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heey i'm allie , i'm 14, and i'm from the west coast [ not telling what state ] i love helping other people soo i maade an advice column! i also love shopping and hanging with my friends. i love animals [ especially my dog comet! ] and one day i want to be an actress. want to know more? ask!

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Song to use for family slideshow

we are family - sister sledge :)

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I am going to a concert, All Time Low, finally, I've been waiting to see them for SO long. Anyway, I hear after concerts they always have hang out sessions for anyone that wants to come, where they will sign stuff and just talk, they like to do that in Philly and small places, the concert I am attending is in Philly. So, since I will probably be seeing them in person and we may possibly meet, I'm already planning an outfit. I already know I want to wear converses, because they're comfortable sneakers and they look cute too (: and probably my favorite skinny jeans but how should I do my hair and what type of shirt should I wear? A blouse, tee shirt, flanel? I would like to be comfortable but look cute enough to not necessarily turn the guys' heads but for a guy in the audience to talk to me (especially because I am going with my best friend and she's a model). I am not aware of how hot it gets inside concerts but I'm guessing with all the girls screaming for alex or jack and trying to all be towards to front, it will get pretty tight and hot. So, any help would be appreciated, thanks so much! I am a 16 year old female.

i'm also a 16 year old female & i always go to concerts in philly!:) i usually wear what you're gonna wear, skinny jeans & converses. it's probably going to be veryyyy crowded & hot in there, so for your hair do something you're comfortable with, like keep it straight or wavy or whatever. if it gets too hot you could always put your hair up. for a shirt, you might want something loose cause it's going to be very hot, or like a vneck tee or something. you don't have to get all dressed up or anything. also, they usually sell the band merchandise at the concert, so you could buy an all time low shirt there. you're so lucky you're seeing them! have fun, i'm sure you'll look great !

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what is the difference between a chola and a chonga.?

Chola:hardcore latina gangbangers. They usually have thin, arched, angry looking tattooed-on or penciled-on eyebrows, brown or dark red lip liner, 'Monroe', eyebrow and nose piercings, tats, Converse or Nikes, flannel shirts, lots of gold jewlrey (with their name and crosses), crunchy gelled or moussed hair either down or gelled in a high perfect ponytail either straight back or gelled in a design, and they go out with cholos

chonga:a girl, particularily of hispanic origin, that wears hoop earrings big enough to fit your arm through, big shirts and really small, tight shorts. Her shoes would most likely be really big sneakers, such as men's basketball shoes. Her hair would be worn very tightly gelled on her scalp, looking as though it would cut circulation. She probably outlines her lips with lip liner, but doesn't use any lipstick.


sorry it took me so long to answer, i haven't checked my e-mail in awhile.
and these defintions from from urban dictionary, so if you wanna check out some more, detailed ,answers,that's where you go. i didn't want to put too much though. hope this helpssss [:

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Let's call her Courtney. Well, Courtney's being such a bitch to me lately. She's my supposedly or used-to-be "friend" even though we were never really close. Anyway, I get this feeling she's trying to leave me out. If she's nice to me, I get a feeling that she's using me, which I bet she is. You see, she's my partner in Science. Today, at this academy that two of my other friends go to, she led us to this three-seat place and motioned for my other friends to sit there. A week ago, at a four-seat place, I almost sat next to her, but she was all " no no no, I want to tell Krista something,so sit next to Jenny." Even when we were taking pictures today, when Miss. Salinaek took us to this photo booth, she took sticker photos with my friends and completely ignored me. In Science, she says "you do all the work. " Also, she tries to make me give things to her. I'm in a singing part for a musical, and she didn't get any parts. Later on, she narrows her eyes at me and says sarcastically " did you have fun?" then she puts her arms around my best friend and starts talking to her. (they have the same set-design role.) Also, she keeps on talking about me like I'm not there. " I don't think Moana is right for the role, she gets so nervous and scared, and she doesn't sing well." My friends look at her like she's crazy and go " No she's not." She only acts reall phony-scary nice when she wants to go to a party I throw. At first, she was really kind when we first became friends. Now, she's like a total asshole. I can't "talk" because we aren't that close and she didn't do anything pointedly nasty except in class, when she begged me for candy, and I said I didn't have any, she said " I hate you" but she could very well have been joking. Ugh, get this bitch out of my life!

you need to tell her how you feel, and tell her to stop. don't let her walk all over you. stand up for yourself and tell her that if she wants to continue your friendship, she needs to realize you're not her toy. i had a friend like that, and it didn't work out between us, but my life is better now, theres less drama. i hope it works out for you.

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ok so last night on the radio there was one of those remixes thats like 10 mins long that is a buncha songs mixed together. there was one song that i couldnt really understand but all i got out of it was "she got a nail kit, got a gucci bag" or something like that. i googled and all i got was Flo Rida's "Elevator" but it doesnt sound like the same song? is there anything else it could be?

united state of pop, maybe?

