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I'M A SLUT! I CAN'T CONTROL MYSELF!
The truth is, I'm a virgin.
13/f
But whenever i see a hot guy i think to myself "damn, if i got the chance i'd have sex with him." or i might back out in the end...
and it scares me because one day i will get the chance..
and want to do it..
HELP!!
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i went through the same thing hun. it's perfectly normal. you're getting to the point where your hormones are become more overpowering, and that's fine. just don't rush into anything. don't just do something with somebody just because you're mind is telling you ya need to. just wait for tha right time. good luck!
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ok calm down, your at the age where all these things go into your mind, and no one your age really admits it to each other but they are all thinking it. so relax, your not so different, just realize that there are a lot of bad things that can happen if you have sex, for example a non-curable STD or an unplanned pregnancy that can ruin your life. condoms and birth control aare not 100 percent effective. so its ok to look but don't touch, of worse comes to worse and you need an outlet the safest thing to do is masturbate its embarassing to talk about sometimes but its better than having sex.
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estrogen. doesn't it suck. your hormones are raging. your not a slut because sluts DO really do the nasty with anyone. and your still a virgin so your good.. if someone calls you a slut their lying. if you want to do it do it; just make sure it's right. and it's with someone you truly care about
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You're not a slut... you just have normal teen hormones. everyone has them and as long as you don't go having sex with everyone, you're not a slut. <3
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Congrats. Your a teenager!
Trust me. We all go through it. Every teen has urges and desires to a person they are attracted too.
Your young now, and really shouldn't have to worry about having sex in the near future (unless you plan on having it early, but I dont advise that) so feel free to look and think whatever you wish. You think your perverted or something? Trust me, guys are ten times worse. A lot of them get "hard" by just glancing at a girl.
When you are really ready to have sex, you'll know.
If you are:
-with the right guy. one you trust completely and really like
-are protected. the guy has a condom and you have a condom or are on some birth control (can never ever be to safe)
-you have your facts straight
-you aren't terrified (being nervous is very normal though)
-if the moment is right
Sex is very emotional as it is physical. Having sex with the wrong person or to early is a major regret for many teens. I wont get into that now, but always consider that when you think about having sex with a person.
When you have sex is all your choice, so never ever get pressured into it. Your first time is your very first time, and you never get to re do it if it wasn't perfect for you. So don't rush into anything. You have all your life to have sex, you don't need to do it now.
So don't worry. Just remember, always always always use protection and be safe with your body and your heart.
-DearAbby92
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Its normal to have sexual feelings doesnt mean youll act on them if you dont then you wont..im a virgin to but everyone gets horny...its normal..doesnt mean youll act on it...your not a slut...everyone has fantasies and urges..and your hormones are just starting to kick in...it doesnt mean you have to act on them or that you will.
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Honestly, if you're a virgin, and you've never done anything sexual with more than 5 guys, you're not a slut. If you're just thinking about it, that doesn't make you slutty. You just can't control your hormones.
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