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It seems almost like my relationship with my boyfriend is all centered around lust at this point. We are very drawn to each other physically and although we do connect emotionally, I feel like we need to connect more emotionally. How do I make sure our one month relationship doesn't turn into something sexually based? (link)
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Well, do you want an honest answer or do you
want me to make it sound good? I'll go for honest.
If you have only been dating a month and your
relationship is all about sex...thats what it is
probably going to be.
You really need to establish an emotional bond
and friendship BEFORE you start a sexual relationship with anyone. You can have a serious
talk with him about what you feel is lacking
in your relationship. It sure doesn't hurt to
try and it will probably help somewhat. If it
doesn't then you'll have to decide if you can live with what you have already. :)
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Well, theres this guy who i REALLY REALLY like. Well hes always at my house, and im always on his lap on parties, and were always laying on each other. We go to the movies, just us, and we hold hands when we walk, he puts his arm around me, and we act like a couple. You'd think he likes me, right? Well, i did too, until he started talking about this slut at school that he thought was beautiful, and he loved her. Well, he kept on acting like a couple, but we never kissed, like made out. He has kissed my neck when i sit on his lap, and we have kissed, just never full blown tongue kiss. He tells all his friends he likes me, but what about the slut. He always looks at her, and shes been starting to flirt with him and he flirts back. Does he like ME, or the SLUT HOEBAG? (link)
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Looks like you need to talk. He sees you as a friend and nothing more at the moment. Perhaps he is trying to get some kind of reaction out of you by telling you about this other girl. Sometimes guys can be insecure. Let him know your interested in being more than friends. :)
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I have a steady boyfriend and we have had sex many times. I just don't feel a spark though. We want to try new techniques and stuff. Any ideas? (link)
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Because most of our users are young teens we don't
give details on sex techniques on this site. Here is a search though that will give you ideas. :)
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Remember the guy with the fuckbuddy, the ex, and the current interest.
Heres the update.
Talked to the ex tonight for 4 hours. Shes come around. We dont know the logistics yet but we're going to make it work somehow.
I talked to the current love interest and we parted ways. I will probably never hear from her again. I know I hurt her, but better now than later is the best I can do in that regard.
Fuckbuddy is still up in the air. My ex and I are somewhat open sexually and not jealous, she is going to have someone to keep her sane and I might as well.
Things are pretty well worked out at the moment.
Thank you for your advice. (link)
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You are welcome and I hope it works out for you both. :)
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I have gotten a message from someone to my inbox saying that I sent them a really mean and disrespectful message from a different account... I only have this account and I would never write that. Is there a reason they are accusing me of this? Is anyone else going through this problem as well? thanks so much (link)
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This question was answered in your inbox. About three times. It was answered by the site administrator. He can see that this is your third
account. All others have been banned. I am sure
this one will be as well.
It would be in your best interests to come clean
and admit it. There are all kinds of numbers and
all those good technical things that let him know
exactly where questions come from. Playing the victim doesn't work well in this situation.
I will forward this link to DN. But I know he has already answered this.
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Okay so there is this guy I REALLY LIKKEEE! lets call him "shane" and we are good friends. So i asked my friend "bob" to ask shane if He likes me and if he still likes this girl he has been liking for a while.. My friend sent me the convo so i will re write it ( p.s me, bob and shane where all gonna hang out after this haha )
Bob: Do you like anyone?
Shane: Not really.
Bob: Do you like katie?
Shane: idk.
Bob: Do you still like Dianne?
Shane: no
LIKE WHAT THE HECK IS THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN?!? lol.
Well i didn't even know about that convo till AFTER we all hung out.. And when we where hanging out he would always come VERY close to me, Squish next to me, Put his elbow on my knee, Lean is head on my shoulder
what was all that?
Im so confused.
I just wanna know what this all means (link)
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He means he doesn't know. LOL.
He likes you or you guys wouldn't be friends.
He definitely doesn't like Diane anymore.
