Do they sell bathing suits IN THE STORES of victorias secret or pink?
well PINK is in the stores =)
but unfortunately their bathing suits
arent and you have to go online or through
catalog which sucks! ♥
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why do you think people can be cruel to those they love the most?
ohh i think i can answer this one very well =)
this guy liked me and we were friends but i wasnt really sure if i liked him more than a friend and one day he got so mad at me for no reason and told me he never wanted to talk to me again and how he never liked me and all this mean stuff that really hurt but then i find out that he was so mad because he really really liked me, but couldnt have me and i felt soo bad! but they are so cruel because they care about you, they're scared to lose you and they are also mean because they cant get what they want. but if you talk to them you can definately make things better. today i was talking on the phone to him and asked him why he was so mad at me and hated me so much and we worked things out. they just care about you, they dont want to get hurt or they dont want to see YOU get hurt and they dont know any other way to show their feelings! ♥
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im a girl im 13.i grew up with all brothers and only boy cousins.im very rough w/ every1.i have mainly guy friends.ive never had a bf.i just really wana bf.but im ''one of the guys''.they dont think of me as girlfriend material.yes i wear really baggy pants but tight shirts.i snowboard.i wana bethought of as more girly. ~help me~
hii hunnie! well as you can see im a HUGE girly girl so i think i can help you with this one. find some girls that you could hangout with, try and stay away from the guys a little bit i mean you can still talk to them and hangout occassionally but not like all the time. treat yourself to a makeover, wear some makeup do your hair different, wear it down more if you dont already! maybe wear girlier pants!? i hangout with guys all the time so they always see me as just a friend too, and ive never had a boyfriend and people are always like your joking right? but having a boyfriend is alot of work you always have to worry about what they're doing and stuff. but anyways do what i said and if you still need more advice you can ask me and i'll give you more tips or you could IM me on AIM and i'll talk to you more. goodluck babe ♥
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Is it sad that I am 16 and never had a boyfriend? I feel stupid walking through the halls seeing all the couples and knowing that I have yet to experience that. Please let me know if I'm pathetic.
its not sad! ive never had a boyfriend either. and you shouldnt be sad or ashamed of it! guys are complicating believe me ive been through alot. i bet the reason is that your really pretty and you intimidate guys, they think that they will get turned down if they talk to you or ask you out on a date because they think they arent good enough for you. be outgoing if your not, it really helps thing out alot! more guys will see that your not intimidating and that your easy to talk to and fun to be around. just wait a great guy will come around i know everybody probably tells you to wait and i bet you get sick of it because i know i do all the time but i realized that you dont have to be worrying about what is my boyfriend doing right now, is he talking to other girls is he cheating on me, does he really love me? you can enjoy life and a guy will come when you least expect it ♥ your beautiful on the inside and out and dont let ANYONE TELL YOU DIFFERENTLY!
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My story is pretty confusing and sad for me.
Well i would like to say alot of the guys at my school hate me, I dont know why but they do.
One of them, I had sex with.
He sure acted like he didnt hate me back then and then school started and he became an asshole again.
I still liked him, no matter how much of an ass he was to me.
Then after a while, he started randomly being nice to me and talking to me a little bit.
That lasted a whole week, and then he went back to being mean.
Again he tried being nice and then went back to making fun of me and calling me ugly,fat,,bitch,gross,etc.
It made me so sad because i like him so much.
Then his best friend told me , he actually likes me but he wants me to think he hates me and he tries to act mean to me , to be like everyone else.
His friend said not to believe anything he says,just know he likes me and his girlfriend [he has a girlfriend ] alot.
I want to get over him so bad, but at the same time how do I know if his best friend is telling the truth?
I believe it , Because he wouldnt lie.
But if he liked me, how can he be so mean to me?
Lately Ive been noticing hes being twice as mean as he was.
This just makes me so sad,I cant get over him because ive liked him for so long.
