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Hey Everyone :) I'm Kate and a level 2 mod on here. I've had this account since July 2004, so I've been on here since I was 13! Wow ... crazy for me to think how long ago that was. I will admit I don't check in as often as I once did, but being away at college, being in a sorority, and having a job when I'm not at school is very time consuming. I still try to help out as much as possible, and if you send me a question I WILL answer it. This site helped me a LOT when I was in high school and had a lot of questions, and I'm here to help anyone who needs it :) Feel free to write in my forum or send me a question any time!

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okay well i moved to Arizona a month ago, and I was 130 pounds when i moved here, I got depressed and sick and I lost enough weight to get down to 115 in just 3 months...just a week ago I was 113, and now im 105..I eat like a PIG and i dont excersize at ALL...is there something wrong with me? Is this normal??

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Unless if you 5'4 or talller and you get under 100 then see a doctor ASAP and see if it's just your metabolism and if you need to gain weight somehow, and figure out how to gain weight. If you are 5'0-5'4 and smaller and you go under 90 then see a doctor ASAP, and if you are under 5 foot and go under 85 then see a doctor ASAP. Or just wait until next time you go to the doctors and ask your doctor about it. But for now, try to keep your weight over 100. I'd say if it gets under 100 or you're starting to look too skinny (yes there is such a thing) then talk to your mom or dad or gaurdian and see what he/she/they think.

hey..i am someone who is very unhappy. i cant explain why..because i dont know why. i cant talk to my parents. my parents are fakes. in public theyre great..at home theyre horrible. im in a counselor group at school..and that is the only time of day that makes me happy..when i can talk to someone. i seriously feel like friggin shooting myself sometimes. wtf do i do.

I hate to say it but I know how you feel. So like when you say you're in a councilor group at school does that mean that you see a councilor? If so does he/she know how you're feeling. I can give you 101 ways to cope with stress if you want. Just leave one in my inbox saying What are 101 ways to cope with stress or something like that. Is there a particular reason that you're unhappy? Like has a friend recently passed away, or have you been on drugs? Like do you think you're depressed and you need to be medicated? If so then tell that to a councilor or try talking to your parents. Are you just stressed because of grades? You didn't leave me much detail so it makes it hard to help. Like maybe if I knew your situation at home, or your age/grade. Are you new at your school? Have you just moved. Do you know why you are unhappy? I know the feeling of wanting to kill yourself because I've gotten that feeling before, but no matter how much you want to you have to get past it. Things may look bad now, you might feel like you're drowning, but it can't rain forever. If those times at school are the only times that make you happy then try to find a way to do something that makes you happy there at home. Try to let a teacher or someone know how you feel. When I had thoughts of suicide the 1st person I turned to was my favorite teacher, and she was of some help obviously seeing that I'm still here. I mean I can't say that life is perfect, or even that life is great or anything like that because it isn't, but you have to be happy with what you have. Like with this advice thing, I know that there are some people out there that haven't liked my advice, or that took my advice and had a bad outcome, but I have to get past that and realize I can't give perfect advice to everyone, all I can do is try my hardest and hope that everything works out for the better. Now if you want to either put another post in my inbox or e-mail me at Bull_Dawg_Babii@yahoo.com then feel free. My bull_dawg e-mail adress is for advice related stuff only, but if you want to just talk then e-mail me at Maniac_Munchkin@yahoo.com that's for ANYTHING!!! Good luck, I'm sorry that you're unhappy with things. Oh, do you want any websites that help people realize suicide isn't the answer? Or would you like the TEEN TALK number to call? If so the teen talk number is in my column profile, and if you want ANYTHING, no matter what, e-mail or drop one. If I can't help I'll find someone that can!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck :-)

i was just wondering a couple days ago...becuase i gave my bf a handjob and he got a little bit of cum on my shirt..and i just was wondering how long it takes for the sperm to like die once the guy cums..becuase i was looking at my shirt with it on it and kinda got grossed out wondering if there was little sperm moving around alive on my shirt still..lol sorry i know this is stupid but does anyone know??

