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im thought of as 'one of the guys'
im a girl im 13.i grew up with all brothers and only boy cousins.im very rough w/ every1.i have mainly guy friends.ive never had a bf.i just really wana bf.but im ''one of the guys''.they dont think of me as girlfriend material.yes i wear really baggy pants but tight shirts.i snowboard.i wana bethought of as more girly. ~help me~
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That takes me back. When I was your age I was a total tomboy, always getting into scraps with my male cousins and friends, ending up in hospital with all manner of 'war wounds'.
Within two years I had changed into quite a girly girl. I still like to do adventurous things but I'm quite feminine with it, so don't lose hope.
Anyway, if a boy is worth your time, he is going to love you for who you are, so hold on, the right one will come along and he will be worth the wait.
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its really ok if you are a tomboy, you really dont need to change.. personally speaking i myself like sporty girls... you do not change only for someone to like you... remember your true beauty lies within you... you will definitely get some guy who really cares for you and loves the way you are but only at the right time... so wait till you get that one lucky person
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ok turn into a girly girl wear eyeliner and eye shadow pink or purple or tan eyeshadow get some cute clothes that are made to fit you you can still snowboard and do all the guy stuff and crap i do all that stuff and im a girly girl start wearing make up and girly clothes go shopping at the mall
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You don't have to stop doing the things you like to be considered "a girl", but make it clear to those guys that you ARE a girl.
-Dont be so rough. Guy's think their macho and expect girls to be dainty. I don't mean act like a damsel in distress, but be gentle. No punching guys, but maybe run a soft hand down their arm.
-Wear feminine clothes. Get "girly" cargo pants, like ones that have flower detailing on them, or ones that are well fitting. Add pink or purple in! Those colors can change a boyish look to girlish. Say you like sneakers, well I know for a fact you can get really cute pink DC's! Make it work for you.
-Hair. Guys love great hair! So don't hide it in a pony tail. Leave it down, maybe even use the curling iron or straightenr, and invest in good products that make it soft and shiny. You want guys to want to run their fingers through it.
-Makeup. It's a nessecity for a girl. Im not saying cake it on, but go for a natural look. Use a tiny bit of foundation with spf in it (you will deffinitely benefit if you are a snowboarder) and add lipgloss (tinted with a rosy pink maybe) and some mascara. Your good to go!
-The way a person walks and talks defines girl or guy. Girls should be light on their feet, their hips should sway slightly, and their shoulders are held high. Dont clomp around and shuffle your feet.
Speak properly. No bad grammar, slang, cursing. It makes a person look trashy, not intelligent.
-Turn on the charm and use your face. Smile, bat your eye lashes, blush, smirk. Facial expressions are a girls best tools.
-Make more girl friends. Just associating yourself with more girls makes a difference. Learn from them.
Whatever you do, be yourself. Guys are attracted to confident women who know what they want and know how to control themselves. And if guys dont see how great you are, as a friend and a girlfriend, than they are the ones with the problem.
Lots of luck,
-Abby
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chances are, at least one of them sees you as more than just "one of the guys" you might just have to make the first move. you grew up with guys, you should know how.
tell ya what, hold off on rating me, and base it on your success.
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hii hunnie! well as you can see im a HUGE girly girl so i think i can help you with this one. find some girls that you could hangout with, try and stay away from the guys a little bit i mean you can still talk to them and hangout occassionally but not like all the time. treat yourself to a makeover, wear some makeup do your hair different, wear it down more if you dont already! maybe wear girlier pants!? i hangout with guys all the time so they always see me as just a friend too, and ive never had a boyfriend and people are always like your joking right? but having a boyfriend is alot of work you always have to worry about what they're doing and stuff. but anyways do what i said and if you still need more advice you can ask me and i'll give you more tips or you could IM me on AIM and i'll talk to you more. goodluck babe ♥
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Well it would be harder for you since you grew up with boys and hang around them too. Even if you havn't had a boyfriend and they don't think about you as girlfriend material, they like you for who you are. Being girly dosn't always get the guys. Being you is what they like and maybe they don't like the girly girl type. Maybe one of them like you right now too, you never know. Plus if they see you turn more out like that they might think what happened to her, she's changed....Well yeah you get the point but if you really want to act more girly then here are some ideas: Wear more prettier stuff, like you said you wear baggy pants maybe wear a skirt for a day or something. Snowboarding is fun so you shouldn't change what you like doing to be more girly so stick with that. Maybe wear necklaces, earrings, braclets or something. That should help a bit! Well I hope everything goes well for you. And everybodys different, don't forget that.
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