What exactly should i do?
aw baby im going through the same thing right now! me and this guy are going through alot! he said he liked me soo much and then one day out of no where he was like your a bitch i never liked you dont talk to me and i was so hurt i didnt know what to do! i tried to make things better because i knew i had to talk to him but he refused to talk to me and he now has a girlfriend and i think that guy is telling you the truth about him still liking you because his friends and my friends both told me he is acting like that because he still likes me and hates seeing me talk to other guys and thinks he wouldnt be able to get me! sweetie i know this guy still likes you, guys are so mean sometimes but we still like them and care for them and deep down they care for you too! what im doing right now is letting things cool off, dont try to talk to him for a little bit and i know how HARD it will be because its hard for me too but you have to make him realize that if he is a jerk to you and you dont talk to him then he is going to miss you and miss out on a great girl! he will start being nice to you and when he is talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him why he was being so mean! if you want to get over him though go hangout with other guys and maybe you will start liking another great guy =) it also helps hanging out with your girls and going shopping, going to movies and getting your mind off GUYS! if you need any more help just IM me if you have aim and i will give you more advice because i have been going through the same situation you are in right now. stay strong babydoll ♥
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15/f
there's this guy that i really like, but he has a girlfriend... but we're still pretty good friends. so this weekend i want to hang out with him and some of my other friends... everyone says that if i invite him over i have to invite over his girlfriend as well, but the thing is that she's a total b**** to me. and i don't know, i just wanna hang out with him... so is it so wrong to want to hang out with your guy friends if they have a girlfriend?
hey hunnie! its definately not wrong =) i always want to hangout with my guy friends even if they have girlfriends. i wouldnt invited that bitch over! excuse my language but screw her then if she is mean that will ruin things and it wont be as much fun! just because they have a girlfriend DOES NOT mean that you have to invite her too. have fun sweetie ♥
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15/f
one of my very good friends is going out with another one of my very good friends. before they were going out i didnt like him any more than a friend but now that they are i have this strong attraction to him. we joke around together, for example he'll cuddle with me in front of his girlfriend and we'll just say "oh dont tell her" but she's ok with it and knows we're joking.he tries to hold my hand but im not that comfortable doing that when he has a girl friend. but ever since we've been joking around i finally realized that i really do like him but i would never want him to cheat on one of my best friends. i like them as a couple alot, they're really cute together but even when he's cuddling with her i still have an attraction to him. basically i want to make myself see him as just a friend again and i dont know how.
PLEAS HELP
hey babydoll. ♥
i am kinda going through this right now except for the fact that its not my best friends boyfriend! anyways..i was good friends with this guy for about 5 months.. we flirted like crazy and then i was starting to think. hes so adorable, sweet, everything..am i starting to like him? but i kept this all a secret because i am definately someone who doesnt show their feelings. he liked this other girl at the moment and he asked her out and now they have been going out for 4 months. i know how hard it is for you to see them together even though you think they are cute together! i try to be happy for this guy i mean he is my friend right? i want him to be happy! but then again he always flirts with me, and i personally dont know his girlfriend but then i feel bad flirting back because i know he has a girlfriend and i know its not fair for her! i am STILL trying to get over this guy and the thing im trying to do is keep my distance from him! try going out with your girl friends and have a good time, get your mind off him..look for another guy! because i mean this guy is already taken right? so whats the point of flirting with him still because this is going to make you more attached to him. i know it may be hard to keep your distance from your best friends boyfriend but it would be the best thing for you. its not fair for you to wait around and maybe wait for them to breakup if thats what you want. but then like at the football games you can go say hi to him but then go find your friends, go with your other guy friends maybe if you start hanging out with one of them you may start having feelings for him, and start flirting with him and be attracted to him like your attracted to this guy. i know its going to be REALLY hard to try and look at this guy as "just friends" because im trying to do the same thing with the guy i am talking about and i know what your going through but try and keep your distance, get your mind off him! :]
you deserve someone who loves YOU and you only! not another person, especially your best friend. be happy for her, for them. and try not to flirt with him because its probably hurting her but she doesnt want you to be mad or anything.
goodluck hun, keep me updated and sorry i couldnt help out that much but you cant really control your feelings!
♥
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Dear Advicenators-
Well this school year is my first time in highscool. I have 6 best friends.. and it seems like i'm the prudest. I've always been so over protective and i havnt even kissed a guy yet! I mean I'm not ugly... i dont wanna be snobby but im pretty. All my friends are hooking up with these new kids... and i feel like out of place. haha. I dont know how to explain it. I mean I guess it's because there are no new hot kids in my classes; because when i go to parties and talk to guys there, they always flirt with me and stuff and they ask for my number and stuff. can anybody give me tips to be more flirtaciuos and open minded.. haha. Well, basically.. i just need advice : ( thanks
aw, hunnie. dont worry i didnt get my first kiss until before sophomore year! i was pretty embarassed when anyone brought it up but after awhile i was like so what at least im not a slut going around doing things with guys just for the attention or just to say i did it. my cousin is a sophomore this year and she still hasnt gotten her first kiss and she is pretty! the right guy WILL come around you just may have to wait for the right time and for the right guy. to tell you the truth ive never had a boyfriend before and sometimes it bothers me and i just want to go out with someone i kinda like but then i stop and think, i want to wait for the right guy who wont break my heart in an instant for something i wont do with him. just go out more, hangout with these guys more and FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT :) the right one will come around and i know it sucks to wait, because im sick of waiting too! but you want it to be special right?!