I don't think it's actauly sperm, but if it is, it can't live more than 2 weeks outside the body. I think the actual limit is a week or a week and a half, but at least you'd know that 2 weeks is a good answer because it can't live longer than that. Have you washed the shirt yet? If not you might want to do that.

im failing and have no idea what to do!

Try to take better notes or make them more readable. I don't know how I passed history last year because my teacher was tough, but he was really cool and he gave us some study techniques. I'd try to help you with them but I can't really write it, I'd have to show you. But you could use flash cards for vocab. Or what I did we did in history last year and in math this year was make songs. Like 8th grade history for learning some of the lakes... Hiwassi little tennsesse french broad broad... we put that to a tune. And like for math, we put the formula y=mx+b into a song... it goes with the ymca... Y = MX plus b it's fun to go to the Y=MX+B... something like that. But really, just try different ways to study. Or some of my teachers offer extra credit, maybe you can try that. Talk to your teacher(s) about it and see what you can do. We have so many ec oppertunities, like in math we get a progress report every other week and if you get it signed you get 5pts ec. It's sooo easy, and some teachers let you turn things in one day late and only take of a few points for it, so take that extra day. But 1st check with the teachers to see if there are any extra credit oppertunities you can do. If not then just try different ways to study. Good luck and sorry I'm not of much help.

Does anyone know how many hits of acid can be taken at once, as in a maximum without over doin it? Thanks
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Any hits of acid could really over do it. I mean I wouldn't take any at all, but since that isn't answering your question I'd say just one. I mean acid is some strung stuff, that's something even I'd stay away from. But hey it's your life, live it the way you want to.

I came across your column so I thought I'd ask you a question, since it looks like you're good at this. Ok so heres the story, me n my bf broke up like over 7 months ago. I know its sad but I'm still in love with him and cant come over the fact that I'm not the love of his life anymore. See we dated for over 9 months and he even asked me to marry him and gave me a ring...this guy had me believe we actually were gonna spend the rest of our lives together. I went away for the summer and we still talked none-stop and then he started talking to his ex gf and he started having feelings for her again and so we "took a break" then somehow it turned into a break up. I dont know what I did wrong, and now we barly talk and he says hes in love with someother girl who already has a bf and doesnt love him back...I dont understand, he knows I still love him , or I least I hope he does, so he knows that if he ever feels alone I'll be here. But she doesnt love him so why cant he just stop trying so hard on here and give me another chance. I'm a different person now I have friends now and I do everything with them, not like when we dated I only had him and so we did everything together, but now I just want another chance. Is this bad for me thinking that I'm still in love with a guy that treats me like crap? Is it bad I cry about 3 times a day and probably cry about 4 out of the 7 days? Should I like see a shrink or somthing? Please help

I thought you were old because you said he proposed. Gosh, you could've said you were 16 haha. Well he's a queer if he left you for Dorothy, and he isn't worth crying over. I mean I guess if you still like him then try and talk to him. If you REALLY REALLY REALLY still have feelings for him then try talking to Tyler, but there isn't much you can do. If you like talking about your feelings and stuff, and feel better getting them out, then tell your parents you want to see a psychiatrist or whatever they're called. Don't forget about all your friends though, they're probably willing to talk. Even if you think and hope he knows how you feel, you aren't positive that he knows, so make sure he knows that you care, and that you don't think the other girl does. Or if you can find a way to prove that she doesn't. Just remember, his feelings for her are probably the same as your for him. If you really care then you'll want to see him happy right? Well let him be happy with her and when he finally realizes what he's missing out on with you, he'll hopefully come crawling back. Tylers a good person, and he was worth the tears, but he was worth them 7 months ago, if he doesn't realize what he's missing, then you should just try and move on. You aren't in love with him anymore, you just miss the way you felt with him, and that's normal. You need to try and either find another guy, or try and find something in your life you really like doing to keep your mind off of him. Try and talk about your feelings with him or anyone else, that could help. Talk about the good times, but remember the bad. He left you for his ex, he could do the same to her. I'm sorry I'm not much help. Good luck!!!!

ok so on my coloumn is an asnwer that my firend wrote and its not true but every1 has been asking me about it so i want to delete it. How can i do that? I tried editing my answer but it isnt editing it on my column, does anyone no wat to do?