So I would take I don't know as a start and run
with it. He didn't say no! Go hang out so he gets
to know you better. :)
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Do you have to visit a Gynocoligist [sp?] when you get birth controll pills? (link)
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To be put on the pill, in the USA anyway, You have to have a pelvic exam and a negative pregnancy test.
This can be done by any doctor who does them.
Family doctors or Gynecologists. As has been
mentioned, free clinics, health departments
and planned parenthood also have doctors who
examine and prescribe them for you. :)
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ok i like this guy and he is like all i want in a guy. he likes me but i dont know if its just cuz he wants sex from me or not and i dont really dont know how to find out. so can some1 answer my question??? (link)
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Don't give him sex. Really, if he sticks around that isn't all he is after. If you have to give it up to keep him around....theres your answer. :)
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Ok so i absolutely HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE!!! this girl and all my friends are friends with her , and she doesnt know what she did (is what she says) but i think she does...
Anywayy, she is annoying and i hate the sound of her voice, the look of her face, and EVERYTHING ABOUT HER! every one keeps on telling me to forgive and forget or they say its all in the past. its really annoying me . what should i do? (link)
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She says she doesn't know? Then tell her.
If you don't like her simply stay as far
away from her as you can.
You probably won't forget whatever she
did anytime soon. Don't let that hate take
over your life though. In a few years you won't
remember or care what she did. Trust me, it
will happen.
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Why is it that me being a teenage mother and going to school plus working atleast 40 hours a week make it so hard to keep a boyfriend? (link)
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Most of your time is spoken for. You know that :)
The fact of the matter is that you are more
mature and more responsible than most guys your age.
This isn't a bad thing at all. Comes when you have a child. When it comes to dating though, most teens don't want that responsibility.
Hang in there. I know it is hard to believe right now but it will change. :)
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is locks of love a scam? (link)
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No, it is not a scam. My son-in-law grows his hair out just for this group. :)
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how do you get over someone? i knw its a simple question but how? thanks in advance x (link)
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As hard and as impossible as it seems to do, the only way to completely get over someone is to get back out there and find a replacement.
I know now might not be the time. But that is the only way. :)
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Like alot of people at my school are saying that I am annoying and that is so not true and I am really upset. So how can I stop being annoying like really or how am I annoying. (link)
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In all honesty if a LOT of people say it, you need to look into it. Not listening isn't the way to go in this case. There are a lot of sites in this search. I'm sure there will be one that can help you out. :)
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i just turned 13 and my penis is 5 inches is that normal? (link)
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http://www.coolnurse.com/penis_size.htm
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I need to find a teacup poodle breeder in Illinios.Perferably near Chicago.
thanks =] (link)
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Check the phone directory for the American Kennel Club. The will tell you how to find a reputable
breeder in your area. :)
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Ok so i got two friends one just broke up with her boyfriend so she starts poppin pills (7) and the other girl wuz tryin to get her to stop poppin em so she grabbed the bottle and starts poppin double(14). They're both my friends but they won't listen to me....what do i do to help them cuz now when they have a problem they just pop pills (link)
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I agree with day tripper. Why on earth would someone start popping double the pills to get the other to stop? They are headed for disaster.
They will be mad for a while but they have a problem. You won't be able to fix this on your own.
Don't even try. Tell an adult who will take this seriously. :)
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I couldn't really pick a category that fit my question very well. Anyway, here it goes: (Bear with me, it will be long.)
I found out about four months ago that I am pregnant. At the time, I was just 15 but I am 16 now. My mom is fine about it, because she and I are very close and she understands me. My dad was upset, but he is better now. My boyfriend is 19 years old. He wants to be fully involved in the baby's life as well as mine.
The main problem is that my dad (Whom I live with; my parents are divorced) is very controlling. He barely even lets me see my boyfriend, and even insists that the baby's last name isn't after the father. I think this entirely unfair.
Anyway, the question is this: My baby is due in May and my boyfriend and I want to live together... We want to have our own apartment, just him, the baby and me. This could be done; he has a good job and I am going to finish school even after the baby is born.
