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ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...

ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.

please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms

ok that doesnt make sence that he told you that you were spoiled.. i mean you said you dont get paid but you earn that stuff you want by doing it which i think is fair, its like working for what you want, like a reward. I dont think your spoild. Unless its like you do that stuff around the house and get a car lol
h.i.h.

have you ever had a girl you really liked but she didnt know? and you knew she didnt like you like that? what should i do

i felt that way about a guy so i can realate. What helps though is talking to that person. And maybe [you never know] she might actually like you too. But just doesnt show it as much.

i really wanna lose weight, i have NO idea how....&& my friends && twin say i dont need to, please help, im 5'5 && i weigh 110, i really need help

i think your friend and twin are right. You are at a normal weight. Why would you want to look skinnyer? Im sure you look absolutly fine. But if your really un happy about your weight then maybe a tone up would be better than loosing weight. So you could try excercising. Maybe running or going to the gym. Even playing sports helps.

My friend is throwing a party and invited my crush. The thing is my friend said that I have to tell my crush by the end of the party that I like him or she will. I know I have to tell him I just don't want to deal with the potential heartbreak right now. Should I talk to my friend and hopefully convince her not to do it or just tell my crush? Oh and if I tell him his ex is probably gonna be close by since she's invited too... I rate high for good advice! Thanks!

well i would tell him when your ready. And maybe if you do go to the party you two might axidently be alone and then it would just feel right to tell him then. But i mean your friend shouldnt be forcing you wether or not to tell him or not.

I've had an eating disorder for lets say longer than a year. (anorexia) I finally got over it this summer. I'm worried about school though and how my friends will react because i wasn't eating lunch all last year. Will they make a big deal out of it and will i end up starting it ALL OVER AGAIN????? I RATE HIGH

one thing you have to do is not worry about what other people think. But i mean yea they might notice but they'd probably be glad that your actually eating. So don't pay too much attention if they take it in a bad way.

who sings the song that goes like :

cuz i got one hand in my pocket..

and what is the name of the song?

alanna morisset. im not sure if thats the correct way to spell it but yea she sings that song :D

about a month ago my boyfriend and I slept together. recently, i've noticed a ton of crazy things. my boobs are really soft and they hurt alot; my stomach randomly gets sharp pains in it or tingly type things, i have really bad headaches, i sleep more than usual and i kinda pee alot. i think i'm pregnant. my friend is buying me a test so i'll know tomorrow for sure. but is a month long enough that it will actually detect anything? please help. i'm 15 and im kinda lost at this whole situation.

it is possible that you're regnant. But i would take the pregnancy test to be sure. And it should pick it up after a month so good luck!!

is that a good age to babysit? Because I have had like 2 years of experiance with my 2year old nephew!

you can actually start at 11, but most parents usually go with 13 and older. So you could actually start now.

i really wanna be a singer when i grow up but im kinda shy and dont like to sing infront of alot of people. can you please help me and tell me how i could get over that ?

i dont really like to sing infront of people, but once your on stage you cant actually see them, so that helps alot. I my self love to sing. But i usually get really nervus infont of people, but thats just me. Alot of people have it actually. But try singing on stage with the lites on. You wont be able to see anyone.
h.i.h.

Does everyone find someone that they love and that loves them?

well i believe that theres someone out there for everyone. And it just takes time to find that person. I guess it depends on what you believe in. But i think there is :)

is anyone else here sick of the people who will say they'll rate and they don't.. or the ones who are to lazy to find a song title on google.. god it's annoying! if you agree answer i'll rate ; ) haha for real though

lol! well yea it can get annoying sometimes... but i mean itsnt it true that some ppl cant reasearch? :P.. its kinda sad in a way. I havent ran into too many that said they would rate and they dont.. but of course i dont really pay too much attention to that.. but w.e
h.i.h.

How does anorexia harm you or your body? I know pukeing will stain your teeth but what else?? cuz if thats it, then whats the harm right?

well first of all and could lead to an addiction. You'll use it as a habbit and then youll start to loose weight. and once you get so addicted to it you can get too skinny and go to the hospital and even die for it. Plus its not healthy either..
h.i.h.

I really like this guy but my sister says that he's hers. I said that i liked him first and now that I trying to get him to go on a date with me, I don't want her to get in the way. She just likes him because he's cute, but i like him for his personality. She never even talks to him like I do.

maybe you should talk to her about it and tell hew that you actually like him, not just because hes cute. And if u did wanna go on a date with him just say that your going to the movies with a few friends. Or where ever you would go. And i'm sure she would leave you alone.

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/leebyon/detail?.dir=/7d58&.dnm=c37a.jpg&.src=ph&.tok=phZPcWDBnyid3iuz

this is a pic of me...im in the middle...do you think im pretty or ugly...be honest.

i think your pretty. You definatly look natural. Which is a good thing :)

there is a girl. she doesnt know how i feel about her, i think. she's been helping me boost my self confidence. i want to show her i appreciate it. i just dont know what to do.
help.

the easyest thing to do is just tell her. Or maybe start a conversation and thank her for helping you and all that, then tell her how you feel. You could also go and hang out somewhere and start up a convo and then tell her.
h.i.h.

Please only answer this question if you have read the book!!!

I was wondering how many people liked the book(Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince) because i work at a bookstore and we have really been wondering what people think of the book!!!

thankees

(i rate high!!)

well i havent finished it yet but from what ive read so far i love it!! its awesome! just like the other 5 :D!! lol

ive finished it a few months ago now. its really good!!! but sad but exciting. you have to read it :D

Does tooth paste really work on zits?? And if so how do you apply it? Thanks!

well u just dab a bit on the zit over night and itll clear in the morning. Yes as crazy as it sounds it does work.

Alright I want whoever is reading this right now to kno that I am not anorexic or balemic and will never become either of those. My problem is that my friends and family say that I am really thin and that I am so lucky... you know all those encouraging things... I feel like I'm kind of chubby and that I put on weight Im 5"4 and I weigh 106 am i overweight? If so are there any healthy ways to lose weight quickly. I'll rate anyone who gives me a good answer very well
thank you

ok that is a perfect weight for your height. theres no need for you to loose weight or youll start looking like a skeleton. You could maybe even gain like 2 lbs. But i mean the weight you are now is perfect. Your not fat.

how much should i charge when i am babysitting?
i babysit 3 children ages, 9, 5, and 2 and i am 13 yrs old. i also babysit my cousins that are 4 and 1. how much i was thinking like 3$ an hr per kid but then i saw an episode of full house and DJ babysat and only charged 2.50 an hr and those shows are from like forever ago so now 3$ per hr per kid seems too low! help! i dont want to be rude to the kids parents and ask for too much *remember i am only 13*

well i charge 5$ an hour but i mean the parents usually give me more. with 3 kids i usually get paid around 9 - 10$ an hour. and for 2 maybe like 5-7$.
h.i.h.

all off my friends dont like my girlfriend but i really like her, what should i do

well do you know why they dont like her? Maybe you could try talking to them about it. And if you really like her what they think shouldn't matter.
h.i.h.

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