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Iam 20 years old and my bf is 21 years old. We have been together for 1 year now. My boyfriend is constantly leaving me then coming back to me. he tell me that he doesnt love me anymore, iam not pretty enough and he doesnt want anything to do with me but when i cut him out of my life and move on he says he loves me and he made a mistake and he wants me back. He wants me when he wants me. He downs me sometimes but then he will say the oppisite. He lies to me he never puts my feelings first. The question is should i leave him

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im gona get either a tiny fat wrinkley dog or a tiny pug or a tiny chiwawa~i wana name it after a cartoon character~can you say the cartoon character and the show its from~any suggestions~thanks

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ok im 14/f me && my boyfriend had sex 2-3 days before my period. well my period normally lasts 5-7 days. I started my period saturday and it like stopped today (tuesday). It was a heavier period though. i kno it may b too early ad stuff but if i miss my next period or get some symptoms could i be??
im like so scared any help PLEASE!!
THANX!!! :-)

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ok so i didnt know who else to go to for help so i found this website and the stuff you wrote about your self sounds like we have alot in common. so try and help me if you can. well my name is brittney and i like this guy named bryan. hes a really funny, SWEET, friendly, cute guy. hes also touchy but not bad touchy the good touchy as in he gives u amizing hugs and one of those guys that every thing they do is the cutest thing you've ever seen and you just cant help but smile. and im very open with people but yet i can be shy. although the one thing im not open about is who i like. and i really like this boy. im not sure if he likes me, hes single, and we flirt alot. but i dont know if its the i like you kind of flirt and i dont really want to date him just get to know him. get us to were we become like gf and bf but not. to were we hang out alot. go to the movies and stuff like that together. maybe become as close as friends with benifets. but what will his other friends think. i dont think they like me very much but me and him get along great. and if he doesnt like me i dontt wnat it to get weird between us. and i dont wnat my friends to start thinking i like him becuse then they start acting stupid and get all awww thats soo cute. so whats ur advice. i really need some.

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Ok so I am 16 and I'm losing my mind. I feel like I can't remember some simple things like where I left something I was using the day before. I know that you could loose your short term memory later on in life but not now! I am going out of my mind looking for this ring I lost. It is very special to me (a gift) and I really can't remember anything about it. I realized I lost it about a week ago and when I went to retrace my steps, I couldn't remember the last time that I had the ring. I can remember things that happened years ago, as clear as day, but why can't I find this ring? Is there something wrong with me? I don't know what to do anymore because I'm beginning to loose other stuff and then I go out of my mind looking for it. Please help.

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What are the symptoms of having a yeast infection? I think I have one. Nomatter how much I wash it gets a smell, it itches, sometimes itchy bumps come up, after scratching they bleed, and white dandruff looking stuff is in the hair. The discharge is usually white and pretty normal smelling, but sumtimes its a bit yellow and a little smelly. If I have a yeast infection how do I treat it myself? im only 13.

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I feel like my stress level is sky rocketing. I'm 16 years old, and a sophomore at a private highschool. I just feel like I cant take a breath any more. My grades are slipping (i get like b's and i have 1 C and 1 A) I worry constantly about getting into College (because i dont really have anything that sets me apart from others...i'm not athletic or good at anything)

Also, i just feel constant pressure for things like drinking and drugs. I drink a little, but i dont smoke or do drugs, and i feel like that makes me strange. Also, i dont have a boyfriend, which just stresses me out more, because i feel like i'm supposed to have one.

I just need something to relieve my stress. I have finals coming up soon, and i have to study, which means even more stress.

I just feel like my life revolves around stress now.

Please help me!!!
Thanks.

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13/f. i loved butterflys 2 years ago and have never had a boyfriend so my mom said i was a lesbian. and she wasnt joking or anything. now i like black and dark colors she says im gothic and she says goths like peircings~i have had both my ears double peirced for about 4 years~and now since she says im gothic which im not she took all my earings and made me take out my earings to make them close up. she reads my diary and makes sure about wat i do or think or anything my friends do or just everything and makes sure i do nothing bad. so one day i wrote in my diary 'mom since your reading this and i no you will leave me alone i hate you i always have u give me no space' i got grounded for a month and she told every1. she doesnt have to read it and espesially not tell my whole family and cusins. its my diary shouldnt it be private? did i do sumthing wrong or what?

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It's a known fact that guys don't go out with girls who aren't skinny, gorgeous, and flawless which is really unfair because i happen to be none of the above. Basically, I NEEEED a boyfriend, like its beyond just wanting to be with somebody it's a need to have that special somebody. Sure, there's friends and whatnot and they're important too (don't get me wrong) but sometimes you want somebody that can be more than just a friend to you. It's frustrating because some girls can get a boyfriend in a split second without even having to blink. people like me on the other hand have to sit back and watch these people and envy them while they work their charm. So what can I do to be more like them? To be glamorous and amazing so that guys will want me as much as they want those other girls? PLEASE HELP.