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Ok so i've been skipping breakfast, lunch and not eating hardly anything for dinner for the past 3 or 4 weeks; its became a routine basically. My last period was on Feb 15 and it lasted like 2 or 3 days and the one before started on jan 17. I also got an abortion on Jan 17 thats why i started my period but today is Feb 27 and i've started again i think, ive been cramping, moody and my backs killing me. I'm on birthcontrol btw, i have been ever since my abortion. This morning as soon as i got up my stomach was hurting and i threw up 3 times today but now i feel fine. I just want to know what everyone thinks about this, could i be pregnant? Any advice will be greatly appreaciated

i'm really not an expert on stuff like this, but i suggest taking a prenancy test if you're concerned.

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ok... so i have a krazor (thinner version of a razor) anyways. i text all the time on it, but i do not know how to changed the font size and the font color... i know i can do this because the first week i got it i was doing this all the time. But yet, I have forgotten how to do it. any help?

yours truly!

well i have a razr but i believe when youre texting you go to Options, Edit Text Format, and then Text Color, or FontSize, or whatever it is you want to change. sorry if this is no help =[

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WELL. I heard this song a while back.
I liked it.
Forgot the name, Lyrcis, Who it was by.
I know it was by -one- femal artist.
And the song was a name of a girl.
Kathleen, Catleen?
Something like that.
Anybody have any idea what it might be?

well i heard a song called Caramel by City High, its about a girl. is that it? :]

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okay, so dafont.com is working fine for me, but i have to write in my font in the font box first, before it is included with the rest of my fonts(where times new roman, ariel, comic sands, etc is) and sometimes after i download the font, nothing works to get the font! i type it in many different times, but still does not work! does anyone know where the EXACT lettering would be that tells you exactly what it would be, typed in the spot that shows you what your font is. thanks

i'm not quite sure if i understand this question but when i download a font and the little box comes up, i click save and then save the folder to my desktop. then i open it up and click "Extract all Files" and keep hitting next until its extracted. then i go to the Start button at the bottom of my computer [ i have an emachines ] and click Run.. and i type in fonts. then all my fonts appear. i go and put the extracted folder next to the fonts folder and drag the EXTRACTED FONT into the folder. than its with all my other fonts :] i hope this is what you were looking for!

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I want to get my hair cut, but I don't really know what i should do.
I have naturally thick wavy brown hair, i usually straighten or scrunch it. my face is square. um...i have side bangs now, and i want to keep them, but any ideas for the rest
pictures are appreciated :)
thanks.

after using the websites the person below me looked at, if you have an idea go and talk to your stylist. she can give you her opinion about what will look best and you can talk it over. tip - if youre going to cut your hair short, make sure youre positive its what you want. you should start by cutting a little off and then you can always ask her to make it shorter, trust me, i learned from a veryyy bad experience.

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Please help if you can... Lately I hate myself. I hate who I am and everything I do. Everyone sees me as a happy person who loves her life, but inside I'm torn apart. I cry nonstop anymore when I'm alone. Everything in my life goes wrong. The one person who I always trusted to love me and like me for me unconditionally(ie MYSELF) ... has given up on me. Yes..I've given up on myself. One of my best friends moved away a few months ago... she never let me know how to get ahold ofher... I just gave her my number and she said she'd called me... haven't heard from her since. Now my absolute best friend is moving. I don't know how I'm going to live without her. She's the only person who has every believed in me. After she leaves I don't know what I'll do. I just feel like killing myself anymore... And I can't even do that right... because I'm so afraid of die ing that i couldn't do it. I have a feeling this is what depression is... which is what my mother suffers from. She just tells me not to tell anyone, because they will just want to give me pills. I told her I was thinking of killing myself and she just said no youren ot... I don't know what to do. What can you do when you start feeling like you're all alone in the world? thank you so much... even for just readin all of this.

wow, well i've been feeling exactly the same way, but instead of moving away, my friends have all decided to gang up on me. first, if you can, i think you should see a psychiatrist, or keep track of your feelings in a journal. it helps to let it all out even when youre not telling your best friend. also, hang out with some new people. maybe theres someone in one of your classes that you've never talked to? it'll help to have a support group when your friend moves away. and about your other friend, if she hasnt called you, call her! if you dont have her number, then im sorry. honestly, dont give up on yourself. things go wrong, but life goes on [: talk to a counselor or someone else you can trust, if they can't help you than at least you can get some things off your chest. i hope everything goes well for you and that my advice helps.[:

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ok im 5'6 nd i weigh about 145 probaly 150 kind of muscular now but people say i look tall and slinky and i look like i weigh about 120 I'm extremely active and im always moving but the thing is that im always hungry say after i eat something ill be really full then 5 minutes later ill be hungry again every time i turn around im always hungry and im always eating, and im afraid that im going to gain more weight i have a feeling that im gaining weight but i don't look like i have.. is this normal?.. i also dont think that i have a fast metabolism

maybe you're having a growth spurt?
i don't know much about this kind of stuff; but right before i grew a few inches i was always hungry.

