I've liked this boy for a year now. Actually, loved him. We've gone out three times. The bad part is..hes NOT a good kid. He's done somethings waayyy out of the ordinary. But it seems even if he was mean to me or something, I'll always love him. All three times it didnt work out. He dumped his girlfriend because she didnt wanna go far with him and i told him that was rediculous. The thing is, when i talk to him sometimes he'll make me uncomfortable by saying its not him after i talk to him. If i tell him i still have a lot of feelings for him..he'll tell everyone and then maybe go out with me. Then everyone would hate me for it. I'm just so confused i really need help to get over him and stop thinking about him.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MummuM answered Saturday July 30 2005, 12:32 am: I know how you feel, been there; done that. It's really confusing, because no matter how hard you try to convince yourself that he's a bad person, you can't. I think the best thing to do would be to keep your feelings inside and try your hardest to get over him. I know it's going to be hard and it'll take time, but you'll get through it if you're strong enough and set your mind to it. Remember the good times you had with this boy, but don't forget the bad (especially if they are really bad). If this boy hurt you by cheating or lying, he's not worth your time at all. Like I say once a cheater always a cheater. If you can't trust him, you got nothing in a relationship. If you're not yourself around this boy and you aren't comfortable with him, he's not the guy for you. You need a guy that you can be yourself around, he won't let you down and he'll always be there for you. Believe me hun, you can do better! There are loads of guys out there that are waiting for you, one that will make you so happy beyond words. You just have to start searching; he's out there.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:43 pm: alright do you really care what everyone thinks?? i mean come on dont let what people say to you get to you tell them its not there bussiness to tell you who to date and who not to say it in a nice way tho. and tell him how you feel about him thats what i would do! good luck <3 Ashlee [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
twistedsister17 answered Friday July 29 2005, 7:05 pm: Okay, lets get this straight.....Bad boys rock. Not ones that are into slutz though. So my advice is to go up to him and slap him and walk away. Thats what i would do. he sounds like a jerk. I'm serious though, you don't wanna be with a guy like that. [ twistedsister17's advice column | Ask twistedsister17 A Question ]
maleman64 answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:51 pm: You should move on. this guy seems like a total jerk. you need to let go of those feelings and find somebody who'll treat you the way you need to be treated. [ maleman64's advice column | Ask maleman64 A Question ]
shake answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:44 pm: Then you need to know he's trash. Know you wont go anywhere with this person. You've already tried 3 times and failed 3 times. What would a fourth time be significant for?
It wouldn't.
It'd just be another failed attempt at a failed relationship.
rikatree2375 answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:35 pm: First thing to do, TRY to get over him!!! If you're admitting he's not that great of a guy then he probably doesn't deserve you. And if you have already dated him three times and unsuccessfully, chances are you two just aren't meant to be. Try hanging out with some other GUY friends and you might forget about him. Give some other guys a chance!!!
hckypuck answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:35 pm: you hafta to keep remembering all the things that make him not worth you being with him. all the times hes made you sad or mad . if someone like that is making your life an emotional rollercoaster than you dont need him .
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