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Hi YG,
I know that crossposting isn't allowed, but I would really appreciate your input on a question I asked, so I thought it wouldn't be breaking the rules to direct you to it:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=533048
Any input of yours would be brilliant :) (link)
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I wish I had better advice for you but I tried. :)
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My boyfriend and I have been together for five months and up until now have had a very strong and loving relationship. Recently, we have started to have lots of arguments, primarily about the fact that I feel slightly sidelined by his busy lifestyle.
We have always been open with each other and make sure we talk about the problems we are having, and today I told him that I didn't see how we could continue like this, especially as things will get busier what with exams and the growing success of his musical career. His reply was that every single problem we have is entirely down to me.
I know we love each other very much, but at the moment I really don't know how to solve this seemingly permanent problem. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
16/f (link)
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This is a tough one!
I know exactly what you're going through.
My husband is a drummer and he was in a
band early in our marriage.
Its very easy to feel the outsider on
top of everything else. He, having a wife
and son to support finally decided after a
couple of years that it was taking to much
of his time and going nowhere. Your guy is
a long way from coming to that conclusion.
Those two years were very long ones. I
don't know that I would have toughed it
out if I were single.
You talk of your guys growing success.
The more successful, the less time he
will have to spend with you. You don't
want what little time you do have to
be spent arguing.
So, I will have to agree with Razhie
you will have to work around it or
find someone whose lifestyle is more
in common with your own.
I wouldn't want to tell you to break
up with him, but he does seem to be
putting this all on you. Five months
is a long time but not a REAL long time.
Keep in mind that if you don't think
you'll be comfortable playing second
fiddle to a band in the coming years,
it may be better to get out before you
get even more involved.
I do hope it can work out for you.
You are looking at some lonely nights
ahead though. Been there done that! :)
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Hey YG. I need your expertise, if it's not too much to ask =)
I'm sixteen, female. I'm dating a wonderful guy, for a little over two months now. My parents absolutely LOVE this guy. We see each other all the time (well as much as we can, this equates to a couple times a week because we go to different schools, but anyways) He's seventeen. Age difference doesn't bother us, OR our parents. He's not in it for sex, and I know he's telling the truth because I know his best friends, and he's just not that kind of guy.
One problem. His parents think I'm using him for sex. Now, it's quite out of the blue for them to think this, because I don't come off as that type of girl at all. I make an effort to talk to them, and I'm not rude or disrespectful. When my boyfriend told me this, both of our reactions was, essentially, WTF.
How can I go about convincing his parents that I'm not using their son, and I'm not a shallow bitch like his ex (another problem)? Our families are having dinner together soon. Will that help too? (link)
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I'm sure your families having dinner together
will help. Its going to be a matter of time more
than anything I think. They didn't tell him
not to date you so that is good. They aren't
completely sure they are right!
Continue like you are. You really can't
do much else. Don't dress provocatively
if you know you are going to be seeing them,
be real conservative until they get to know you.
Not saying you do, just a tip.
I'm going to guess this might be something
his ex got them thinking about. It will take
some time but if he cares for you they will
come around eventually. :)
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ok ive been goin wit dis boy for about 4months and i love him and i lost my virginty 2 him so weve been havin unprotected sex.. but he takes out wen hez about 2 ejaculate but 1 time he was 2 late 2 pull out and i wanna kno am i pregnant? and does dat 1 time take enuff 2 get me pregnant? (link)
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You can get pregnant weather he pulls
out or not. ANYTIME an unprotected
penis enters a vagina you can get pregnant.
It only takes one time. So you could be
pregnant.
Here is a site that has all the pregnancy
symptoms. It also tells about birth control,
STDs and a bunch of other useful information.
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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I have been frequently urinating about 8-10 times a day. If I drink anything I need the toilet straight away.
I don't think I could be pregnant because, although I have been trying to become pregnant, I had a normal length, on time period.
It's definitely not anything like cystitis, because I know what that's like and it's different to that.
It doesn't hurt when I urinate either.
Any help would be appreciated. (link)
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Are thirsty a lot too?
Since you are trying to get pregnant
I would suggest you see your doctor
first. Excessive thirst and frequent
urination can be a lot of things. I
think you need to have them rule out
diabetes most of all. Don't panic, but
see your doctor. :)
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Hi i am currently on nutrisystem to loose weight.
Im not very overweight,i just wanted to shed some pounds.
I'm 5'6 about 145.
Ive noticed that I'm actually NOT hungry and I expected to be a little hungry so it would feel like Im loosing weight,but Im one of those whos afraid to weigh myself more than once a week ,so do you think its working?
