Question Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 1:08 am
Lets see me and my babys father got into it about a month ago and he broke up with me.. That is the 2nd time he broke up with me..He broke up with me when i was 4months pregnant.. and i gave him a 2nd chance when i was about 6months but here recently..he broke up with me again..the baby is now 8months..I want to be together for the babys sake i dont want her to have parents that are split i dont want her to grow up like her daddy had to.. What should i do to make him want me back??
OhMyLucyDarling answered Wednesday September 23 2009, 6:34 pm: Don't go strolling back to him he isn't a worth it, Any guy who leaves his wife/girlfriend while pregnant period isn't worth the time. I know you want to be together for the baby's sake but to tell ya the truth this guy doesn't seem to have one bit of interest to do what is best for the child. You are the mother, You be a good role model for the baby as mother is god in the eyes of a child ;) [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
solostsoconfused answered Wednesday September 23 2009, 12:14 pm: Do not waste your time with this guy. You need to be the role model your baby deserves. You need to be a strong and independent woman. Your baby can still have its father in its life, but you shouldn't have to deal with someone who is so fickle and seems to treat your with disrespect. You never know, gaining control on your own life may prove to be exhilarating and the confidence you will exude from being dependent on yourself just might have him impressed. Even then - I would stay away. There is someone out there that will love you and your baby and will have the balls to stick around. [ solostsoconfused's advice column | Ask solostsoconfused A Question ]
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