Question Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 3:28 pm
15/f
there's this guy that i really like, but he has a girlfriend... but we're still pretty good friends. so this weekend i want to hang out with him and some of my other friends... everyone says that if i invite him over i have to invite over his girlfriend as well, but the thing is that she's a total b**** to me. and i don't know, i just wanna hang out with him... so is it so wrong to want to hang out with your guy friends if they have a girlfriend?
kkatie answered Saturday February 17 2007, 10:53 pm: umm definetly not. theres nothign wrong with that. IF HE wants to hang out with u bakk and you 2 have fun together its no problem. [ kkatie's advice column | Ask kkatie A Question ]
teenagex3romance answered Saturday February 17 2007, 9:34 pm: there's nothing wrong with it...its her problem, yall were friends first and its not like your hitting on him or anything...its not like theyre gunna get married so youll still be friends with him after they break up...its not your fault if shes threatened by you. [ teenagex3romance's advice column | Ask teenagex3romance A Question ]
Shortcake22 answered Saturday February 17 2007, 4:47 pm: If other people are going to be there, no you don't have to invite her. It's his choice whether he wants to come or not, and don't be hurt if he chooses not to (she could be telling him not to go). Feel free to hang out with him, its fine for a girl and a guy to be friends. But don't hang out at each others' houses alone, because that will start a whole bunch of rumors and gossip that you don't need. Also, keep in mind that you cannot take it farther that friendship while he is taken. Even if he initiates it, its disrespectful to her (No matter how mean she is) and you wouldn't want that done to you! With that in mind, keep being friends, there's not a problem with it =) [ Shortcake22's advice column | Ask Shortcake22 A Question ]
xOaAlLiIeE answered Saturday February 17 2007, 4:47 pm: honestly, i don't think you should have to invite over his girlfriend. if she's disrespectful to you then no don't just invite her over because you think you have to, you should only do it because you WANT to. also, if this guy is your friend then i don't see any harm in having him over if you're just going to hang out.
mwalnutss answered Saturday February 17 2007, 4:32 pm: OMGSH!! im in the same situation. but my guy friend's gf is really nice, and shes my friend. but anyways enough about me. about your situation. like i dont understand it at all, like i dont get what the big deal is. but i would just hang out with him anyways/not invite her, dont care what people say. or invite her sometimes. or talk to him and be like "do you want to hang out? but do you mind if your gf dosent come?" hope i helped. [ mwalnutss's advice column | Ask mwalnutss A Question ]
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