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i need help
No one is giving me the support I want n it been so hard 2 me because I haven't tell anyone how I fell
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I know all too well how you feel. I've been there many times. And all of those times it turned out I was simply shutting everyone out,hence the seeming lack support. Keeping things in isn't healthy. Do open up to someone you feel you can trust,it could be anyone. Until then,you have my support. Hang in there.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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ok, well how do you feel? what seems to be your problem? the first thing you need to do is try to get the route of your anxiety, really think allot whats bothering you. it can be scary at first but in the long term can enable you to realise whats wrong sooner. is there really no one who you can talk to? a friend perhaps? peer or family member? if you still feel alone then try looking for counsellors or therapists in your local area. although they cost money its sometimes a great way to talk to someone when you feel no one you know is really listening. they also have special training which makes them equipped to deal with more pressing issues you might be suffering. good luck and i hope you are able to talk you problems through, no one should feel alone with their insecurities or worries, its ok to need to talk.
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After I answer this statement, send me another inbox so we can continue the conversation. Do you mean felt or fell? As far as support, sometimes support takes a lot of courage and fighting to get anywhere. Not everyone sees eye to eye, but there are ways to get your point across without causing controversy.
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I definitely think that you should let people know how you feel. Sometimes people don't realize how their actions affect someone so they don't bother changing. But if you would let them know how you feel, there's a better chance that you will get a better response. Remember though that if no one is on your side, God is! Be your own fan. Work hard for what you want and don't look so hard for man's satisfaction. Trust me it's not everything. Hoped that I could help.
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Hi dear,whats your question,let me see if I can help
Thank you
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You can tell me how you feel if you want to.
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Well okay, how are you feeling?
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Is there a question in there somewhere? If all you need is a sympathetic ear, then is there anyone to reach out to? Can no one be found?
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Sometimes people don't know how to comfort others. My friends sometimes ask me what exactly I'm looking for. I know it's easier if friends already know how to handle the situation but in this case it sounds like you need to tell them exactly what you need. Good luck!
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It's hard to get the support you want. I know. But it also depends on if you talk to those you want support from. Not everyone will see things the way you see them or feel things the way you feel them. If you need support talk to those you want it from. If they don't understand, just explain what you want. They may not respond how you want them to, but you can't make someone do or feel things that they don't want to. It's tough. And sometimes it feels unfair. But you also learn who cares about you enough to make an effort to help you. Sometimes you get what you want and sometimes you don't. Sometimes they give you what you need instead of what you want. Ultimately, don't rely on others to support you in the ways that you want. I've learned that you can't really depend on anyone except yourself. You need to take responsibility for how you feel. Why you feel the way you feel. And what you can do to change or improve it.
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What is it that you need help or support with? Please remember that there are always a lot of places or people you can turn to for help. If not here there are a lot of professional places you can also turn to who will listen and support you. If you are at school then your school should have someone who you can speak to (a counsellor) who will listen and try and help in any way possible. There are also a variety of institutions all around the world, whether you are in the UK, USA or elsewhere in the world, who will provide you with someone you can talk to in an anonymous manner which you will be able to look up on google for your country, state or town.
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How do you feel? What kind of support are you looking for? I'm here to help!
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The best thing to to do is tell someone. Your parents, guardian. Or maybe a counselor at your school. Sorry for replying late. I hope you ger the support you need.
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Very vague as I don't know the problem your having, but if you feel you need support and haven't really mentioned it to the people you want it from, you have to say something so they know you need the help.
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Lacking more information from you on just what it is you need. The only answer I can give you is this. If you want or need support you generally have to ask for it. Unless the support you need is openly seen by others you cannot expect anyone to know what it is you need or to ask you if you need help or support.
My suggestion is; based on the type of support you need that you go to the family member or friend that is most likely able to and willing to give you that support.
With more information on the type of support you are looking for and need I might be able to give you a better answer. You can write a private message to me if you like and I will try my best to answer you.
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Well, if would be helpful for us to know what exactly you want help for and why you are looking for support.
You can send me an email and I'd be glad to do what I can.
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Hi! I'm not sure what's going on. .Would you please provide more information? Whatever it is I am more than willing to help, but I need more information.
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Well that depends. What kind of support is it that you need?? you havent given a whole lot of detail....inbox me if you want more info....
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Dear I need help:
I'm so sorry that you only feel comfortable giving me only the barest skeleton of a question for me to advise you on. My first suggestion would be to ask you compose a more detailed description of the problem and then send it to me.
Everyone finds themselves in a bad place once in a while. We all get frustrated and because of the pain and negativity we're feeling, we fail to act and relate to others in a positive way. Unfortunately, it's rare for anyone to sympathize with or help people when they need it most.
The general rule for support is that most people will support others when they feel secure that others will support them.
Please take you time and flesh out the problem. Use a full page or two and I'll do my best to suggest solutions to you. I'm nearly 76 years old so, I've seen, heard or experienced almost everything. Alright! See ya!
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You need to tell people how you feel if you want them to give you support. No one can read your mind. Good luck.
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What do you seek support on? You can tell me how you feel. My email is listed and also my kik is "ocalaphernelle." Or You can just send me another message on here telling me if you want.
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Hi there! This looks like a follow-up question to a question I have answered? Is that so? The site is what you call anonymous, and questions do not have any links or references to the original question or who sent it. So all I have is this question exactly as you wrote it. I've got a feeling you may be the young lady who became pregnant at an early age, were very keen on keeping the baby and were worried about the reaction of your parents? But I may be wrong, if so I do apologise. Whatever the case, how about writing something a bit more detailed to fill me in on the problem? It's all free to post a question of course, and you can write as much as you want. I'll get the message in full, even if it's really long and naturally I'll read it all. Could you do that for me? I'd love to help and will do my best. Hope I'll be hearing from you soon? CJB/rainhorse68.
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What type of support do yiu need and whats your problem?
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How are you feeling? Who can help you out? And who can you trust?
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I'm sorry, I would like to help but I do need more information. What has happened?
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The first step is finding someone you can trust, that you will be able to talk to, that maybe a friend, a family member, or even just some sort of adult. If people pester you for how you feel then just simply tell them you can't tell them but when you are to share that you will just when you are ready. You seem like you have a lot of built up anger and you don't know who to trust. Finding someone that you feel you can trust is the first step is recovery. I wish you luck in finding someone to talk to about how you feel ☺️
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Hello!
I know what it's like not to have support in something, but the longer you wait to tell people how you feel, the worse you are going to feel. Communication is super important, especially if you are feeling like no one cares. If your friends still don't care, it seems like it's time for new friends. I would definitely make your concerns heard, otherwise no one will ever know how you feel.
Hope this helped and feel free to message me for any further questions!
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You've didn't really tell me what it is about I'll just give you the best advice I think would be best.
I know how you feel. I've been shamed by many people because I'm not the person they want me to be and for years I've been too ashamed to tell the guys about my hair and my phobias but now I do by th third date if mo the first or second so I don't waste my time. I still have a while to go. Sure it'd be better if you had a friend but if not you can do it yourself like me. If they can't accept you've as you are they aren't accepting you as a person. You don't need their acceptance than because they mean nothing to you at the point.
Good luck.
Best wishes
- Ja'Mae
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