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Hey there(: well today, my boyfriends friends were apparently calling me a farrairi and other fancy car names, and he said it made him mad when they did that. I just really want to know what it means!! Please help thanks(: (link)
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Well, to compare something to Ferrari, is to say it is the best possible. The Ferrari car is one of the best cars available. So people will often say "This is the Ferrari of PCs" i.e. this is one of the best computers on the market.
So I suspect they meant that you are quite good looking, and generally an extremely sought after and nice girl. This may have made your boyfriend upset, because he may have gotten jealous. Either that or he is a feminist and didn't like the way you were being objectified.
But it sounds like they were complimenting you, and they went too far, thus explaining your boyfriends emotions.
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My best friends birthday is in a week. He is turning 18. I wanted this gift to be the best one yet. I'm leaving for college next week too so all our friends are doing his birthday and my going away party.
I'm thinking of doing a gift basket type of thing. Like candy and a gift card but I have no clue what else. I have ideas but I'm almost broke. I can't spend a lot of money cause I'm gonna need as much as I can when I go.
So any cheap ideas? It would be much appreciated! Thanks! (link)
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You know, I was the 'guy friend' of my friend who was a girl. We were friends for ages. Some things she got me include: jewellery, video games, a bag, etc, etc.
Last year was her 18th, and I decided to do her something really special! I got an empty box. It was a large gift box. I then covered it with fancy looking jacquard paper? Then I filled it with tissue paper. I included these things in it:
- A picture frame with various photo's from FB, and other ones. I included pictures of some of the places where we had the most fun
-Funny/stupid e-mails/texts
- Mike n Ikes (we once ate like 12 bags together, just talking away)
- 'Emergency toilet paper' - it's a roll of toilet paper in a card box, with a sheet of plastic in front that says "break in case of emergency". This goes back to a story once when a bunch of friends all booked hotel rooms. We caused havoc, but I was woken up at 3am by her, asking for toilet paper because someone robbed hers
- A cheap alarm clock, because she always wakes up late
- Some cinnamon rolls - Me and her once attempted to make some one day, and they were amazing. So I had a go myself.
- A CD with all the stupid songs that we've had good times to. This included a song from a band, whose concert we went to (our very first concert), "me so horny" by 2 Live crew (because it's hillarious!) and Lady Gaga's "Love Game" because she was once drunk and danced to it in the middle of a park.
As you can see, the key is to make it as personal as possible. So if he plays guitar, get him some nice guitar picks? If he likes listening to music, make a CD of his favorite songs? If he likes video games, find out which one he wants, and get it. Get a pre-owned version if too expensive. But even if you don't have money, just do whatever is personal.
Good luck!
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Hello. I am 18 years old and have 2 month old twins, the father of my twins left while i was pregnant with them. recently he told me he wants to get back into me and his babies life and wants us to be a family. we are not together but working on it. but on top of this i have recently slept with another boy and could possibly be pregnant by him. i really want to be with my twins father and we have even talked about our wedding but i know if he finds out about this other bot he is going to leave me. i honestly do not know what to do, HELP PLEASE! (link)
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Will it really work out? REALLY? With the guy that left you while you were carrying HIS two children?
Surely, It must be a "if it didn't work the first time, it won't work again" type of situation. Toss in a bit of "He only wants what he cant have" and it sounds close to what you're going through.
Of course, we don't know the whole story. So you need to make a judgement. You also don't state WHY he left. I mean, did he get scared? Was he unfaithful? Did you kick him out? Each possibility would lead to a different situation.
You must also realize that marrying each other *just* for the children will never work. Of course, it's of the highest importance that the children grow up with both parents around. But this can be done when separated. It is good however, that he wants to be in the childrens' lives.
Also, I don't think you should say "By the way, I slept with another guy, and I may be pregnant". Take a test, and then see. If you're not pregnant, then there's no need to tell him that you may have been. If you are, then you have a problem.
But should you tell him you slept with another guy? Of course you should. Relationships are based on trust and communication. You have to tell him the truth. After all, you were not together during the time. And HE left YOU. But will you be able to keep the secret until you're both 80+ years old, with children and grand children?
If he cannot accept it, then you have to accept his decision. Tell him it was a mistake, and explain your reasoning. If he really loves you and wants to be a family like he says, then he will accept that you made a mistake and that you're sorry.
But all this is really irrelevant. You just need to make a call about what you want to do. Think carefully. I hope I convinced you to do the right thing!