A typical day for me is
6:00am
Nutrisystem breakfast entry with fruit and yogurt
9:00am
nutrisystem bar
11:30am
fruit and a dairy product
3:30pm
1 egg and some fruit
I workout
then
6:00pm
nutrisystem dinner entry with a veggie
and then a nutrisystem desert
and i drink ALOT of water throughout the day
more than 8, 8oz glasses
what should I do differently or should I just be patient with what im doing?
Ive been on nutrisytem for 13 daYS (link)
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Weighing yourself once a week same day
same time of day should show a weight loss
if there is one. Thats the only way to see
if it is working for you.
On the Nutrisystem diet you won't be
feeling hungry. When I was on it I
seemed to eating constantly just to eat
all the recommended. I did lose weight.
You should have lost some weight by now.
If you haven't called the 800 number
helpline. They used to give you someone
to talk to if needed. If they didn't
give you a number check for one on
their website.
Good luck. :)
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how do i insert a tampon?
i use tampax gentle glide, there plastic.
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Her is a site with good step by step instruction.
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/azhealthtopics/ht/How_Insert_Tamp.htm
There are also Youtube videos on the subject
if you'd rather. Here is a good search should
you need/want more info.
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My and my man have been together for 2 years but a few months ago we broke up a few months back for a few months and at that time i had gotten with this guy and regretfully had sex with him. now that im back with my boyfriend and hes forgiven me for what i did he now has this bump like sore thing on his penis. its not herpes, it like closes up when we havent done it in a while but when we do it it opens up and it hurts him. The other day it started bleeding while we were doing it and its never done that before. is it an STD? does it sound like anything you know of? (link)
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Here is an STD chart with symptoms.
Its a good place to start. STD or not
A sore on the penis is not something
you want to have. He needs to see a
doctor.
Any open sore may appear to close
up, if it did though it wouldn't
come back. So herpes IS a possibility.
If you have had sex without a condom,
you need to see your doctor and explain
it to him/her as well.
http://www.coolnurse.com/std_chart.htm
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Oh my gosh. I was just browsing youtube and I found this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EoF0e3Nkisk&feature=related
And I'm sure there are a million others like her out there, but I really want to help this girl before its too late. I have no idea who she is, and she is getting a lot of comments of (negative) support egging her on to end her life basically.
I need to help her. I don't know her. Posting a comment on her video and telling her the truth of what she is doing to herself would be pointless because her mind is set. I don't know what to do. Anyone want to give me some advice on how to help this girl and maybe pitch in?
Thank you.
~Maria, 17 (link)
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I don't have much to add except to say
that I don't believe the "You can do
nothing" comment.
Will you change her mind by leaving a
comment? Perhaps you won't. BUT, you
never know what someone will hear. I
think it is worth trying. I don't
think anyone can hear that someone
out there cares enough.
Leave a comment or email her and tell
her what you think. That is all you can
do. It will make you feel you have at
least tried to do something. Just like
here. :)
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how do i make new friends easily at school? (link)
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Here is a great site with tips for you.
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Friends
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so yeahi like to shave my vagina and i always cut myself ahhh!!! whats the best way to clean down there wihtout cutting myself??? (link)
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Here is a good article with step by
step instructions and tips.
http://ezinearticles.com/?Guide-to-Shaving-Pubic-Hair&id=62057
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heyah there i think i have an eating disorder because i am 5ft 7 and i weigh 8st and i think i am really fat and everyday for about a week now i keep putting my fingers down my throat to make me be sick on a morning and on night and after everything i eat but now i am i starting to be sick by self could you help please??? than you xx (link)
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You do have an eating disorder if you are
making yourself vomit. Tell your mom or
any other adult you trust. Get some medical
help for this before it gets worse.
Here is what you can look forward to if
you don't seek help now. You really don't
want to experience any of these things.
With Bulimia, the teeth and esophagus begin to get eaten away by stomach acids and the bowel becomes irritated from too frequent laxative use.
Often, the body begins wasting away as if it had terminal cancer. Add chronic illnesses, such as hypertension, stress, asthma, cardio-vascular disease in mid-disease.
Later stages include organ damage and often death. Additionally, these diseases include a progressive decline into depression, causing limited participation with family and friends, and sometimes suicide.
Get help NOW!
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so here is d sitution , i love this girl n she also loves me a lot. earlier she had a boyfriend for a short period of time, n then thery broke up(long story). now i met this guy and he claims to have had sex with her but she is denying it. by the look of it the boy dosnt seem so friendly but still i dont know how to confirm if he is not telling lies. my girlfriend claims that she is virgin. but m stuck........is there any way how exactly i can come to some conclusion???????
p.s. i am 19 and my girlfriend is 18. (link)
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Is the answer going to change your feelings?