Under Welcome, your screenname the 6th link down says edit answers, click on that, find the answer you don't like, delete ALL the text in it, don't even leave a space or anything, and the hit submit, then view your column to make sure it's gone. If it's still there then take it up with advicenator_admin.

I never really wear make-up, because I don't think it looks good on me at all. Does anyone know of any colors I should be using or colors that would look good on me? I have black hair and brown eyes, and I have very white skin.

You could probably use lighter pinks (eyeshadow) Ivory or classic ivory for powder, for blush you could use a light pink, for lip stick, well I use gloss, but I use this brownish color (I have brown hair, bluish greenish grayish eyes they change colors) and I use shimmer powder, and black or brown eyeliner (I heard some people use like purple, but I don't know about that) and then black mascara. And for eyeliner, I think the pencil is better, but that's only because I suck at using the liquid kind because I always get it in my eye and then I can't see for like an hour out of that eye. But ummm, if you have an older sister, or even a younger sister that uses make up ask them to help for the first few times. My sister use to help me with mine, but now I can do it all by my self haha. Good luck.

Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like?

Does he mean boyfriend/girlfriend, or just like a blind date. A lot of my friends have had funny blind dates, but if that's all then it's worth a try. Unless of course your sister likes him. Just be like I'm not sure yet, can I call you back. Or something like that. My sister had a friend like that, expect I knew him. But I just thought he was kind of cute, he goes to a different school, and he reads my column so if he sees this he'll probably know I liked him up until a while ago, but whatever. But like my sister never liked him like that so if anything wouldn've happened (yeah right) I probably would've said yes. But ummm, check with your sister and see how she feels about it. If she says she doesn't like the idea, but to go ahead and try then do that, if she says no way then it's probably for a reason so don't. And if she says sure it'd be cool, then have her invite him over so ya'll can talk some more. (just so you can find out if you like him really, and to find out what he looks like, and to see if your sister is trying to pull a prank on you and he's really some smelly, rude, ugly guy. Good luck!

If someone eats you out, will you get an orgasm?

It's possible, but some people don't even orgasm during sex. And then some people have strong orgasms during masturbation, it really depends what pleasures you.

I work at a restaurant and there are some really nice guys there that are about 20-25 years old. a lot of them have been kinda flirtin with me and i told my mom! my mom said that i'm not dating them! should i obey or not? i'm 17 and I'm a female and she said i should only date 17, 18, or 19 no men over 20!

Well you might want to listen to your mom, but there's some type of law or rule that says if you're under 18, then the person over 18 that you are dating can not be more than 4 years older than you. I'd listen to my mom on that, but hey it's your life. The only thing that would suck would be you getting hurt and mom saying I told you so.

whenever i click the "my questions" or "give advice" the screen goes blank and i go nowhere. does anyone know whats wrong?

It's been fixed, or it's back to normal again. We opened a discussion in moderator chat about it, and it's either been fixed, or the thing just came back.

ok well I have a problem everyone hates my screen name (sn) and I hate it too.. Everyone tells me to change it and I kept putting it off but tonight I wanna change it.. I have no frickin clue what it should be.. I am into basketball volleyball soccer well I dont wanna name all but mostly EVERY sport I like punk rock music like green day blink 182 and that stuff... plz give me some sn's i could use.. love ya lotz KAYDEE

blvdofbrokndrms GreenDayGurlie(class of ?)
SportsChicka(any #) PunkRockBabi(#)
KaydeeBaby(#)
I answered because I thought of some stuff. But really this is an advice site, not a site looking for screennames.

when the slop of a line is 12/0 (12 over 0) is is 0 or undefined? when the zeros on the top is it 0 or undefined?

