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Last Update: March 4, 2008
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okay, i need some help. for the past month [february] me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex about, 4 times. we were VERY careful. he pulled out and whiped it about 2 times during sex and pulled a while before he was gonna cum. it's not 3/3-3/4 and i haven't got my period this month. i feel crampy and mood, but everytime i think it's coming it's just discharge! is it messing with my head? or could i really be pregnant? please help me, i'm scared and have nobody to talk to and can't tell my mom! help! (link)
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I think that you should for sure go to the doctors and you don't need to bring your mom.
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I am 15 years old and I have 3 nephews and I have 2 neices and 1 on the way so I have babysitting experience my 1 nephue has special needs and needs meds and stuff so I can deal with that. I want to know if you guys think I am able to babysit and I think if people would hire me thank you. (link)
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For sure but it doesn't hurt doing the babysitters course and getting a certicate.
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Ok so for the past pear or so my mom has been very negative towards me... She is always putting me down and telling me I cant do things. I can even ask her a simple question without her turning it into somthing bad and yelling at me for it. I used to be able to talk to her and now Im afraid to say anything. I tried talking to her about it but she turns it all around and makes me feel guilty for telling her how I feel... Let me tell you that I have had depression since I was 12 and have gone through some very tramatic things that kinda makes fear anything sexual which my mom doesnt seem to care because her and her boyfriend are worse than a couple of hormornal teenagers and they are loud... It gets tot he point were I start crying and have to turn music up really loud.... She just yells of course If I ask her to not dot hat stuff when im around.... Im honestly lost here and it doesnt help that I have this depression hanging over me! I dont know what to do... and im sorry this is so long hahah I just keep alot in (link)
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OMG same this has happened to me. Why don't you move in with your dad your allowed to do that just talk to your dad about it and i'm sure you can. If not move in with another family member. If you don't want to leave your mom you and your mom could always get counceling together.
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Well to start out i have a heritage of italian and german and etc. but i'm pretty italian, so my leg hair and everything is like black. it is just the most annoying thing in the WORLD! but in my armpits there is ALWAYS (no matter what i do, and i can't use nair...allergic) like kinda stubble there. And when i shave my vagina, it is the same case. It is realllly noticable, i mean not that anyones looking but me, but i know your not supposed to shave upward down there, but thats the only way i can get it all. If i did that, the only thing that would happen were like ingrown hairs right? But any ideas on how to help that? Its just soooo annoying! (link)
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You should try getting your legs, armpits and vagina waxed. IT will hurt a bit for the first time but it looks so awesome afterwards. You can do it yourself for your legs and armpits at home and there are other products other then nair. But for your vagina i suggest someone to do that.
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alright so i really like my boyfriend. and its been a year since ive been in a relationship and im almost at a year with my current bf now..and i think ive being too clingy? and advice on a new relationship and keeping it? also this saturday is our one month.. and ideas? thanks so much ! (link)
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I think that you should not be with him every single day. Maybe like every other day, if you go to the same school you guys can hang out just after school hours just don't hang out but the next day sure.
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My and my man have been together for 2 years but a few months ago we broke up a few months back for a few months and at that time i had gotten with this guy and regretfully had sex with him. now that im back with my boyfriend and hes forgiven me for what i did he now has this bump like sore thing on his penis. its not herpes, it like closes up when we havent done it in a while but when we do it it opens up and it hurts him. The other day it started bleeding while we were doing it and its never done that before. is it an STD? does it sound like anything you know of? (link)
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It could and I think you should get it checked right away.
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How much will it cost? Does the bird will be able to live in domestic environment?
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I don't think you can actually buy one and have it at your home but i'm sure you can go to a zoo and see them. If you want to touch them i don't really think they will be able to do that.
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boy and i am different fom every body else what should i do?? (link)
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Wow well I think you and him should just move on with your lives. Since you have nothing in common there would be nothing for you to do then.
