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Like alot of people at my school are saying that I am annoying and that is so not true and I am really upset. So how can I stop being annoying like really or how am I annoying. (link)
I personally say, don't listen to them and be who you are. I hate when people ask me to be someone I'm not. Be true to yourself, make youreself happy!


is it possible to fall in love online? or maybe, ...perhaps even like a best friend type of love? is it ridiculous if you've known the person for a long time?
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I have to say that it most definitely is...and here's my reasoning.

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and i met him on myspace. [yea, we've met for real as well, he's been to visit me and I him]I personally think it's easier to fall in love with someone over the internet than it is in person because all you have to base your friendship on is what you know about them and trust. When all you're able to do is talk you end up disclosing so much more to someone than you would with some cute guy or girl you meet in class or something. It's all a matter of discovering who the person is before pretty much anything online.


I'm a 21 year old female, and I sincerely dislike my boyfriend's friends. They all act like douche bags, they treat their girlfriends like dirt (some even cheat on them), and I fail to understand why my boyfriend would want to hang around with guys like this. I would never tell him how I feel on this matter, but it makes me worry that his friends will be a bad influence on him, and it often makes me upset. What can I do about this situation? (link)
Just be honest. It's hard telling your boyfriend "Hey, I think your friends are butt holes." But, if he respects you and appreciates your honesty he's probably going to be cool about it. I mean, don't just be like "Hey, your friends are douche bags and I don't want you to hang out with them" because that would result in negative things, guys react way differently, it's all a matter of how you word things withh them.

I just had this conversation with my boyfriend last night. I was straight up, I'm like "Baby, your friends....they do very stupid stuff....a lot. And I'm not down with that. I'm not telling you to stop hanging out with them, but I'm telling you how I feel about them. You can interpret and act on that any way you want. I'm just letting it out there". He actually took it very well and said that he would be real and talk with them about the problem. Guys have very simple minds, so you have to honest and straight forward with them.

Just be real girl!

Hope that helped. haha =]


I'm 21 and I do have crooked teeth. I've had crooked teeth for quite sometime now. It's something that runs more so on my dad's side of the family so I may have the gene. Anyways, I think I may need braces and am kinda nervous about wearing them. Could someone who has had braces tell me what I would probabily need to expect and how it was with you having braces?

Thanks
Adviceguy158 (link)
Ya know, people are usually very supportive when one gets braces when their older. The only thing you'll have to worry about are those dang cuts you'll get every now and then in your mouth. I had braces all through middle school and my freshman year of high school. I wasn't teased much, but I know adults who have braces and everyone is so happy for them, because they're getting everything together. ya know?! You'll be fine! =]




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