This might help... when the 0 is on top then it's zero slope, which would also be a horiZontal line... the Z in horizonal, and the Z in Zero. Also my teacher last year drew an H, and the line in the middle that goes horizontally, she drew arrows on the end so we'd know that it was a horizontal line and zero slope. And andything devided by zero is undefined or no slope, because you can't devide something by nothing. you can't break down12 into 0 pieces, but you can break down 0 into 12 peices. (confusing I know) And a way to remember no slop, a verticle line on the graph... When you make a capital n it looks like this N well the 2 outer lines are verticle, my teacher drew arrows on those to so you would know that No slope=undefined.
To answer your question if zero is on the bottom it's undefined(or no slope) and when it's on the top it's ZERO slope.

Also if you solve a problem and x=# then it's undefined(no slope) and if y=# then it's 0 slope.

Good luck, any math questions, algebra level or lower feel free to ask!! I'm awesome at math (as in a 100 or more average)

And I just thought of this to help you, if it's 0/0 then it's undefined because you can't divide anything by 0, so always check for the 0 on bottom first, if it's not on the bottom, then see if it's on top. But 0/0 is UNDEFINED ( I thought some of the extra tips I gave would be helpful, sorry it's kind of long)

my boyfriend wants me to give him head or a handjob .. im really up to it because ive never done it before and im ready to try it but i dont really know what to DO!! i would so app it if you could help me .. thanks alot!!

Well pretty much a blow job is just sucking on his penis. Some guys say they like a little teeth in it but not like biting or anything hard. And a handjob is just pretty much massaging his penis, so that's what you'd have to do for that. Ummm, tell him that you've never done it before but you're willing to try. He can help you with the handjob part, like you put your hand on his penis, he puts his hand on your hand and he moves his hand or whatever. And make sure he'll let you know what he likes and doesn't so you know what not to do again. Good luck, have fun, and be safe. (Crazy as it is you can get STDs from blow jobs, and I'm not sure about if you can get anything from hand jobs, but wash your hands afterwords just in case.) Also, this might not make it feel as good for the guy, but if you don't know if he has STDs or not (like you weren't there if and when he was tested) then have him wear a condom, but a flavored one when you give him the blowjob. It might not feel as good for him, but at least you can be safe about it. Good luck, have fun, be safe!

Over the weekend me and my friend got in a fight with a permanet marker, she accidently got some on my light pair of jeans and it won't come out. I washed them and put SHOUT stain remover on them twice but it still won't come out. Do any of you have any suggestions? My jeans are really light, so I dont wanna to ruin there color or anything, and if I bleach them, then I'll lose the color in that spot. Please help.

Isn't there some type of soda like thing that gets it out. GOSH, I can't think of the name. I got eyeliner on a pair of my light jeans (don't ask) and it still hasn't come out, but the more I wear them the lighter it gets. Even though it's permenant it could still possibly come out. Just try other methods. There's this one girl who got pen off a purse using hand sanitizer, she told me it gets out all stains... I'm not sure about that, I've never tried, but I guess you could. Sorry I'm not much more help then this.

Hey, this is the girl who asked the question about my friend not eating in a week (now almost 2 weeks). I talked to my friend that sits at my lunch table (and also knows) in homeroom about it. I said "Do you think we should tell someone?" and she agreed with me, so we're going to see if she eats anything tomorrow and over the weekend and then, if this still continues, we're telling our school counselor on Monday. Do you think this is the right thing to do? I told her not to tell anyone because we might not want her to know WE told. Is it okay to wait another 3 days? I can't really tell tomorrow (Friday) anyway, because it's too short notice and I just think Monday is better. So what do you think about this? And what will they do with my friend (the one who doesn't eat)? Thank you so much, you have helped a lot.

