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This guy
15/f
So I liked this guy since about May. We are good friends. It's just the fact that he is 17. So it's like a 2 year difference. So I didn't want to do anything about it.
Then about 2 weeks ago I found out my friend liked him. She is the same age as me. I was fine with it. I'm not the kind of girl to get jealous. Especially if he isn't mine. So she told him. She told me that he said he liked her but didn't want to do anything about it because he is a senior and he is graduating, plus he is on the football team. So he isn't allowed to have a girlfriend. Stupid new rule they made recently. If he gets caught with one then he gets kicked off the team.
I asked him about it. He said he didn't like her but he did tell her that he wanted to wait till he graduated to date.
So pretty much she lied about that. Then I found out he liked me that whole time too. I didn't really put much to that. I know we wouldn't be able to get anywhere anyways. I never go out with guys older than me so it would be weird. I do still like him though.
So he says he doesn't like my friend but he sits with her and all this stuff. He is doing it to be nice. I haven't told anybody about my feelings towards him. His friends kept bringing up everything with us. I don't know what to do about this. If he is really lying about liking her and if he actually does like me and his friends are the ones to lie about that. But yeah, my question is, how do I deal with this? I still like him but my feelings keep building up every time I'm with him and now that my friend likes him, it makes it worse. Thanks.
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Their a lot of ways to deal with it. Write about it. Write about all about the things that is on your mind. And music can change your mood. When your all lovy dovy play some gospel so you get your mind way off that haha.Or deal with it and just tel hi everything and that you know that it can't go anywhere, you just wanted to get it off your chest.
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esy. spend time with him as a friend. if you sound as cool as you described, then you should be fine with just hanging out, and not obsessing over it. your friend obviously like him. did you tell her u like him? maybe thats why she's upset and he might like you, but if he knows he can't date and won't date till graduation, maybe its a message to you. the fact that he won't date you, or he just won't date you till then. just hang out with him. if you like him, then you should be able to spend fun time with him, without awkwardness.
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