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maybe this is totally wierd and it dosent happen to anybody else, but whenever im really close to or dancing with a guy i like, afterwards my legs start shaking like insane! why is that? andd how do i stop it?!
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I think it's cause' you really like them and are nervous that's never happened to me also if your grinding a guy your kinda bending down a bit and you might be stiff when your doing that and once your back to standing straight your body is getting used to that again.
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Ok. So im a very passive person, i dont like to start drama, i usually walk away from it. All of my friends on the other hand, like to dump it all on me. I guess im just a really good advice giver, but lately, especially with my best friend who i thought i could count on for anything, im being treated like a therapist. Now there are things i need to talk about too, and ive not been hiding that fact. But it seems like the only time that my friend will even talk to me is when she needs advice about something stupid. I try to explain, im not a therapist i am a person! and im about ready to explode if i get asked one more stupid question or to phsyco analyze someting while i have serious things to talk about. This never used to happen, we were always both there for eachother. I guess just give me advice on how i can tell her this without sounding like i never want to help her with anything again, but that she cant rely on me for every decision in her life? ive tried, nothing works. thank you anybody who answers. (link)
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Wow that really sucks, I think that you should just try not to give her advice for the time being. And ask them your questions and see how they feel then they will understand and see how you feel. I hope everything works out!
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k so there's this boy in 2 of my classes that i like alot.. he's soo hott. well he doesn't really talk to me in class.. & he's kinda full of hims self but he can be sweet sometimes.. but yea we only talk during class when we're alone in the hallway or on myspace.. well on friday he asked me if i wanted to hook up with him on myspace.. & i asked him i its a joke and he wuz like naw im for real.. & i wuz like uhh okay. & then i told him to meet me at the park except for i told him the wrong one & thats why he wasn't there.. well he said he was but it was the wrong park.. & yeahh & i asked him why he'd wanna hoook up with me cuz like he's kinda this popular jock i guess u could say.. & he told me that he's always wanted to.. so is tht a sign that he likes me? & also should i just tell him that i like him? haha and also today in class he was looking at me but i turned around so yeahh.. i really want to but i mean we barely talk soo i dunno help!! please!!! (link)
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I think before you even start dating he should include you as a friend everywhere. Because if you start dating it would be behind the scenes and who wants that. I know it's something but wouldn't you want to be also dating at like school to and be able to tell people. So I think that you should talk to him and ask why he won't add you into his friends group and why he doesn't talk to you at school. And start to get to know him better and let him get to know you better. Also hang out together not just alone but wih everyone else. I'm sure once that happens something between you two will start :)
Good luck!
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hi,
well me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year.. he told me a few months ago when we were talking that he would never look up porn when he has a girlfriend.. then just recently i found porn sites in his history on his computer! i confronted him about it and he admitted that he was bored and had a look. he promises me that since then he has not looked up porn nor does he even look at other girls like at school or on the street. My friends say that all boys are the same and no matter what they cant help but look at porn and other girls. My boyfriend tells me hes different..
is he telling the truth????..
i believe him, but then again i dont????
its hard...
hope anyone can help.
thnkyou (link)
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I don't see the problem with guys looking at porn. My boyfriend looks at porn but when him and I are together he doesn't because he doesn't need to...if you get my drift.
It's just porn and if a guy wants to look at it so be it.
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Hmm ok, I live in a country, but I'm Finnish (I'm not gonna tell you where exactly I live :P)
So since there are quite a lot of us, Finnish, around, there are some Finnish events going on.
There's this one guy who I've always been really good friends with, and we have fun when we hang out at these events.
Last night I had a dream that me and him were hanging around with the Finnish people like we do sometimes, and we ended up kissing, and spending the whole weekend together.
What the f*ck?? I haven't seen him since August, and we had a small fight over MSN as well.
So what am I meant to interpret that as? (link)
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I think that this means that you like him and want to see him. Maybe you should patch things up with him and see how things go.