well i hope i helped you but if it wasnt what you were looking for i have a lot of experience with different boys and situations! so just leave another one in the inbox or you can I/M me at " yeah UR the ONEx " and i will be happy to talk to you about it! ♥
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ok im 16 and in gr. 12, tha last few relationships ive bin in have bin disastrous, some of them wanted ta be dominated and a little controlled, some thot i was being a dick when i was like that, some thot i was too nice sumtimes, and i pretty much just wanna know wat girls really want, i know it cant be generalized like that , but do you want a guy that makes decisions for you, gets jealous and protective, and is dominative, or do you want someone who romances you , visits you at work on your worst days just to make you smile, and kisses you randomly, , i really hope i dont get 50000 different answers but ya thx
well for me..its just having a guy that isnt too over-sensitive but isnt like oh i dont care about you suck it up kinda thing. i think its somewhere inbetween. like i want someone that i can feel protected by and safe around but not like clingy where there on me all the time! but sometimes making decisions is a good thing but not ALL THE TIME. i like a guy who just is himself and doesnt try to be something he isnt. if i had a bad day or something i just want to go home and cuddle with that guy and be in his arms and watch a movie and that way..to me everything will be fine again :) kissing randomly is sometimes cute but then again..dont go and kiss someone like every 10 seconds you know haha. girls like it when guys get jealous if they're talking to other guys but in there mind..your the only one for her and that will never change. just be yourself, make sure you earn her trust, be able to make her laugh at times when she doesnt think she can ever smile again, tell her you love her if you really mean it, just want to be with her! hun, things will get better and work out for you in the end!
hope i helped you out! if you need anything else be sure to leave one in the inbox or you can I/M me! ♥
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okay, where to start. well i was going out with this boy named Alex. and i liked him alot and everything but he liked me like a thousand times more. well like every night this boy Lane would call me tryin to get with me, but i never thought anything of it. well about two months passed and me and Alex had already broken up. Then Lane was going out with my friend Addair who can't keep a boyfriend at all. Well she was grounded and me and Lane and all my other friends were all friends so we were goin out together and Lane started liking me that night again. me and Lane have kind of like always had a thing for eachother. well the next Addair brok up with Lane cause like i said, she doesn't like keeping a boyfriend. then Lane asked me out. so i said yes. i have never had a boyfriend like Lane before. it was so much fun with him, like we experienced so many new things together. we went out for 3 1/2 months and then at this fair thing we have in my town, his friends from his school were there [we go to different schools] and he started acting like a COMPLETE JERK. like it was so weird, he was never that bad. so then i couldnt take it and i broke up with him. then i found out he acted like that so i would break up with him. that hurt. i was sitting there crying so hard and all he could say to me was stop shaking. so then we went a caouple days without talking, and then i called him. i was like, Lane, what happened? and he basically told me he was just tired of having a girlfriend and he wanted to be single. i never wanted to break up with him. so then the first weekend after we broke up we were hanging out at the mall with all our friends and he was acting like we were like, "together" you know. and it made me so mad. but i couldnt help but like it cause i like him. then the next day me him, my best friend Taylor, and her boyfriend which is Lane's bestfriend, Kyle all went to the movies. well Lane likes kind of "simple" girls in a way. and well, i dress kind of not simple sometimes. i like acessories and style and stuff. well at the movies that night he decided that he wasnt gonna hang out with us because of what i was wearing. i mean how frickin low is that. i was so mad. cause then i was stuck with Taylor and her boyfriend and oh my gosh that was like hell. well then i had people over at my house the next monday and he was one of them. we flirted like crazy and like, i can tell there's chemistry there. but i just don't know how much. well then last night we went to the movies again, me Taylor, Kyle, and Lane. well me and Lane used to always go to the movies together when we went out, alot of stuff happened at the movies. so it was hard. cause you don't know how bad i just wanted to start making out with him. well then he started trying to kiss me and he held my hand and i resisted for a while but uhhh i just cant resist that boy. so then we were like all together and it was just so confusing and he was like i still like you and i shouldn't have ever broken up with you. my friend Taylor doesn't think i should go back out with him anytime soon. my friend Caela thinks i deff. should. my friend Addair is in the middle. so i am so completely confused. i dont know what he wants, i dont know what i want, i dont know what my friends want. so can you help, please? sorry its so long, lol.