Nobody likes to be lied to of course, but why
assume she is the one lying?
Why not just assume the other guy is lying
either to be vengeful or because he is jealous.
If your relationship lacks trust it is doomed
anyway.
There is no way to find the answer if you
won't believe her. Medical tests wouldn't
even give you an answer because girls can
break their hymen in many ways that have
nothing to do with sex.
My advice, should you want to take it is
trust your girlfriend. If you really want
a relationship to work out with her just
forget about the past. You two are all
that matters today. If you keep asking
or don't believe her then she is going to
get upset that you don't trust her and
it will be over.
Trust or walk away. The only answer.
Good luck. :)
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okay, i need some help. for the past month [february] me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex about, 4 times. we were VERY careful. he pulled out and whiped it about 2 times during sex and pulled a while before he was gonna cum. it's not 3/3-3/4 and i haven't got my period this month. i feel crampy and mood, but everytime i think it's coming it's just discharge! is it messing with my head? or could i really be pregnant? please help me, i'm scared and have nobody to talk to and can't tell my mom! help! (link)
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Anytime you have sex without protection
there is the chance you will become pregnant.
It doesn't matter if he pulls out, wipes off
several times or not. Pre-ejaculate is not
something he can feel coming.
You need to take a pregnancy test. You
can get one at walmart or any similar
store. You can also get them at pharmacies.
You can also go to your local health department
or planned parenthood for a test.
Talk to your boyfriend. Don't worry about
this alone. Its his problem too. Take the
test and tell mom if its positive. It won't
help you to worry about it if you are. She
will handle it fine. But don't worry about
that right now. Just get a test done.
Here is a quiz that might help you.
http://www.askdramy.com/quiz.html
And a website with lots of information you
need pregnant or not. There is info on birth control. pregnancy and its symptoms. Just
a ton of information. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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how do you become a better kisser?
what are some good technicques or things that make you a good kisser? (link)
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There are a lot of good sites out
there to help you. Some even have
video! Here is my search should you
care to check some of them out. :)
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ok..i skipped a period and i'm not sexually active.what is up with that? i do't know what it is supposed to mean, it is kidna weird. Can anyone tell me what is wrong or what is up? thanks in advance!! (link)
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Nothing to worry about unless it just
doesn't come back. Its normal.
Stress, playing sports or running, and
just changes your body is going through
can cause you to skip a period. So don't
worry about it. :)
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i cant sign on anymore because i forgot my password..and the email. is there anyway i could get on or something? i tried my emails but none work. please help (link)
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The only one who would have that information
is dangernerd. Send him an email and he can
find your password for you.
dangernerd@gmail.com
Be aware that I talked to him earlier and he
is sick. He may not get back to you right
away. Sorry for the inconvenience.
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okay so i have pretty white teeth and i brush them 2 times a day and like my left top front tooth has become extremely sensitive to like cold things i may drink to the point were it kinda hurts.. but my teeth are like not gross or anything so does anyone no what might be the problem? (link)
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There are a lot of causes for sensitive
teeth. Brushing to hard, gum problems...
Here is a good site that lists some of
the causes if you'd like to read it. :)
http://wrongdiagnosis.com/sym/sensitive_teeth.htm
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15/f
my boyfriend and i have been sexually active for a couple months now and every time we have sex it painful for me. we've been at it for like sven times now. he says he doesnt like when i feel pain. what can cause me to feel so much pain? (link)
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There are many reasons why you may be
having pain during intercourse. The
most common for teens is probably plain
old fear. Fear of getting caught, fear of
it hurting all cause you to tense up.
Here is a search for you if you care to
look. I used the medical term to get you
the most helpful sites. :)
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so i am starting college next year, i will be 17 i graduated a year early, its just a commmunity colege, but im nervouse, and im not sure why, but i want to be more excited about starting, plus im getting a dorm, which makes me 10 x more worried bout going. ADViCE PLEASE (link)
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You're nervous because it is a new
experience! Being away from home
making most of your own decisions,
scary but exciting too.
You will do fine. You will be
nervous the first day but will
soon make friends and settle
into a routine. It very normal.
I think you can be both nervous and
excited about it. You won't be that
far from home and will be able to
visit when you want to. So, just
think about gaining your independence,
Making new friends.
The atmosphere of college is different
than high school. Much more relaxed and
not full of little cliques. Thats my
experience anyway. :)
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