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lust and love
It seems almost like my relationship with my boyfriend is all centered around lust at this point. We are very drawn to each other physically and although we do connect emotionally, I feel like we need to connect more emotionally. How do I make sure our one month relationship doesn't turn into something sexually based?
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A good way to tackle this would be to make the guy wait before you get intimate for a bit.
Not forever dont worry!!
Its just to show how he copes.
If he really cares about you it shouldnt be a problem.
In the meantime, try to spend more time together doing fun things, things you's havent experienced before.
Maybe something as simple as going to the beach and taking a stroll so you's can really connect, or go for a meal and really talk to your boy and try and really get to know him.
Hope this helps :)
xxx
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I went through the same thing. Don't let it happen, because, then it's not really considered a real realationship [in my point of view] Talk to him. Tell him that you want to focus on your emotions towards him, and that you want to maybe get to know him more or something before all of the sexual stuff. If he cares about you, he'll listen, and your relationship should be dandy :]
I hope I helped!
--mcrgirl5
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Well, do you want an honest answer or do you
want me to make it sound good? I'll go for honest.
If you have only been dating a month and your
relationship is all about sex...thats what it is
probably going to be.
You really need to establish an emotional bond
and friendship BEFORE you start a sexual relationship with anyone. You can have a serious
talk with him about what you feel is lacking
in your relationship. It sure doesn't hurt to
try and it will probably help somewhat. If it
doesn't then you'll have to decide if you can live with what you have already. :)
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