thankss
did you send me this question twice? haha..
well anyways! hunnie boys are deff. confusing as you have noticed and the same thing kind of happened to me! so there was this guy that had a girlfriend and they broke up and hes always been really attracted to me and wanted to hangout and stuff but then sometimes he would totally ignore me! and then later he would be like telling me im so beautiufl and all this crap and then just me and him went to the movies and he kissed me and we started making out and stuff..and then him and his girlfriend went back out..how messed up is that?! leading someone on. but what i am doing right now is letting things cool off and just see what happens! i wouldnt really like talk to this lane kid for awhile and see if he calls you, see if he asks to hangout with you and if he doesnt then he's not worth your time and he's playing games with your mind. but if he calls you and talks to you and asks to hangout with you then i would and see how things go from there! guys act different around their friends which sucks but there isnt anything we can do about it! trust me ive been in the same exact situation as you before and i just left things alone and let the guy do all the working.
this quote reminds me of things i went through with guys and kind of sounds what your going through too..
"he can be so nice, then so mean... he can care and protect, make you laugh, and at the same time play games with your head and after he's done with that, he'll tear your heart out, rip it into the smallest fragments known to man and leave it on the floor, while all you can do is stand there, not being able to cry because you're so numb, because you thought that there was something there, when really there was nothing but a wayward boy out to break a poor girls fragile heart, because he didnt know what he wanted"
sweetie. guys dont know what they want! they have mixed feelings just like girls do. if you want to try things again then go for it but just watch out for YOURSELF and what YOU want. make yourself happy and dont listen to others, make your own decisions that you think will help you out in the end. but be careful with your decisions because i dont want you to get hurt in the end..but remember sometime you have to take chances and see how things work out!
i hope i helped out some and if you need to talk about any of this you can i/m me on " yeah UR the ONEx " because i can help you out more since ive been through just about everything with guys..♥
GOODLUCK.
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can you pee with a tampon in?
yes =) you can. me and my aunt were talking about it with my mom and my aunt was saying that your tampon does not go in the same hole as where your pee comes from! so its all good and ive done it before and it may be kinda gross but it is possible! ♥
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Right well this might be abit of a long one..
Theres this boy i like who is sooo lovely and sweeet and i have only known him a couple of months but we have everything in common and that!
Well a couple of weeks ago i told him i liked him through myspace and he was really ok about it and that and he said that we should talk about it when we see eachtother next
So on tuesday i went out and i see him and was hanging with him all day and he kept cuddling me and stuff
I really really like him buti have no idea if he likes me or not because im too scared to ask
My friends said that he really likes me and he smiles whenever they mention my name and he kept asking them when i was coming out and that when i was grounded and he kept talking about how ' kool' i was
The problem is , how do i find out if he likes me in a like like sort of way . Im soo scared to ask him and hes really really shy aswell
I really need help so PLEASE give advice back xxxx
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sweetie he DEFINATELY likes you! i know for a fact. cuddling? talking about you? smiling when your name comes up..aww he deff. likes you ♥ just keep hanging out with him more and more and you two will be more comfortable around each other then that way you two can talk about how you feel about each other. hope all works well ♥
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Anyone know of a place where I can get a cheap hair straightner??????
i get mine at target! but you can find them pretty much anywhere like walmart walgreens k-mart..go to any of those places! but your best luck would be target ♥
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Is facial hair on a 15/m attractive or is it showing that your a some kind of beast
well for ME..its kind of a turn off! like if you have a little hair..shave it and dont grow some big ol' hairy bear or anything! haha but most of my friends dont like facial hair either. it all depends on the girl though! ♥
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ok, so all my friends have boyfriends agian and i am left out here with nobody, i know i dont need a b/f to be happpy but i still feel lonley... and i am still especially hurt from my friend having the guy i liked, she is with him. I know their relationship prolly won't last but how can you tell? I know i CAN'T DEPEND on that possibility, but sometimes i can't help but wonder about the "what if" he brakes up with her and goes out with me possibily? i still dont want to move on, i still like him. please help, thanks
ohhh babygirl. dont worry i am kind of having the same problem right now except im not really friends with the girl. i am pretty good friends with this kid, he calls me his best friend but it kills me to hear about him and his girl and everything and the best thing to do is still talk to the guy and flirt with him- if he flirts back or starts it though. but you can also go out and talk to other guys and maybe you will find another guy. thats what happend to me i thought i was never gonna get over this kid..im still really not but i met this other kid and now im starting to have feelings for him! so you can still talk to this guy and flirt if you want and if they break up then go for him but for now, go out and meet other guys! you never know what can happen ♥
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f/15
Why is it that mothers don't want their daughters to wear thongs?
