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popular?


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 7:40 pm

so basiclly im a 16 year old girl. in an all girls highschool. and there are only about 35 girls in my grade, and like 6 or 7 of them have their little "popular clique" which i am like right on the outside of . i have known them all for a long time and i am freinds with most of them. but im not really part of their group. how do i join in? i warn you they are quite exclusive and rude.
and please dont tell me to "just be myself" because im not planning on making a bunch of ridiculous changes to fit in. i just want to join their group.
please help me!

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fatt?


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 7:29 pm

so i am 5'2 and i was like 106 pounds before the summer. now i am 115 pounds and it keeps getting higher. ive been eating healthy latelty but its not helping!
how do i get back to how it was before??
is there any other explanation for this??

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The Evil Sister-in-Law


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 6:34 pm

My brothers wife, well hates me. She gets along perfectly fine with every other female in my family except ME. I have never done anything wrong to this girl and she is SO snobby to me! Her attitude stinks, she is friendly with everyone else in the family but when her and I are around eachother she always gives me "back handed compliments." Meaning, she'll say something that starts out nice, but ends up mean. Like "Oh I LOVE you're shirt! Even if it made out of obviously cheap material." Yes, thats an ACTUAL quote. She went to HS with my husband and he told me that she was always very snobby there too. I just can't figure out why she hates me so much! Out of respect for my brother, I just roll with the punches. I wouldn't...

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im unable to sleep


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 6:20 pm

ive have trouble sleeping at knight and its irritating its been going on for years and im not sure if its insomnia or what but my usual time i fall asleep is 11:00 to 12:00 ive tried warm milk and ive tried non sugary cereal but nothing works

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how do i talk to him?


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 6:11 pm

17/f. i'm very shy, & so is this boy that i kind of like. (well, i really just think he is insanely gorgeous, and want to get to know him, but yeah.) he is an art aid, in my art class. i really want to talk to him, but i don't know how. haha. like, how can i flirt with him? how can i even start a conversation with the guy? i was thinking asking for help, & i go up to the art teacher when shes busy, & i hope she suggests that he can help me, but this girl i know always says oh i'll help her. -__- & i ask a billion fake questions, hoping she'll tell him to help me, but she doesn't. hahaha. i catch him looking at me sometimes, he seems like my type, & i mean, what can i do to get him to maybe come talk to me...?

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How do I deal with a new neighbor that I have wronged?


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 5:50 pm

I just moved to San Antonio, and I was a little desperate to make friends with any of my neighbors. I am white and I befriended a Mexican man, Carlos, living nearby. I started loaning him money and buying him drinks. He made it very clear that he didn't want to date me, but wanted a purely physical relationship.

I ended up befriending his sister "Jenny" also, and she told me that he didn't like me and was using me. I bought her drinks and smokes, not really caring about the money.

I was a little hurt, but continued to hang out with him and loan him small dollar amounts here and there. Although he did try to put the moves on me, I said "no".

Carlos and his friend, Jon, came ...

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Drug test?


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 5:42 pm

I just went for an interview and everything seemed like it went really well. The hiring manger seemed to really like me and appreciate my experience and personality. After the interview was finished, she told me that there was just one more step, a pre-employment drug test. I told her I could infact do it the same day and she said that after I take the test (which was across town.) that they would e-mail her the results right after and she would give me a call. I know my drug test was negative, I mean c'mon! lol But the problem is its almost 6:00pm and the drug test was at 1:00 today! The hiring manager STILL has not called! Would they seriously waste money on me taking a drug screen if they were not intending on hiring me?! I'm kind of a w...

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how too stop thinking about my ex when i have a bf?


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 5:29 pm

Hey! 14/f

Well, ok i was dating this older guy ( Jimmy)well he's a freshmen and im a 8th grader so its not that bad, but well i thought we were in a good relation ship he treated me pretty good, well until he unexpectedly broke up with me because he THOUGHT i was cheating on him which i don't know where the hell he got that from! I was ONLY dating him, i fell hard for this guy when we first met and i thought we were meant 4 each other. Apparently not. :/ Soo i want to know H.O.W do i stop thinking about him? Just last night i started crying on the phone with my best friend because she played jimmy and i's song (well use to be song.. hanging by a moment by life house :/) She said i cant help being sad over it he broke up with...

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east coast colleges


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 5:14 pm

I am a junior in high school and I am looking into colleges now. I want to be a criminal profiler, like on the show criminal minds. I currently live in Rhode Island, I want to move to New York. Does anyone know of any good colleges in New York that specializes in that field. but I am open to colleges in Pennsylvania, Maryland, and New Jersey. Basicly I want to get out of Rhode Island but still remain on the east coast. I really dont want to go to mass or anywhere above that. Mass is like a last resort though.

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Three guys (or so)


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 5:10 pm

well, i was dating this guy, josh and then we broke up nd then i dated this guy named Alex, who trun out to be a total douche and then i started dating this guy i kno from england bt i live in thuh usa bt im still dating him. He's moving here in 2010. and then there's this other guy whom i really like a lot, brett, he nd i had a fling quite sometime ago nd he told me he loves me about 20 mins. ago.. and i still really like him. bt there's a lil promblem, josh and i got back together bc i thought that there was no hope at all for Brett and i due to the fact that i thought that he didnt like me nd even when i tried to tell me , he still acted like he didnt like me :( and then i tried to move on. bt now there's this other guy Joe, he says that...

