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pregnant? =(


Question Posted Monday March 3 2008, 9:37 pm

okay, i need some help. for the past month [february] me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex about, 4 times. we were VERY careful. he pulled out and whiped it about 2 times during sex and pulled a while before he was gonna cum. it's not 3/3-3/4 and i haven't got my period this month. i feel crampy and mood, but everytime i think it's coming it's just discharge! is it messing with my head? or could i really be pregnant? please help me, i'm scared and have nobody to talk to and can't tell my mom! help!

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anna-14 answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 3:10 pm:
yeah. I think you could possibaly be pregnent. get someone you trust to buy you a pregnency test.

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cutie2006player answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 2:34 pm:
I think that you should for sure go to the doctors and you don't need to bring your mom.

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Disconnected answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 8:25 am:
If you don't use a condom, there's always a chance that you could be pregnant.
Sorry, but you should know this.
Even if he pulls out, some pre-cum will still get into you.

There is a high chance that your pregnant, so take a test as soon as you can, and whatever the result is, decide whether you're going to get an abortion, keep it, or tell your mom and ask her to help you with giving it away for adoption.

Good luck!

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Brandi_S answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 7:26 am:
Here's another good site with early pregnancy symptoms:
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Cramps are not a sign of pregnancy. My GUESS would be that is PMS, and you are stressing causing your period to be late. That is a GUESS, because you have put yourself at a high risk for pregnancy.

Now, like everyone has said, take a test. Best bet is to wait for your period to be late 2 weeks. I'm assuming you are a teen, and your period is not likely regulated.
2 weeks gives plenty of time for you to be sure it isn't coming, and give your body plenty of chance to have enough pregnancy hormone to show up in your urine if you are in fact pregnant.

You do have someone to talk to. Just like YG said, you need to talk about this with the boyfriend. Yah, he may get scared, but you know what? He needs to be as scared as you, right along with you. He is half responsible for your worries.

If you aren't pregnant, use condoms. Not only do they protect you from pregnancy, but they protect you from STDs. If you feel old enough to be having sex, you need to be mature enough to get in the habit of protecting yourself.
If you can't afford them, the health department tends to hand them out for free.


ygs-29/f

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kronix answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 3:48 am:
You know, if you REALLY TRULY BLIEVE that your pregnant, your body will react to your thinking.

Its true, i had a friend who was so scared that she was pregnant and missed her period and lactating etc. but she wasnt pregnant at all!!

Good luck.

(best to take a pregnancy test to be sure, you can buy cheap yet effective and accurate pregnancy testing tubes at your local chemist etc.)

Kronix

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karenR answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 12:14 am:
Anytime you have sex without protection
there is the chance you will become pregnant.
It doesn't matter if he pulls out, wipes off
several times or not. Pre-ejaculate is not
something he can feel coming.

You need to take a pregnancy test. You
can get one at walmart or any similar
store. You can also get them at pharmacies.

You can also go to your local health department
or planned parenthood for a test.

Talk to your boyfriend. Don't worry about
this alone. Its his problem too. Take the
test and tell mom if its positive. It won't
help you to worry about it if you are. She
will handle it fine. But don't worry about
that right now. Just get a test done.

Here is a quiz that might help you.
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And a website with lots of information you
need pregnant or not. There is info on birth control. pregnancy and its symptoms. Just
a ton of information. :)
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

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