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i feel like im stupid. yet i won the most awards at graduation than anyone else, and im a straight A student.

my parents make me feel like im worthless, when i get a 95, they don't say good job, they say "why". they only approve of 100s.

when they ask me to do soemthing, i just cant understand them, like if they say "get the paper in the desk" i look everywhere and i cant see it, and then they point out that it was in the shelf UNDER something (yeah, like i can see that) and they say look more carefully or something.

my dad is always saying i'm disorganized, when i have a folder which files all the papers from my different classes in different categories and my clothes are in color order.

today i took my dog outside for a walk but everywhere outside is ice so he lifted his feet and i didn't even realize that he was cold and his feet were freezing while he stood on the ice, until my dad came and yelled at me and told me to pick him up, and my mind just went blank. i stood there looking at my dog, and i just went blank. i didnt realize it until he yelled at me a second time.

[my parents are not abusive or verbally abusive, they just scold me like any other parents]

what is wrong with me, and what is wrong with them? what can i do to improve these problems?

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my hair falls out constantly

what is the average hall fall out rate?

and plus i am getting lots of white hairs sometimes

im only 16

is it from stress or bad nutrition?

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my bff is colorblind~what do they see like black and white like a dog or what~this whole year hes been my bff~and i keep forgetting~like sendin color tests tht say like press different color buttons in order~what do colorblind people see

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where can i listen to whole songs for free i no yahoo.com and aol.music.com but what others

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i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months and all we have done is make out so far. i would like to go farther and im sure he does too. what is a good way to bring it up?

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hi im 14/f
&& ive been going out w/ my boyfriend for 7 months. && thats like a long time for my high school. but anyways... i still love him A LOT but it just seems like our relationship is getting a little boring. is there any way that i can add a little more fun to our relationship?

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im a girl im 13.i grew up with all brothers and only boy cousins.im very rough w/ every1.i have mainly guy friends.ive never had a bf.i just really wana bf.but im ''one of the guys''.they dont think of me as girlfriend material.yes i wear really baggy pants but tight shirts.i snowboard.i wana bethought of as more girly. ~help me~

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The truth is, I'm a virgin.
13/f
But whenever i see a hot guy i think to myself "damn, if i got the chance i'd have sex with him." or i might back out in the end...
and it scares me because one day i will get the chance..
and want to do it..
HELP!!

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16,female....

i'll try to make it as short as i can!!..

this guy liked me, we would hangout and stuff then he went out with another girl and then while he was goin out with her he would always say i like you more than her and then i was like why are you even going out with her then?? your stupid! and he broke up with her and hes like i only went out with her because i thought you liked this kid. and i was like nooo! so then he still liked me (i know he did alot =) but he was younger than me so i was like ehh..hes so cute though but then one night he got really mad at me for like no reason and said he never wanted to talk to me so i tried to make things better..and i was like why are you being like this, i heard you were talking crap about me and he was like F*** that i dont talk about you AT ALL. and i was like haha wow alright and he was like why are you even talking to me and i never said anything back but i MISS HIM. ive tried to like other guys, i try and not see him (he goes to a diff school) but i ALWAYS want to see him but its so hard now that he like hates me and now he is going out with another girl and i think he can do SOOO much better everyone thinks she is ugly even all his guy friends and everyone is like they are so not right for each other and it doesnt help that i dont like the girl and i saw his parents and i was talking to them and im like so you know he has a girlfriend and they're like nOO WHO?! and the dad is like i thought you were his girlfriend ;) and im like nooo =( but they love me! and they thought we were going out and i just hate seeing him with another girl. i wish he would just talk to me because ive tried but hes so mad for a reason and wont talk to me. all his friends think im hot they said and want me and him to go out! my good friends were like he just got mad because he liked you soo much and didnt think he could get you. and his cousin and his other friend were like did you guys really go out? and im like NO! who told you that? and they're like oh he did! so he told people we went out and like did stuff and then i saw his older brother one time and hes like how are you and my bro do you still like him and im like i never said i did and he just smiles so obviously he liked me or whatever but i just dont know now..it hurts me to see him and have him give me bad looks and i will go up to his friends and say like hey!! like last night we saw them at a hockey game and he was sitting by his girlfriend and me and my cousin walk up and im like hey bob!hey nick! hey tony! all his friends and then i never said anything to him because he would just start saying why are you talking to me and he gave me the ugliest look like why the hell are you over here and someone pushed him and his girlfriend together and im like haha wow!! but at the end of the game i was talkin to his friends and he was like right behind me talking to his girlfriend and her friends and then he like ran right into me and i dont know if it was on purpose or someone pushed him but he looked at me and then he still talks to my cousin and he came over by us and talked to her but wouldnt look or say anything to me. what should i do? i hangout with other guys, and i cant get over him! even though he is acting like this i just wish he would say i still like you and things could be better....

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my friend wants to know if there is anything fun you and a guy can do without getting inside eachother and crossing the 'Godly line'? anything like more fun? they've already madeout ans stuff so anything else mayb farther than that thats fun but not like an ungodly crime?

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