya kno!

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i weigh 92 ponds and im 5 foot 3... am i over weight? or under weight?

gain anywhere between 8, and 18 pounds and u'll be good

u wanna weigh atleast 100, im about ur height, and i weigh 110, thats what u should way, BUT NUTHIN UNDER 100!!!!!!!!!!

check out my comments below
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^^there's a message inscribed in all of that^^

if u can't find all the words, then it says... u need to eat otherwise u could die from malnutrition

lotz of people in my family are doctors, and thats wut they told me!!

Hope this helped
tho there is a pointless part in it!!

sry for makin it so long!!

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if you were talking about your skin and spots and all that, what would you're 't-zone' be?

i ko u have enuff answers, but o well u get to hear mine too.. UR SO LUCKY tehee tehee

it's ur forhead nose and chin

hope this helped

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i just won tickets to go and see the "special sneak preview" of "I, robot"... are the tickets for a PREVIEW? or for the movie itself? please answer this soon soon soon! (i rate people)

it's pretty much the whole movie, or atleast it should be, i think if sum1 wants to se previews, then they'd watch em on tv for free

I WANNA SEE THAT MOVIE SO BAD, when u see it, lemme kno if it's any good!!

Afterwords: I saw it, it was so good!!! i loved will smith, dang he looks good in that movie lol

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Are monkeys really cool? or is that just your opinion?

they apart from dogs.puppies are my favorite aminal!! (animal i kno, i pronounce it aminal, so thats how i spell it lol)

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Is there any way to get ride of a pimple FAST???
HURRY I NEED TO GET RIDE OF IT BEFORE FRIDAY!!!

whitening toothpaste REALLY works, atleast for me

u can also try products like clinique, or any other acne medicine

Hope this helps!!

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okay...i dont kno how to put a picture or make a cute backround if u know how please tell me ( i rate good)


confused idiot

http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net

i think thats the site, if u check out my inbox then i have it down sumwhere

but anyways once u get to the site, u copy the link to whichever backround u like, then u go to edit settings, and find towards the bottom page backround URL, or sumthin like that
u paste the backround
get font colors that will look good wit it..(a whole dif story)
and u click submit, then go to Your Advice Column, and see how it looks, if ya like it keep it, if ya don't change it

Hope That Helped, sry it's kinda long, if u need help, i do that to my column almost every 2 or 3 days, so it's all good

o and to get a pic, there will be another section in edit settings, and click browse and then find one u like
hit submit, and if it says it's bigger then 15k or sumthin like that, then it didn't work, and u hafta go back and find another!

any questions or if ur a lil confused on wut i've said check my inbox and ask me

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what does 69 mean cuz all my friends say it and im too embarassed to say anything

two ppl givin oral sex at the same time, think of the number sideways, guy eats out girl, girl gives head
nuttin to be embarassed about, once my friend though i was gunna rite that in her yr book, and i aws like idk wut it means, and she explained it to me!!

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im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!!

age doesn't really matter

as long as yall both like each other
i say go for it, and ask him out, i don't think there's anything wrong with askin a guy out, or u can just tell him how u feel, and if he likes u, then u can be a couple

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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do?

i would dump him
if sum1 tried to use my relationship to do sumthin bad like drugs, he'd be gone like yesterdays garbage

if he loved you, then he would'nt try to pressure u into sumthin u don't wanna do

either explain to him how u feel and give him a chance, or do wut i would do, and dump him

There are pleanty of fish in the sea, GO FISHIN lol

hope this helped ya atleast a lil bit!!

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