Good luck, Hope it works out, and I hoped I helped! :)
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I'm a girl and I haven't shaved in my area for a really long time. Right now, I have a bush but everytime I try to shave, it hurts and the hair doesnt seem to get off. Got any tips? Thanks. (link)
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Hello. Here are some tips:
1. If the hair is too long, trim it first. If you try to shave long hair, it will catch and hurt. It will also not come off. So trim with either an electric trimmer, or be VERY, VERY careful with scissor like trimmers. Just cut the hair so it is easily shave-able.
2. Shave after having a bath/shower. This will soften the hair, making it easier to shave.
3. Use a new razor - not an old one. Let it soak in hot water so the blades soften - making a smoother shave.
4. Lather up the area well. Massage a good quality shaving foam or gel or cream in. Massaging the product in makes sure it is evenly distributed. Use a sensitive product. Do not use soap, as it can burn and dry your skin out.
5. Shave in short, slow motions. Do not rush it, as the skin is very sensitive. Clean the razor in hot water after each stroke. Shave along the hair growth. If the hair is growing downwards, shave downwards. Shaving against the growth of the hair can lead to ingrown hairs and cuts.
6. After shaving, wash off all the gel/foam/cream. Splash the area with cold water. This is to close the pores, which open from the hot water.
7. Moisturize the area. Something like baby oil works well, because it stops the area from becoming dry. Otherwise, try to use something natural and simple. Avoid lotions with perfumes and lots of chemicals, as they can burn and cause infections.
Good luck!
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What kind of surgery was performed on Jack Nicholson at the end of One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest? (link)
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Prefrontal Lobotomy - easily found out on Google.
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For the app Kik, can you have more than one account on the same app? (link)
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No, KIK only works by identifying your number. So you can only have one account per number.
If you want 2 accounts, you will need 2 smart phones.
:)
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Ok so I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19 it's a two year difference! we always talk about everything togeather, but when we start to hang out more he told me he smokes! I didn't like that he wasn't going to tell me until I heard his mom over the phone one day telling him his room smelled really bad and then of Course he had to tell me. After that I guess I didn't care and still hang out with him, until he kept thinking of smoking and then told me it mad him feel calm cause well he's the type of guy that is shy and always worries to much. He told me his friend had told him to smoke to feel calm. He also went through a lot of depression and takes medisone for it. He also thinks in a negative way I try to help him I just worry about him! Sometimes its very akward because i used to get depressed too but i ways seemed to control it without medicne so everytime he gets negative i try to help! What should I do? (link)
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Are you talking about normal cigarettes?
Cigarettes do help smokers calm. At first, of course, it feels terrible, but a smoker gets used to this.
If you want to help him to stop, ask him to see his doctor. Or he could go cold turkey. Or he could go to the pharmacy and get nicotine gum or patches.
But it's going to be extremely difficult. If he doesn't want to stop, and enjoys it, then you can't really do anything about it. He's an adult, and if he likes it, he has the right to carry on.
We all know it's bad for our bodies. But he's old enough to make his own judgement about these things.
So if he wants to stop, help him by pointing him in the direction of help, i.e. doctors, gum, patches, etc. If he doesn't, then you will just have to get used to it.
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My aunt seems to have some problems with memory. She forgets some simple facts and somethins what happened to her some minutes ago. What should I do to help her? (link)
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You should tell her to see a doctor, if she is worried.
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i hav a cousin and she just had a baby and my mom is always googoo over her and i guess im use to being the center of attention and i get frustrated. And like today i was done stairs tlking to my mom about my friend and how she took my idea from our blog and used it on hers and then my cousin the baby and a few other people walk in and then i got frustrated bcuz i didnt want to tlk to my mom wen she was holdin the baby and i dint want to tlk wen there was so much noise. it mite just b anger issues. please tell me what you think and thing tell me how i can deal with it (link)
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Yes, you do seem jealous. My friend is similar: she is an only child, and still feels a bit weird when the attention is diverted away from her.
How to deal with it? You just have to get used to it. You have you realise that there at 7billion other people in the world, and it doesn't revolve around you.
It's just something you have to accept. You won't always be the centre of attention. It's better you accept this now, than realise it when you're older, in college or the world of work.