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Allergic to dairy?


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 4:34 pm

I'm just curious.
All my life every time I eat ice cream, eat cereal, drink a shake or a smoothie, I ALWAYS start coughing and clearling my throat multiple times for like fifteen minutes after.
All of these things have dairy in them.
So I'm thinking I might be a little bit allergic?

I get link a pinching in my throat that makes me need to cough or clear my throat. It;s not like a break out in hives or my throat puffs up so I can;t breath.
So if I am allergic, it's extremely minor enough that I can still consume dairy products.

But like I said, I'm just curious, do you think I'm allergic?

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Can't write a song =[


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 3:35 pm

I want to write a nice song, but everytime I go to write it seems like I just blank out. I want to write a song about how I feel when I'm with my bf, how in love I am with him. But when I put words on paper and read 'em out loud...I fell like it's stupid. :/ Or lame...How can I get started? I'd like to write amazing lyrics like Owl City does, or Lights. Y'know people that have such beautiful music. Anyone able to give advice whom's had experience with song writing and such greatly appreciated! I'm 16 and a girl Oh yeah I play accoustic guitar, and am learning keyboard :P

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Should I break up with him? Or try harder?


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 11:50 am

I have been dating my boyfriend for just on fourteen months now. He is perfect. When I say this I mean it. He treats me with more respect I could have ever thought possible there is never a moment he isn't complimenting me or telling me that he loves me. He does everything I ask of him and never ever complains. He never yells at me, has never ever called me a bad name, not even stupid or idiot - nothing. But having him has come at a price, he is so attached and so in love with me that we often spend most of our free time together, this has resulted in me losing the majority of my friends and even had friends present me with an ultimatum, them or him. I'm nearly 20 years old, so immaturity really shouldn't be an excuse for my friends. But I ...

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songs about exes


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 2:37 am

I am dating a guy with a crazy ex that won't leave him or me alone and i need some musical therapy to cope :( any tunes that relate? much appreciated <3

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Me and My babys father


Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 1:08 am

Lets see me and my babys father got into it about a month ago and he broke up with me.. That is the 2nd time he broke up with me..He broke up with me when i was 4months pregnant.. and i gave him a 2nd chance when i was about 6months but here recently..he broke up with me again..the baby is now 8months..I want to be together for the babys sake i dont want her to have parents that are split i dont want her to grow up like her daddy had to.. What should i do to make him want me back??

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This guy


Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 11:52 pm

15/f

So I liked this guy since about May. We are good friends. It's just the fact that he is 17. So it's like a 2 year difference. So I didn't want to do anything about it.

Then about 2 weeks ago I found out my friend liked him. She is the same age as me. I was fine with it. I'm not the kind of girl to get jealous. Especially if he isn't mine. So she told him. She told me that he said he liked her but didn't want to do anything about it because he is a senior and he is graduating, plus he is on the football team. So he isn't allowed to have a girlfriend. Stupid new rule they made recently. If he gets caught with one then he gets kicked off the team.

I asked him about it. He said he didn't like h...

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My ex


Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 11:44 pm

15/f

I thought I was over my ex. I am. But I haven't seen him in forever since Sunday. We broke up like 7 months ago. So this big thing happened between us and we don't even talk anymore. There was this huge lie that went on. He thought I cheated on him the whole time we went out because my friends told him that because they were mad at him. It's a long story. But I started drooling over him when I saw him. But from what one of his friends told me he is still mad at me. I understand why he would be, but it was never true. To be honest I still care about him, but I don't like him. I'm just wondering what I can do to fix things. His friend wasn't sure if he was still mad but that he gives me these looks. His friend is going to ...

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Swimming in P.E.


Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 10:44 pm

My P.E. class is swimming for the next 5 weeks or so, and I'm not doing so hot. The past couple of times I'm fine on the first few laps, but on the last few, I honestly can barely make it across the pool. Today, actually, on the last lap, I just didn't have the strength to keep going and I had to start doggy-paddling, etc. to make sure I got to the other end. I thought I was going to drown.

So my question... does anyone have any tips for me? I would love to just not dress out and all that jazz, but my mom doesn't really want me to get an F, and neither do I. (and my teacher is kinda weird - it's a male teacher, too) Is there any way I can make it easier? Or does anyone know a good excuse to get out of it? (I'm a girl, and yes...

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Please Read Evven Though Long. 14 year old in distress


Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 10:25 pm

I have a best friend that is a year younger than me and we have been friends for 10 years. I am 14 btw. I used to have two other best friends of my own age. One day they just told me that they didn't like me and that my boyfriend had changed my personality. The meaner of the 2 who was doing all the talking, I'll call her Sally told me that I was nothing like I used to be. It has been almost a year, and "sally" and I still talk often. I also talk to the one that wasn't doing much talking "Emily." My best friend and boyfriend both disapprove of me talking to either of themm but I just don't know what to do. Oh and Emily and Sally are quite friendless besides eachother too. Please, help me I can't decide if I should talk t...

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Am I too young?


Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 10:00 pm

16female

Am I too young to be giving my boyfriend a handjob or getting fingered? I mean we've been going out 2 months and we hooked up about a month before we went out...I feel almost scandalous when I do...I keep doubting my morals, there's a piece of me that wants to fight my hormones. Any personal experience or advice would help! Thank you!

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