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So confusing.
My story is pretty confusing and sad for me.
Well i would like to say alot of the guys at my school hate me, I dont know why but they do.
One of them, I had sex with.
He sure acted like he didnt hate me back then and then school started and he became an asshole again.
I still liked him, no matter how much of an ass he was to me.
Then after a while, he started randomly being nice to me and talking to me a little bit.
That lasted a whole week, and then he went back to being mean.
Again he tried being nice and then went back to making fun of me and calling me ugly,fat,,bitch,gross,etc.
It made me so sad because i like him so much.
Then his best friend told me , he actually likes me but he wants me to think he hates me and he tries to act mean to me , to be like everyone else.
His friend said not to believe anything he says,just know he likes me and his girlfriend [he has a girlfriend ] alot.
I want to get over him so bad, but at the same time how do I know if his best friend is telling the truth?
I believe it , Because he wouldnt lie.
But if he liked me, how can he be so mean to me?
Lately Ive been noticing hes being twice as mean as he was.
This just makes me so sad,I cant get over him because ive liked him for so long.
What exactly should i do?
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If he really liked you, he wouldn't switch back from being mean & nice around people. If a guy likes you, he should be the same around you like he would be with everyone else. He should treat you good no matter who he's with, or how bad they'll rag on him. But that's typical. I remember when I was little & guys used to pick on me. My mom told me it was because they liked me, and it's true. My current boyfriend and I always used to tease each other & make fun. And look where it got us. We'll be together for three months on the 5th. I'd believe his friends because they know him pretty well. Just pull him aside, let him know that he's hurting your feelings, & tell him how you feel about him. If he's rude about it, then forget about him. He's not worth your time, or your feelings.
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You probably don't want to hear this, but you need to! If he REALLY likes you enough to actually have boyfriend potential, he wouldn't go back to being mean over & over again when he's around other people. It sounds to me like, he's just trying to impress other people while he's wanting you to like him, but he can't have everything. If he does ask you out, I advise you to say no, because you deserve someone better than that. When all the guys hate you, you deserve a boyfriend that would stand up for you, not help tear you down. He's kind of sending mixed messages about liking you, but I think it's because he's afraid of losing his guy friends he hangs out with. One way to tell how a guy will act around you, is to see how a guy treats his mother. I know, it sounds kind of weird, but it's true. If he's a "momma's boy" he's obviously gonna kiss-up a little & probably not know what to expect. But that doesn't go for everyone. Now to help you get over it...
I think you should get together with all your girlfriends & go to the mall or see a movie. Things you used to do. I know...life was a lot easier when boys had cooties. LOL.
But I guess what I'm trying to say is, you WILL get over this guy, you just need to concentrate on spending more time with family & friends etc. Maybe have a movie marathon with some friends when you get together. Or like a sleepover or whatever? You could do truth or dare? But nothing to do with guys...
I REALLY HOPE I HELPED! I know what you're going through & it's tough, but I PROMISE, you will get over him. I can't tell you when, but it won't take forever.
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aw baby im going through the same thing right now! me and this guy are going through alot! he said he liked me soo much and then one day out of no where he was like your a bitch i never liked you dont talk to me and i was so hurt i didnt know what to do! i tried to make things better because i knew i had to talk to him but he refused to talk to me and he now has a girlfriend and i think that guy is telling you the truth about him still liking you because his friends and my friends both told me he is acting like that because he still likes me and hates seeing me talk to other guys and thinks he wouldnt be able to get me! sweetie i know this guy still likes you, guys are so mean sometimes but we still like them and care for them and deep down they care for you too! what im doing right now is letting things cool off, dont try to talk to him for a little bit and i know how HARD it will be because its hard for me too but you have to make him realize that if he is a jerk to you and you dont talk to him then he is going to miss you and miss out on a great girl! he will start being nice to you and when he is talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him why he was being so mean! if you want to get over him though go hangout with other guys and maybe you will start liking another great guy =) it also helps hanging out with your girls and going shopping, going to movies and getting your mind off GUYS! if you need any more help just IM me if you have aim and i will give you more advice because i have been going through the same situation you are in right now. stay strong babydoll ♥
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If he's nice, he's probably just trying to get in your pants. All you can really do is try to get over this freak.
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