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recommend a good laptop to bring to college and specs?

I just bought a mac and it's amazing. seriously, it's the best computer for college. my dad works with computers and he talked to all his hi tech guys and they all said if you're going to college get a mac, they are expensive but i did some research and they say that with all the stuff you have to put on dells and whatever else with virus protection you pay for a mac within the first year because you dont have to put any of that stuff on it. no one has figured out how to get a virus on a mac.

anyone know a good way to clam down bad sinus headache

take a bubble bath, seriously. and put lavender soap or anything like that in it. it helps you sleep but mostly it just calms me down and makes me relax. i do it all the time when i get headaches and when i'm sick.

Okay so I really love this band, it's called Ghost of the Robot but they don't sell the album anymore and they don't sell it online or anywhere else.

But some of the songs are on myspace on the band profile, is there anyway I could download from there? Download it onto a mp3? Or maybe even my computer?

limewire

I'm trying to get my dad to build me a new room downstairs and i think i can get him to do it but he was to build walls and all that but i'm going to get a new bedroom i want black furniture with red walls i need to find new furniture that's not too expensive but cute does anyone have any ideas? i need help finding stuff so i can show him what exactly i want it's going to be a pretty big room also i'm going to get someone to write who are you to judge the life i live i know i'm not perfect and i don't live to be but before you start pointing fingers make sure your hands are clean in black and cursive pretty big on one of my walls. i found some cute stuff online at target but i need more ideas. help please?

i hate ikea the stuff takes forever to put together and it's confusing.

im a freshman in highschool
turning 15
im about 5'
[yes im short]
but i have really small boobs
i know its normal to have small boobs
especially if your a small person
but im only a 32A
and it bothers me that i cant even fit into a 34A
my other friends:
one is about 5' 2' or so
and she wears a B or C
also, i have a friend who is almost the same exact height as me
but she wears a B
it just bothers me :/
what should i do?

ha ha don't feel bad i'm 16 5'7 and i weigh 105 pounds and i'm still a 32 a the 32 is just your measurments under your boobs so that doesn't matter and you're still growing so it's likely they will get bigger but if they don't there is all types of bras that you can wear that will give you cleavage or make you appear bigger pretty much whatever you want. if you go to a store and tell them what you want they can help you. there is also gel things you can put in your bra that give you cleavage and make you appear bigger. it's really not a big deal though if you had really big boobs you would look really out of proportion and as you get older it won't bother you as much anymore and plus look at it this way your boobs aren't going to get saggy and gross when you get older like people with bigger ones will.

whats the symptom of mono i have had a sore throat for three days and its bothering me. or that other sore throat thing with the spots i forget what its called

you sound like you have strep throat. if you had mono you would be tired all the time

heyy im very anxious about having sex 4 the first time!!all my friends told me it hurts like hell.is it true????? im really really scared

sorry but it hurts like hell. i had tears in my eyes the first time.

okay.i know this is gonna sound really bad,and keep mind i usually dont do anything like this.but this guy basically got me drunk and took advantage.i didnt want to but was 5oo drink to really say or do anything.it was my first time,and i already asked questions cause i was hoping i was too tight for him to get it in all the way,my hyen didnt break or hurt or bleed or anything.so if this is true,could i still be considered a virgin?
also,if it didnt go in all the way and he wore a condom,can i still get pregnat?
if so,is ther anyway to tell really early on?

and if true,is there abortion places that you can get it withouot a parent?
please help,all ive been doing is crying and hoping otherwise

alright dude first... put the fucker in jail. People are messed up and most likely he'll do it to another girl too. You're not a virgin but forget about that it wasn't your fault... you can be pregnant just take an at home pregnancy test if you miss your period. going to the doctor would be your best bet and get checked for std's because you don't know if he had anything and you need your parent to get an abortion if you are under 18 but don't worry about that right now, just get to the doctor asap.

I know there are different ways for a doctor to take a pregnancy test. I also know the most common are blood or urine.

