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Question Posted Friday July 29 2005, 6:25 pm

i really wanna be a singer when i grow up but im kinda shy and dont like to sing infront of alot of people. can you please help me and tell me how i could get over that ?

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xxjabsbabigrlxx answered Saturday July 30 2005, 2:35 am:
Try singing in front of a bunch of friends an when u get comphortable with that go to karoke things to try singing..as soon as ur ready for that..try doing birthday parties and weddings it will help you

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2cute4words answered Friday July 29 2005, 11:07 pm:
well i had the same problem....you just hav to get someone you kno and really trust other than your parents, and sing infront of them...then start singing infront of your other friends and you will get used to singing in no time :)

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XxKaTiExLeIgHxX answered Friday July 29 2005, 10:38 pm:
Wow, Im a singer too (and want to be when im older)and I used to have the same problem. ok first Sing by yourself, Then start singing in a mirror. Then once your cool with that sing in the car with you parents, then once your fine sing along with friends. soon you'll be singing everywhere you go and youll love it. But you have to have confidence. Once you are ok with all that, try out for a talent show. youll be singing in front of people in no time!

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Friday July 29 2005, 8:55 pm:
i dont really like to sing infront of people, but once your on stage you cant actually see them, so that helps alot. I my self love to sing. But i usually get really nervus infont of people, but thats just me. Alot of people have it actually. But try singing on stage with the lites on. You wont be able to see anyone.
h.i.h.
<3simone

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JustAskAlli answered Friday July 29 2005, 7:45 pm:
Its called stage fright. I honestly don't know how people overcome it, but eventually when they get used to the fact that their singing in front of people a lot, their used to it, and the fright goes away. Try singing for your friends and show them how good you are, build some confidence, then step by step, you'll eventually get more people.

&hearts; Alli*

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Friday July 29 2005, 7:29 pm:
&hearts; OKAY WELL FIRST START OFF SINGING TO YOURSELF FOR AWHILE LIKE IN THE SHOWER OR SOMETHING (HAHA) THEN START SINGING TO YOUR PARENTS, THEN YOUR FRIENDS..KEEP GROWING. THEN FINALLY TAKE SINGING LESSONS & YOUR TEACHER WILL HELP YOU OVERCOME THAT. AFTER AWHILE IM SURE YOUR GET OVER IT & THEN PEOPLE WILL REALIZE HOE BEAUTIFUL YOUR VOICE IS & THEY WILL WANNA HAVE YOU SING FOR THEM! SO EVENTUALLY YOU'LL GET USED TO IT & YOULL START LOVING TO SING INFORNT OF PEOPLE! HOPE I HELPED.. WISH I COULD SING =/ LOL YOUR LUCCKY. xoxo X0-Lauren

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KristinaD10 answered Friday July 29 2005, 7:15 pm:
you should sing in front of like stuffed animals haha then ur parents and then some friends maybe...gradually sing infront of more people as time goes on..hope i helped



xooxxo

tina

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Bridget_Bee10692 answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:57 pm:
You sound just like me. At my school we do musicals and I really wanted to make one but I am really afraid to sing in people. So one night we went to a hockey game and there was a contest. You had to sing kareoke. I listened for a little and then I decided to go for it. I didn't win but hey, I lost my stage fright and got confident... every night sing in your bed, the shower, and in front of your family, so when a special once in a lifetime opporatunity comes along, you won't turn it down! Hope that helps...

Bee

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gUeSsHoO278 answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:43 pm:
sing in the shower...infront of your friends....when your alone.

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piinkqlitter answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:33 pm:
Hey, well im rockng that same boat, but im not shy, listen to get over your fear, you need to be more presentable, try talking to diffrent people in yur school, try out for the school talent show, i know its hard, i started singing in 2nd grade for every talent show i got, and now im not shy. i know it seems wierd but just try it.

hope it helps.
&hearts; Tay

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dmbabie answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:33 pm:
well, what you should do is do some research and look for a place close to your town where you can get singing lessons. once you're confident about your skills, it will be a lot easier to sing in front of people. also, try going to music/singing classes, you will have to sing in front of people, but it won't be a big crowd, or try to participate in a musical. little things like that will eventually help you get over your fear.
&hearts; &hearts; &hearts; daniella

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rikatree2375 answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:29 pm:
Sounds to me like you should get a voice teacher to instruct you. My sister is going to major in voice performance next year in college so i understand your fears!!! You can conquer your shyness by performing more!!! (i'm also in music so i know a lot about stage fright) Start by singing for a few people and build from there. A performer can't afford to be shy so take courage and just go with it!!!

Disciple

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