mostly because thongs are sexy and skimpy and moms dont think there daughters should wear that kind of stuff and they always think..well nobody ever sees your underwear anyway right? WRONG. when you wear anything besides thongs and sometimes booty shorts the seams show through your pants and thats just embarassing! but moms dont think that its important but really to teenage girls it is. if your having trouble like talking to your mom about wearing them just ask her and tell her they are MUCH more comfortable and at the store be like can i get these? thats what i did! and my mom was like why do you want those..and im like i dont know because i dont want lines! and she is like uhh ok you can buy one but now she even buys them for me because she knows thats the only kind i will wear! ♥
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14/f.i know that when you get your period it is normal to breakout more. i normally have pretty good skin, with just a few zits occasionally. but when i get my period i breakout a lot. will going on the pill make me stop breaking out during my period?
thanks
it is perfectly normal to breakout when you have your period! in fact most of us do. and im am on the pill right now and sorry to say i do not see a change. i still breakout more when i have my period! it may be different for others though im not quite sure but it didnt help me at all. ♥
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13/f
Is it weird not to want sex? Other people have it before they are married, but I want it after. If even then. I always said I would adopt my children. How I see it children are like puppies. Puppies are sent to pounds because they were not able to be taken care of, or not wanted. (Same as children sent to adoption agencies.) And the reason puppies, and children, are not being adopted is because dogs, and women, keep having babies. Then when the puppies owners can't find good homes for them they are sent to the pound, which just keeps on growing. So why would we want children when there are several at adoption aggencies waiting for a good family to arrive and take them home? Plus there is all that pain, and blood. But because I don't want to do it are people gonna try to make me later on? Thanks in advance.
noo its not weird! right now at this age your not ready and you realize that but you also dont think you will be later on. but when you find someone that you love it will bring you two closer together and you will share something special when you have sex ♥ but its not bad to wait after marriage! because then you dont have to worry about all the consquences you may have to face later on. you COULD look into adoption but personally i wouldnt reccommend it. just give it time and everything will fall into place and whatever happens, happens ♥
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What does it exactly mean to be high maintenance ?? People have called me it once. & I just dont know what it exactly means. Thanks for the help
hey babe! well high maintenance means that you like expenseive things and you like to be taken out and you like things that arent cheap! haha dont worry im high maintenance =) its not a bad thing! well if you need anything else be sure to let me know ♥
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Age: 14
Gender: Male
Okay, so there's this girl I really like (E), and this other girl (B) my best friend likes. My friend really loves B, he's told me a million times, and he's loved her for a really long time. I've loved E for a long time, not as much time as my friend has liked B, but still pretty long. Ever since I told my friend I love E, he's been nicer and nicer to her. Which I wouldn't mind if it was just the friendly type of niceness, but it's not. It's the "gotta crush on ya" type of niceness. I've asked him about this, and he says he's treating her exactly the same as he always has, but I've noticed a difference. I just am really confused. Do friends normally do these kind of things?
Thanks,
-Fyce
YES! all the time this happens with my friends. like my good friend nikki likes this kid and she tells our other friend mandi. well when we all hangout mandi always flirts and like trys to get all the attention from this guy and nikki gets really mad about it! i dont really know why they do this? especially in your situation because he already loves B. and some people just flirt and dont even know it! like my brother and his girlfriend and his friends. we were all out somewhere and my brothers good friend joe would flirt with my brothers girlfriend and everyone could see it but then my brother was thinking what the hell is going on? and he like asked his girlfriend if he liked joe but she said no and he also confronted joe about it and said he didnt like her! just try to get her attention and tell your friend to just kinda back off a little bit. or you could ask E what she thinks about your friend and if she doesnt have any feelings towards him or doesnt find him attractive then you know you dont have anything to worry about! also tell your friend to keep his attention on B.
hope everything works out ♥
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