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I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months, and last month we kinda swapped rings (we're both metal heads, so it's not like he's walking around with a heart ring :P) so I have one of his, which I know means a lot to him, and he has mine, which also means a lot to me. So we each have the others one of most valued possessions.
When my friends found out some of them said ''wtf..that's gay''
but others thought it was sweet and stuff.
So I'm wondering what do most of you think?
And we are intending to be together for a long time, I love him a lot! 15/f
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I think that is the cutest thing ever! It's like a promise ring! omg awesome I have the same thing with my boyfriend but we actually went to a jewlery store :)
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Don't worry, it's not a stupid question like ''I wanna pierce my lip and put an earring post in there''
In July last year, on a school trip, I pierced my lip. I knew what I was doing. I had clamps, sterilized 14ga piercing needle and everything I needed, after I put a 16ga actual labret stud in. I kept a longer post in for the week we were gone, cleaned it all the time, and by the fourth day, it was perfectly healed, no pain what so ever.
Due to the fear of my parents going to slaughter me, I bought a labret retainer, and it works perfectly, I put a little bit of cover-up around it and it just looks like a spot.
My parents haven't noticed so far, so I'm safe.
( I take it out when we go to restaurants and soon , especially the dentist)
But I'm wondering when should I tell them that I got it pierced, I'm sure that they'll make me take it out if they find out, but I don't like the fact that I have to hide it all the time. Like once I forgot to put the labret in at school, before I went home, and I just had to take it out. My dad asked me why I had a hole in my lip and I told him it was a dent mark I had from wearing a fake piercing and he believed it so I was ok. But he always looks at my lip nowadays.
What do you think I should do about this situation? (link)
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Well if your 18 your an adult and are able to have the peircing even if your parents don't like it. If not then you should still tell them because since you wear the peircing at school a teacher or principle could call your parents and tell them and telling you parents yourself is a lot better. If they tell you to take it out you could always get it repeirced in the future. But maybe they will be fine with it.
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alright so my boyfriend is coming over here this weekend for the first time to spend the night.. and I'm suppose to get my period sometime this week, it sucks but would he be like freaked out to like sleep in the same bed as me? i mean i will obviously have to tell him since we wont be able to do anything like sexually besides me giving him oral.. well at least thats all i can think of does anyone else no what we could do since sex is out of the question? (link)
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ooo that sucks a lot,you could do anal sex. and I actually found this out i think it's sick but some people do this. People do still have sex when the girl is on her period they call it bloody marry! It's so sick and really disgusting though never tried it and don't want to lol
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Oh my gosh. I was just browsing youtube and I found this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EoF0e3Nkisk&feature=related
And I'm sure there are a million others like her out there, but I really want to help this girl before its too late. I have no idea who she is, and she is getting a lot of comments of (negative) support egging her on to end her life basically.
I need to help her. I don't know her. Posting a comment on her video and telling her the truth of what she is doing to herself would be pointless because her mind is set. I don't know what to do. Anyone want to give me some advice on how to help this girl and maybe pitch in?
Thank you.
~Maria, 17 (link)
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Email her on her youtube account, tell her how you feel. Give her your email so she can talk to you. Give her advice of what you think she should do.
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Ok, I'm gonna have to talk in Kilograms, so sorry if it doesn't make much sense to some people here.
Well I'm 15/f and since Friday (it's Tuesday now) I've lost 4kg.
I haven't eaten much, but I don't feel hungry either...
So I'm wondering if it's dangerous to drop 4kg in like one weekend?
So that's what... 8.5 pounds or something?
( I used an online converter so I don't know.sorry) (link)
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Hmmm i think it's fine your still growing and that but just to make sure talk to your mom and ask her to make a doctor's appointment for you.
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i know you cant control on how people look at you or i know you cant make people like you.... but how do i get a guy to like me??? or some advice on getting anyone to like me.... (link)
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I think that you should just be yourself and be his friend. Get to know him and let him get to know you. In the end i'm sure there will be a date between you two :)
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how do i make new friends easily at school? (link)
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Join a club
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