Question Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 6:11 pm
17/f. i'm very shy, & so is this boy that i kind of like. (well, i really just think he is insanely gorgeous, and want to get to know him, but yeah.) he is an art aid, in my art class. i really want to talk to him, but i don't know how. haha. like, how can i flirt with him? how can i even start a conversation with the guy? i was thinking asking for help, & i go up to the art teacher when shes busy, & i hope she suggests that he can help me, but this girl i know always says oh i'll help her. -__- & i ask a billion fake questions, hoping she'll tell him to help me, but she doesn't. hahaha. i catch him looking at me sometimes, he seems like my type, & i mean, what can i do to get him to maybe come talk to me...?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lilz answered Sunday September 27 2009, 10:35 am: Goup to him and complament him on something like: nice hair, nice shoes, nice paintings. Say that and walk off or wait til' he sais thank and say no prob. Or you can just say hey or hi. Be flirty about it. In your like most cute voice or sexy voice whatever you think he's into. Just say something to him.P.S. when you say something wear nice clothes.
Ashumms answered Thursday September 24 2009, 11:52 am: When your art teacher is busy, don't hope she will suggest he help you. Just go up to him and tell him that you noticed your teacher was busy and you don't want to bother her, and want to know if he could help you. There's also less chance of this girl saying she will help you.
Now, onto the flirting business. Compliments are always a good starter. Try to find something that has nothing to do with his looks to compliment, like when he shares a good idea. When you have him come help you, sit close to him, make sure you're wearing a subtle perfume so he can just barely smell it. Brush shoulders, when he hands you something barely brush his hand when you take it. This will also work when he points out something, you point it out too, while simultaneously touching his hand. This will let him know you want to touch him, but it is also subtle. [ Ashumms's advice column | Ask Ashumms A Question ]
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