My question is, what is the most efficient test there is? I am going to my gynocologist next week and he will probably give me a test when i tell him that i haven't had my period since last november. So, I have to be prepared to answer as to which kind of test i want. Any information would be useful. Which is more efficient, or which will give quicker results, or the one that doesn't come back quicker, how long does it take to get the results?
Thanks guys.

they probably won't give you a pregnancy test because you would of already had the baby and what not... but if you think you could of been and had a mis carriage early on they might do an ultra sound and either way they will know pretty much right away

anyone know where i can find a necklace like this? under $10, please.

http://i1.tinypic.com/7w6lhzp.jpg

i have one like that but my sister got it from me from the renaissance festival but try ebay

when does the drought 4 is over (new lil wayne album) come out in stores?

it's already out

does anyone know any foundation, that makes you shine and makes you not be able to see where it ends. and it doesnt look like your wearing it at all. thaaanks muchh! :D

bare minerals or MAC

i use MAC. just make sure it's your color

Ok I want my son 2 have a uniqe name that starts with a " M " but that not very known one of a kind I want it cool, uniqe, cute, and maybe even emo a little plz I need help by the way it has 2 a boy name

Madrick
i like that.

Ok so i got two friends one just broke up with her boyfriend so she starts poppin pills (7) and the other girl wuz tryin to get her to stop poppin em so she grabbed the bottle and starts poppin double(14). They're both my friends but they won't listen to me....what do i do to help them cuz now when they have a problem they just pop pills

i disagree with the last persons answer because they started popping pills doesn't mean they need to go to rehab but let me know what kind of pills they are i know a lot about drugs sadly and i can help most likely

So, this christmas, i don't really know what i want. I was thinking of getting a PS2 (a used one from like e-bay or something, cause we don't have alot of money to spend for a brand-new one). I'm not really interested in many of the games, but one that I realyl know that i want is DDR. My question is where is a really cheap price that i can buy it? Like target, walmart, etc. Also, i heard that some of the mats really suck, so which one/s do you reccomend. Some i've heard slip, don't register moves, etc. Anyways, I was also wondering about Guitar Hero. Is that really that fun of a game thats worth it for $100?

guitar hero is 100% worth it i am in love with it, it takes a little while to get used to it but it's my favorite ever

hi im 15 f,

ok well i like watching people having sex like n theintenet n stuff and rent porn movies with people well doinit does that mean im bi or gay? and if im not what am i?

plzzzzz help.

curiosity : )
me and my friends will do it sometimes for fun or just to watch it. it doesn't mean anything i'm a girl and i definitely like boys, but i'll kiss my girl friends and do whatever. it doesn't mean anything

okay well im a soph. at a really good high school and im scared im not gonna get into a good college. i have mostly B's and some A's but i'm taking pretty hard classes.

FRESHMAN YEAR:

Hnrs World History
Biology Level II
Power Reading (extra class that is supposed to look good on your college app.)
P.E.
Spanish Level II
English Level II
Al/Trig

- i did swimming & gymnastics this year
- & a lot of community service

SOPH. YEAR

Child Development
Chemistry Level II
AP Psych
P.E.
Pre-Calc Level II
English Level II
Spanish Level II

- i'm doing gymnastics and either lacrosse/track.
- i'm in two clubs--> GIMA & EARTHWORKS
- i do community service pretty much every friday
- i want to get a job this summer.. probably as a camp counselor or at a clothing store
- i'm also doing this drug-free retreat program through the school
- and im joining a religious club outside of school and doing programs through that

what do you think? and what else can i do that would look good? and any tips on how to get my grades up? what colleges do you think i could get into?

colleges look for ap classes because they don't know what the honors exactly means so keep takin the ap courses

Ah I found this really cool profile and I wanted to do mine like it

http://img266.imageshack.us/img266/3661/66729377bi0.jpg

Does anyone know a layout code or website how to do that?

nuclearcentury.com i believe that's what it's called if not google that and it should pop up with it

What do you think of them? Im 16 and sometimes i want one really bad and sometimes idk. What do you think? Are tehy cute or not? I cant decide please dont say 'dont get it if you arent sure if you want it' beucase its not a permanent thing and can always be taken out

i love them i think it's just like adding another piece of jewelry and it's way easy to hide and you're right it's not permanent if you want it go for it you can always take it out. and fyi it does not hurt i didn't think so at least it's like a little sting and it's over nothing worse than a shot at all

how do you make out/french kiss?

okay this is kind of hard to explain but just kiss the guy and kind of kiss him a couple times and then slowly open your mouth and put your tongue in his mouth and massage his tongue with yours but don't suffocate him just lightly do it once you do it you'll get the hang of it, you just have to experience it to learn

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