Being that I am a minor, I don't know how I can do this. I want to leave and be with my boyfriend and baby once the baby is born. I know that I am legally considered an adult if we were to be married, but I am too young, aren't I? Is there any way I can move in with my boyfriend? My mom would give me consent, but I highly doubt my dad would. Please help. (link)
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Have the boyfriend get an apartment. You can then get emancipated easily. Having a place to go is the key.
Hubby and I were on our own at 16/17 and we were considered adults since we were married. You can check with city hall, or wherever you get marriage licenses, but I think one parents ok is all that is needed for you to get married.
Married, living together or not, when the baby is born and they bring you that birth certificate
information thing to fill out, you are the one that does that. You can give him the fathers last name. That decision is yours.
If you plan a future with your guy, I advise you to use his last name on the birth certificate.
If you don't, it will cost you lawyers big giant fees to change it later.
I did get married, but whatever you decide...been there done that. Feel free to email me. Address is on my column. Just put advicenators in subject line so I know its not junk mail. :)
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Do you feel it's okay to change your significant other? Let's saying, you liked to drink. Do you think it's okay for your bf/gf to persuade/threaten your relationship for you to stop? Vice versa. Do you think it's okay for you to tell them to stop or make them feel guilty because you don't like it? What if they only drank on special occasions or every other week/month. Is it okay to control them?
I'm curious on your thoughts :] (link)
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Nope. Not as far as their personal habits go anyway.
My reason for this is that in the end it will end up destroying most relationships.
If someone is a drunk you can try to make them stop.
It would be a good thing. But statistics show that
most relationships that started before an alcoholic
stops drinking do not last long after they do. They
are not the same person.
So, if you don't like someones habits, the best thing to do is to stay away from them. They won't change and it will drive you crazy. If they stop
for you, in the end they will resent you. You lose either way. :)
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My boyfriend (age 23, I'm 21) of 4.5 years just got back from a business trip in Chicago & told me while he was out at a bar he did a bodyshot off a bartender. I was pretty upset, but he was confused why. He kept saying "it was at a bar! what's wrong with it!?". But I disagree? Anyways, just wondering what other people's opinion is, if he's right and I'm overreacting, or if its a no-no and I am justified. Thanks! (link)
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I know I would be upset. So, I can't say you are
overreacting. That being said, I also believe that he probably honestly doesn't think it was wrong.
He was just doing what everyone else was doing and
going along with the boys.
You need to talk calmly with him about what you think is appropriate behavior in public. Especially
if this type of business trip will be something he
will be doing very often.
Ask him if its ok for you to lay on a bar and let strange guys do bodyshots off of you. He better
say no! LOL.
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In my quotes section on facebook, I have a lyric from Christina Alguleira, and a quote from the movie Snow White.
These aren't funny quotes, but like, nice ones.
I want to put in the Winnie the Pooh one "If you live to be 100, I want to be 100 minus one day so I never have to live without you," but I already have a disney quote.
That's an example.
Yess, I used to have all my friend's quotes, but then I decided to change it up.
Anyone have any good quotes? [I'd prefer if they weren't just made up, like they could be cited to a source]
Thanks =] (link)
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Some of my favorites....
The world is round and the place which may
seem like the end may also be only the beginning.
~Ivy Baker Priest
If you should die before me, ask if you can bring a friend."
(Stone Temple Pilots)
What I look forward to is continued immaturity followed by death.
Dave Barry
If one dream should fall and break into a
thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again.
Flavia Weedn
You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.
You cannot help small men by tearing down big men.
You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich.
You cannot lift the wage earner by pulling down the wage payer.
You cannot keep out of trouble by spending more than your income.
You cannot further the brotherhood of man by inciting class hatreds.
You cannot establish security on borrowed money.
You cannot build character and courage by taking away a man's initiative and independence.
You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves.
William J. H. Boetcker, 1916 (often attributed
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