Good luck! :)
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Hi, we've been dating for 2 and half years now and we love each other. we have just moved in together. he has a young kid with his ex. but whenever we argue he's so defensive of his ex as he says he hates his ex as she hurt him very badly in the past that's the reason they broke up. but i think to my myself, if someone hates so much then why so defensive of her? she is a very manipulative woman. so guys, defensive means still loving her or am i thinking to much? thanks. (link)
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Well, I think you're overthinking things.
No-one likes to admit they were wrong, and that may be the reasoning behind it.
You must also realise that she is the mother of his child. However bad she is, she is still the childs mother, and he has to respect that. I mean, you wouldn't expect him to be disrespectful of his own mother right? If someone is disrespectful to your mother, how would you feel? And how much worse would it be if it was your father doing it?
So I think you should cut him some slack. It doesn't mean that he is going to run off with her- it just means that he is moving on from her, and is acting like an adult for the sake of his child.
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21 f
I gained about 17 pounds this summer since I was away and i really need to lose it ASAP. Because I dont want to start school chubby. :( what are some exercises I can do to help me and for how long? I hate running haha. Thats something I really hate. But anyway my friends and I wanna go bike riding like maybe an hour or 2, 3 or 4 times a week would be cool. What does biking help? I mean I know it's strengthens your legs but is that all? And what are some good foods I could eat? Any thing is helpful really! I stopped all the junk foods. And im trying to get myself to exercise a bit. I am really committed to loosing this weight. Thanks everyone! (link)
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Hello.
Any exercise is good, especially if you are relatively new to exercise because your body will lose much more.
Biking is good. Like you say, it strengthens your legs, but also works other parts of your body. It's also great if you go with friends because it's more focussed on fun, and you don't get bored.
If you don't like running, then walking is a good start. Then slowly progress to jogging.
If you can swim, swimming is one of the best exercises you can do because it works the whole body.
Tennis is also good, because you move your upper body, and run around. You don't have to really know how to play- just go with a friend to the park, and have a good time. If you have fun, you're more likely to keep up with it!
Basically, do anything that keeps your body moving!
In regards to food, just use common sense. Avoid processed, fatty, junk food and snacks. If you're addicted to soda, drink sparkling water.
Half your plate should be fruit and veggies. A playing card pack sized amount of protein (meat, eggs, fish, beans, etc), and stick to wholewheat carbs (whole wheat pasta, rice, cous cous, wholegrain bread) instead of the processed white stuff - the fibre will keep you fuller for longer.
Snack on veggies, and make healthy dips such as humous or other ones will fat free greek yogurt (I like getting greek yogurt, and adding ranch dressing seasoning-if you can't find the seasoning, just replace it with salt, pepper, garlic, parsley, dill, and lemon juice- It's all of around 5 calories for the whole bowl, and tastes just like mayo!).
Find new ways of preparing food, so you don't get bored. Marinate your meat, roast broccoli (instead of boiling it. Roasting makes it much tastier), etc.
So in short: have fun, move your body, and use common sense with food. If in doubt, go for nature.
Hope I helped!
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Hey everyone! I'm 14/f
Recently I've been confronted with a common -- more common than I thought -- situation & it seems that whenever something new is presented to me, whether it be a new word or a new show I've never heard of, I start to see it everywhere. That is really no surprise because it happens each time I'm presented with something new.
This time the situation is knowing a person from the opposite sex for a long time & ending up married when you're older. I have always wondered why that is ever since I was little & had my forever crush on a friend.
There are a few songs that I already knew for a few years, others that I just learned, but have been hearing them a lot lately. Like:
Mary's Song (Oh My My My) - Taylor Swift
Should've kissed you - Chris Brown
Speak Now - Taylor Swift
Sparks fly - Taylor Swift
Back to December - Taylor Swift
Ours - Taylor Swift
Goodbye - Kesha
And then aside from the songs, I have seen a bunch of couples kissing everywhere I go, holding hands, kissing, flirting, laughing, happy people. I'm just stuck in the corner all sad because I'm too much of a wimp to tell "him" how I feel. It's like i'm bring tormented by my own thoughts! It's driving me crazy & I don't like it at all! I dream about it and everything!
I would just like to know, is it normal for this to happen to people? Thanks for reading. (link)
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Hi!
You pretty much answered your own question with "It's like i'm (being) tormented by my own thoughts!"
When we have something on our minds, it seems to keep hitting us in the face. For example, I'm hungry, and all of a sudden, something so simple looks just so amazing to eat! Or I just heard a new song, and now It feels as if I'm hearing it everywhere, but I'm only just paying attention to it now, when I didn't earlier on!
