Question Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 11:44 pm
15/f
I thought I was over my ex. I am. But I haven't seen him in forever since Sunday. We broke up like 7 months ago. So this big thing happened between us and we don't even talk anymore. There was this huge lie that went on. He thought I cheated on him the whole time we went out because my friends told him that because they were mad at him. It's a long story. But I started drooling over him when I saw him. But from what one of his friends told me he is still mad at me. I understand why he would be, but it was never true. To be honest I still care about him, but I don't like him. I'm just wondering what I can do to fix things. His friend wasn't sure if he was still mad but that he gives me these looks. His friend is going to talk to him the next time he see's him. But if he is still mad, what do you think I should do about it? Like I said, it's not too much of a big deal to me, but I still care, it's just that fact that he is mad about this. Thanks so much.
bosslady answered Wednesday September 23 2009, 10:42 pm: In my opinion, life is to short to dwell on the past. Try becoming friends with him and see how that goes. The first thing you both need to do is to forgive yourselves, that is the only was either of you can forgive each other. Take it one day at a time.
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OctoberBeat answered Wednesday September 23 2009, 12:00 pm: Hmmm...you should try talking to him, if you can't in person give him a call. See if his friend gives you his number. Try talking to him to set things straight. Explain what happened and well if he believes you then good, but if he doesn't then what ever. He's obviously not worth your time and friendship. Good luck =]
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