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we have a problem!!!!!
Ok so my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years and i have given him hand/blow jobs and he has fingered me. We love each other very much so. Now the other day we were at the gym for p.e or whatever, and i was spotting him while he was doing the bench press thing. And this kid walks up and goes "WOAH, dude you are packing"(why he was looking i dont know) and then he turns to me and goes "I bet you like that huh?" I turned bright red and i knew right then and there that by lunch everyone would know that i have given my bf a hand job. I havent even like told my friends because i don't want them to think i'm a whore.(yea they are kinda prude). So im really bad at lying so i can't deny it if someone does find out and asks me. My boyfriend feels really bad about it because he hasn't told anyone either and the kid is his friend. He's trying to get the kid not to tell but i don't think that he will keep it a secret. I mean i don't regret anything i've done with him, i just don't want the whole school to think i'm a slut, like not talk to me. Im sure im not the only one who has done that and im posotive some have done worse, but they can lie.
What should i do?
14/f
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Well, it's none of other peoples business what you do with your boyfriend. They all have different opinions, but yours is the one that's important.
If someone comes up to you and says ''Hey I heard you gave ___ a handjob'' then just reply ''why does it matter?''
That way, they can't really ask you anything more and will leave you alone.
And don't try to cover it up, cause then people think that you've done something else and soon there will be rumors that are worse than the actual truth.
Hope this helped :)
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Well, there is no need to lie. If someone comes up and asks, tell them that it is your personal private business. It is certainly none of their business.
See, everybody knows if a person is a whore or a slut, because it is made obvious. A respectable woman keeps such intimate things between her and her man.
And I'd tell them that much, too if they try to say that you are a whore.
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