So really, it's just you noticing things because of thought - things you wouldn't have noticed before, and it's perfectly normal.
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0we have a manager who lets a few associats get away with a lot.One she is a zsm,because he had a relationship with her.She cries to him about everything and he protects her.Her boyfriend now also works there,gets to come in on his nights off and hangs around her alnight.He also calls in alot and comes in late and this manager goes in the system and fixes it to protect him.I say these kind of managers should be fired.One overnight associat steals and our safety leader knows she has been doing it for years.She is real sneaky sbout how she does it.Our night shift needs cleaned up. (link)
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I don't suggest that you just leave.
Is there anyone higher up that you can tell? Like, a district manager, or head office? Anonymously?
Be sure to have some sort of proof however. No one will believe you without proof, and it may make the dynamics very uncomfortable and awkward. If you do do it anonymously however, the burden of proof needed may be less. They may just keep an eye out.
I also suggest that you just put your head down, and get on with your work. Don't speak to them about the goings on, or anything. If you get involved, you could get in trouble.
But if you feel really uncomfortable, then may I suggest you find another job, and then leave? Don't leave straight away, as you'll be unemployed, and it's near impossible to find a job. So get a job, then leave this one.
Good luck!
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My wife and I have been married for over 14 years and have three sons. For about the past 2-3 years our relationship has been strained at best. We go through a cycle of fighting with each other, make up and then the next week start all over again! I travel for my job, so I am gone quite a bitof the time.
I get frustrated with her because I want to have sex when I come home, and most nights she says she is too tired. She doesn't like me touching her because she says my hands are too hot. Cuddling together is also nonexistant. Her always rejecting me is making me feel very unimportant and unloved by her. I have tried to add dirty talk, and even suggested some role play to spice up things, both of which she doesn't like. We have sex about 1-2 times in a two week period.
I have always been a bit of a health nut and exercise quite a bit. Recently I have tried to get her interested in running with me and my oldest son to train for a 10K. Of course she doesn't want anything to do with that. She is extremely overweight and lives in front of the TV when home. I have threatened to disconnect the cable, and you would have thought I was going to make her go without air to breath. I have grown to loathe television and that all it stands for.
If I try to say anything about her food choices or habitial soda drinking, I am a nagging husband. She has a very high probability of developing colon cancer because of genetic abonormality, which is why I want her to take better care of herself. She has gained about 140lbs since we first met.
Four years ago, I became a vegan and my family is not. This has created conflict in our family as well. My wife still goes out and buys lots of meat, dairy, and lots of sugary foods. If I object, a fight ensues with my wife, who does all the grocery shopping.
When she 7 years old, she was raped and sodemized multiple times over a several year by this sleeze ball next door neighbor, who was 15 at the begining. Her sister decided to go to the police and an investaigation ensued, and a trial, and sentencing, which is still going on. Most of the change in her can be traced back to the begining of the investigation. Needless to say bringing up all these old memories and having to see this guy in person in court has really been a difficult experience to go through even though she hadn't seen him in 25 years. I told her I think that she should go talk with a counselor, but she refuses to go because she feels she can handle it on her own.
Our marriage is really having trouble and I don't know quite what to do about it. We don't seem to have much intimacy in our marriage and don't talk to each other like we used to. If some things don't change in our marriage, I don't know if we are going to make it another 14 years, and I feel like it is my boys who are going to suffer.
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You touch on various points, so I'll address them separately:
1. In regards to sex, you have to realise that your wife isn't there just to have sex with you. You can't expect her to 'be ready' whenever you come home. Especially with her past, it must be very uncomfortable for her, to be intimate with someone.
2. In regards to food, often, the reason people stay away from healthy food is because they thing it tastes dull. People don't know how to cook healthy food is the problem. When I first started 'eating healthy' , I remember the boiled to death brocolli, and the dry chicken breasts I endured. But then, I started finding new recipes to make the food taste better. My advice? Why do you not cook dinner for the whole family on day of the week? That way, you can test the water with them, and how able they are to make the transition. Or even one day of the week where the whole family is vegan would be good.
3. You need to explain that you are not nagging, but instead just want her to live as long as possible, so you can both enjoy life together. If you have to, ask her to go to the doctors for a check up. It is much more likely to sink in if it comes from an independent, medically trained professional.
