so here is d sitution , i love this girl n she also loves me a lot. earlier she had a boyfriend for a short period of time, n then thery broke up(long story). now i met this guy and he claims to have had sex with her but she is denying it. by the look of it the boy dosnt seem so friendly but still i dont know how to confirm if he is not telling lies. my girlfriend claims that she is virgin. but m stuck........is there any way how exactly i can come to some conclusion???????
p.s. i am 19 and my girlfriend is 18.
gossipbabe answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 5:21 pm: well u have to trust her first thats the best quality in a relationship ....but the boy he is probably lieing becaus ehe likes her and want you to be mad but dont fall for them childish games..... but i think you should believe if she telling the truth or if its a lie it'll come out sonner or later .....WHATS DONE IN THE DARK ...COMES TO THE LIGHT.XOXOXO GOSSIPBAE [ gossipbabe's advice column | Ask gossipbabe A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 4:29 pm: Is the answer going to change your feelings?
Nobody likes to be lied to of course, but why
assume she is the one lying?
Why not just assume the other guy is lying
either to be vengeful or because he is jealous.
If your relationship lacks trust it is doomed
anyway.
There is no way to find the answer if you
won't believe her. Medical tests wouldn't
even give you an answer because girls can
break their hymen in many ways that have
nothing to do with sex.
My advice, should you want to take it is
trust your girlfriend. If you really want
a relationship to work out with her just
forget about the past. You two are all
that matters today. If you keep asking
or don't believe her then she is going to
get upset that you don't trust her and
it will be over.
thelaura answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 2:40 pm: One of them is obviously lying.
I don't see why she would lie about it to you though, because it's all in the past.
So, just take her word for it unless there's clear evidence.
You can ask the boy questions, like when/where etc and see if anything adds up, but I will warn you that probing into this will most probably cause more harm than good. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
anna-14 answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 2:35 pm: most guys who go arround saying stuff about it are usually lying. i think you should believe your gf. and i really dont think she would keep something like that from you. [ anna-14's advice column | Ask anna-14 A Question ]
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