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are there ANY sites where you can get ringtones WITHOUT downloading them? or not?
cause i dropped my phone in the water, about a week ago, and it works and everything, i just can't go to the at&t mall, and download ringtones.


is there any way i can get ringtones WITHOUT downloading it or whatever?
please don't say record them tho..

Thanks for any help!!!

you can go to a website like www.phonezoo.com or www.myxertones.com ; they send you the ringtone in a text message. i have verizon & it usually doesn't work for me though. cingular it works fine, i don't know about all the others. hope it helps :))

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i need some song lyrics that say i still really like you, i need you, i cant stop thinking about you, and you pretty much have control over me, buttt without actually saying it, if you know what i mean? lol

thanks!

baby come back to me - vanessa hudgens :)

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Can anyone who has read the Gossip Girl books (FIRST!) and watched the show (AFTER!) tell me if the two or anything alike? Or does the show just completely ruin everything the book held up? I want to know if this is a show I might want to watch. I've read all the books, by the way.

it definitely has some similarities to the book.
although; the characters are much different.
as the person below me stated; dan & jenny are different.
also there seems to be some different things in the plot.
overall though, i love the show & i highly recommend it. :]

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I heard a song on the radio and it talks about my chance, its on KROQ alot (if anyone listens to that)

try going to http://www.kroq.com/
and then on the left side it says "kroq music".
click that; & then "songs most played" or something along those lines. click that; & the song will probably be there if they play it alot! :)
hope you find it

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15/f. About a week ago, my friend [A] told me that she was going to set me up with the guy that I like. I knew this wasn't a good idea, because we're not the BEST of friends. I was VERY reluctant, but since she was all "Oh, don't worry...It'll work out ;)" I couldn't help but wonder and let her go on with it. So, I didn't mention anything to her about him. We only see him in one class. The thing is, this guy doesn't even know me and we never talk. Now, here comes the problem. My friend A told her other friend B that I like him. SInce I'm friends with B, I thought nothing of it. I just moved on and ignored it, because I knew it wasn't going to work out and didn't think she was serious about setting me up with the guy. So, two days later, I find out that A told ANOTHER one of her friends, this time, someone who I don't even know : C. So, you know what C does (she's a girl)? C goes up to the guy, and tells him that "some girl named [me] likes you." When A told me this, I was dumbfounded and extremely pissed. I felt so betrayed. A knife has been placed in my back. I trusted A. I let her do this for me because she said it was her pleasure, I shouldn't worry about it and that she wanted to do it and that "you guys BELONG TOGETHER :D" But why the fuck would you tell someone I don't even KNOW then!? Who gave you the right to do that?

I'm so confused, guys...*sigh*..The guy knows that I like him, and now he won't even look at me.

Do you think they did this on purpose to fuck me over?

The thing is, I shrugged it off nicely, while still hurting inside. :(

nobody should do that to a friend.
whether it's tell the boy they like or tell someone that they have a weird habit or something.
honestly you're better off without them.
& if you cant completley avoid them then just don't tell them anything you don't want anyone else to know.
in the mean time, join a club or something & make some new friends.
good luck! :)

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my friend has been feeling sick often, he can't sleep that much anymore, because he does. last time, he went to sleep at 9 pm and woke up at 5 pm and threw up. and he just threw up like... 30 minutes ago also. >.

well i'm not really good with answering health questions; but maybe he should just see a doctor?

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does anyone know any good r&b/hip-hop artists/groups that arent really known in the industry? like you know those that have like myspaces and stuff with their music. it can be someone kind of famous or not really famous at all.

preferably female artists/groups, but male artists/groups are good too.

thanks in advance!

well i know i like the song "promise ring" by tiffany evans ; but i don't know if she's wellknown or not; but you could try that. :)

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ok so this all happend when me and my two best friends got in a huge fight. we're not friends anymore. so this marissa [the bitch] decided to tell the kid i used to like everything i said about him & everything i said about his girlfriend. i said some pretty bad shit about her. and marissa told mike so many lies so many like so now he probably thinks im a fucking weirdo now. cause i was at the fireworks ad i walked by him and hes like hey kendall fagget but he whispered it then i screamed HAA FUNNY, then he left, so then i sent him a bitchy message on myspace & he didnt reply back so hmm was he scared? or did he jus laugh his ass of? so yeah and odds are hes in my FUCKING HOMEROOM WTF?! im so pissed like totally pissed i dont want to be near him or see him. and i REMEMBER opening the letter and saying PLEASE let me not be on mikes team, and yeah i am. so what should i do? how am i going to survive this year?! how do i avoid him ...? HELP!

well you seem to be in a tough situation here; but maybe you should try telling him that not all that you said was true? & that you didn't know what you were talking about or something. otherwise; just ignore him. if he says something to you; pretend you didn't hear. hope it helps; &+ goodluck this year! =) ♥

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