May I also suggest convincing her to go to therapy with a professional? She has obviously had a very tough life, and so professional help may be needed. There may be other reasons for her behavior. Marriage counselling should also be an option if you feel that you cannot communicate with her. They can help with the strain in your relationship.
Hope I helped! Good luck!
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special trainning (link)
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I think this song came out in 1999 or 2000 and I remember watching the music video on Nickelodean, I don't exactly remember the lyrics, but I remember the music video featured two girls (one blonde and one brunette- the brunette girl looks similar to the band the corrs) anyways they were both wearing blue clothing and I think singing in the rain. I remember at one point there is a scene where the camera is at a bird's eye angle looking down at the brunette girl when it is raining and she's singing about the rain I think.
Can anyone help me out?
Sorry these are the only details that I can remember since it was so long ago :/ I'm pretty sure it was in the pop genre as well. (link)
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This vaguely sounds like, T.A.T.U - Everything She Said ?
Check it out and let me know if I was right!
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I was wondering how they test for the symptoms of stds or aids. I kinda have some of the symptoms like getting sick weak ammune system but I've always had that. Do they charge to test you? Is there medicine to help it? (link)
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STD tests are done by either blood, saliva, or urine.
Here is a website I've found for free STD tests:
http://hivtest.cdc.gov/
I highly recommend that you see a doctor to get tested regardless of whether it's free or not.
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Since last few days i feel continously vibration in my vigiana,so worried why this is happening? (link)
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When is it happening? Is it when you are in a car? Because the car will obviously be vibrating.
I suggest seeing a doctor if you are worried.
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Hello all,
I have a question about how I feel about sharing certain things and how my parents approach it.
I was recently on a ten day vacation with my parents and my brother. We were all sharing one big hotel room, which is fine. However, my problem is that there are certain things I prefer not to share; such as my roll-on deodorant, my razor and also any of my lip products.
During this vacation, as we had a shared bathroom - my parents helped themselves to my razor; which I just hate and it really grosses me out. Without asking. When I mentioned it to them they just say "Don't be so fussy, we're family" and so on, but I really, really can't stand something like this. Nevertheless, they continued to use it; well, more my mom- especially for her bikini region as we were on a poolside holiday. Ugh.
Then they would just help themselves to my roll on deodorant which is also something that grosses me out. They just thought they wouldn't bring their own deodorant to save space and help themselves to mine all they want.
Thirdly, my mom just helped herself to all my lip products because she "forgot" hers...
No matter how much I told her I don't like it if others use my lip products, she still used them multiple times each day. And even ruined one of my lipsticks...which I had just bought from the airport on our way to the vacation itself..
Am I being irrational here? Or is it perfectly acceptable that there are a few things that I shouldn't have to share with my family when they feel like things that should only be tied to my own body, and that's it?
How can I explain my opinion on this to my parents? I've tried countless times, but each time they (without saying it) imply that I'm just being greedy and bitchy and fussing about nothing. This happens almost every vacation and I am so tired of this happening...
By the way, I am 19 and female. (link)
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The only thing you can really do is speak to them. If after that, they don't listen, then it's officially not being irrational anymore.
It's perfectly normal to feel this way, especially as razors and deo' are used in personal areas, that can often carry bacteria.
My advice? Keep a little washbag thing. Put everything in there once you're done, and then put that away. If you leave your stuff out, they're going to use it. And when packing for a holiday, remind everyone (casually) to bring their own things, e.g. "Mom, did you pack razors?" or something will do the job.
Hope I helped :)
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17/F
I have a Facebook page with 566,716 likes and growing. I get messages asking me if I would be willing to sell my page and as a young adult (18 on Wednesday) struggling to get a little extra money, it seems like an easy way to make a little extra cash. I don't use the page at all.
This guy told me he would pay me $300 via Paypal. Is this illegal so sell your page? Is this a good deal? How would this work? Would he need my login info to use the page? Anything anyone has to say about this will be helpful, thank you! (link)
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Hello.
I would avoid this. It sounds far too scammy.
Even if it was realistic, it IS illegal. No question about it I'm afraid.
I may be selling my business, and I have a twitter account with 5000+ followers and I can't sell it!
But yes, If you don't believe me check out Facebooks legal terms, section 4, point 9:
"You will not transfer your account (including any page or application you administer) to anyone without first getting our written permission"
Hope I helped! :)
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