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Annoying
Like alot of people at my school are saying that I am annoying and that is so not true and I am really upset. So how can I stop being annoying like really or how am I annoying.
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The only things i can say is think before you act or speak. Look at yourself from another person's point of view. Would you like you? Its not easy to be critical of yourself but school years are tough! You need to self evaluate! Sit back more and stick to the outskirts of conversations and just listen for a while. Dont try and act like somebody else but maybe try and model your personality on someone you admire, like a good friend. BUT NEVER CHANGE WHO YOU ARE!! I dont think that even made sence!
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Stop talking.
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Ok, well a lot of people will say, "Don't listen to them; just keep being yourself and don't change for anyone else; people should like you for who you are, and you shouldn't care what other people think."
Well, I have to disagree. It DOES matter what other people think. No one likes to have people think badly of them. And if there's something you're doing that makes people think badly of you, then there's nothing wrong with changing it!
Yes, it's true that you shouldn't change your basic beliefs or values for someone else; and you shouldn't try to be someone you're not, just to make someone like you. But saying that you should never change ANYTHING is ridiculous. Nobody is perfect; we all have faults. But if we never made an attempt improve ourselves and become better people, we'd just keep making the same unhappy mistakes over and over.
When we correct our mistakes and improve ourselves, it not only makes us more likable, but it usually makes us happier as well!
That said... if you honestly don't know what you're doing that annoys people, maybe you should ask someone. Or think about some people that YOU find annoying; pinpoint what it is that annoys you, and then ask yourself if you do the same thing.
In case it helps, here are some things that a lot of people think are annoying:
People who are really loud/obnoxious
People who act like they know everything or who always have to give their opinion
People who brag or talk about themselves a lot
People who are nosy, ask a lot of personal questions, or always need to know everyone's business
People who try TOO hard make people like them
Think carefully; do you do any of those things?
Once you figure out what people find annoying about you, take some steps to change it. Ask for help from someone if you need it. But try not to feel bad about it. Remember, everyone has faults! The good thing is, we can change them!
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In all honesty if a LOT of people say it, you need to look into it. Not listening isn't the way to go in this case. There are a lot of sites in this search. I'm sure there will be one that can help you out. :)
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Dear annoying,
You don't have to listen to what everyone else says. They can say what ever they want but that does not effect you as a person. If you are curious to know why they say your annoying then ask a good friend or some one you can trust. Take care.
~Diamond
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I personally say, don't listen to them and be who you are. I hate when people ask me to be someone I'm not. Be true to yourself, make youreself happy!
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