Well, if you might want to have a sleepover or something this weekend if you can just to make sure whether or not she eats. But yeah, it's okay to wait until monday. I'd rather talk to a teacher about it, because guidance will call the parent of the person you're talking about. (I used to cut my wrists, a teacher turned me in to guidance, and they had to call home) But if you ask to confidentially tell a teacher and ask the teacher not to say anything then maybe you can ask the teacher what to do. Or when you go to guidance with that friend say this to your councilor... "We are really worried about a friend, I don't want to say her name yet, but she hasn't eaten in over a week, or isn't eating enough. Is there anything I can do for my friend before revealing information to you. I know that you'd have to call home and I'd rather talk to her first, but I'm not sure what I can say." I think that's sort of good. I'd probably say something like that. Ummm, if you want to leave details or names (made up or not) then you can e-mail me... Maniac_Munchkin@yahoo.com or Bull_Dawg_Babii@yahoo.com A friend of mine found out she was pregnant today and she wanted to talk to our parent/child development teacher but she was afraid, she wouldn't even tell the teacher what was wrong. So today I saw the teacher, and I told the teacher what was up, and that teacher can't reveal that information. The only thing I'm scared about is that this girl could kick my butt real bad, and she would if anyone finds out... and there are some girls in my 3rd that asked me what was wrong, and they were like is she pregnant, and I didn't sound truthful when I said no, so I'm afraid they might know and this girl will like KILL me haha. But if you want to talk to guidance then 1st find out things you can say to your friend rather then just dropping her name and letting them deal. You asked what they'll do with the friend that doesn't eat. What happened with me is I had a few tests done to make sure I was okay, then I saw a "Shrink" (child psychiatrist?/pschologist?) and I had to go like once every 2 weeks, tell her what I ate, and she'd weigh me and I'd be free to leave. Then they transfered me to a dif "Shrink" and she would have me tell her how I felt and we'd do feeling games (I was in 5th-first week of 7th grade when this was going on) and she'd have me draw stuff, and she said as long as I told the truth I didn't have to answer any questions I didn't want to, and stuff like that. And if it gets really serious, which it almost did for me (like if I lost another 10lbs) then they'd have to put her in the hospital and feed her through a needle thingy. Or they'd have to put her in one of those hospitals made especially for people with disorders such as eating disorders and things like that. But the only thing the guidance councilor really does is call home and maybe meet with you once every week or every other week or even every month until you recieve proffesional help or until you're eating. If you want to give me details or anything then e-mail me, or my AIM screen name is xo Krazi Kate ox Hope I've helped some. You've waited this long, another three days might hurt a bit, but unless she passes out from not eating, or unless she's more than 10lbs underweight, then you can wait until Monday! Good luck, hope everything goes okay with your friend!! E-mail me, IM me, or leave me another one in my inbox!

is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant?

Yup, it might not be as comfortable for her once she gets further into the pregnancy, but I know it's safe, at least for the 1st few months.

Ok.. My friend wants to kill her self and when we were at a party she locked her self in a closet and tried to find something sharp to kill her self with and I am really scared for her!

plz help me!

Teen Talk... if you don't have the number let me know. I'm sorry I'm not of much more help, there is a lot I could say, I'll tell you right now I was at one point suicidal, but I got help by myself... well I asked for help is what I mean, I went to a teacher. But if you want to elaborate on the situation either use my inbox or e-mail me, Maniac_Munchkin@yahoo.com Just let me know that you're the person that asked this question, and tell me what all happened, or what makes you think she tried to commit suicide. I mean, how do you lock yourself in a closet? I've never heard of a closet with locks. Well, if you want the TEEN TALK number then let me know. I think it's 1-800- TEEN-TALK, but that's most likely wrong, so just let me know if you don't have the number and I'll get it for you. But PLEASE e-mail me or leave one in my inbox with information or some type of elabortaion on the subject. I don't really have much info here, so it's harder for me to help. Sorry, E-MAIL ME!! Or just drop one... if you don't want to e-mail me or anything like that, then here's what I did when I found out a friend cut her wrists. I e-mailed a teacher, told her my situation, didn't use any names. I just told her that I was one of her students and that a friend and another one of her students cut her wrists, I left some detail, asked her what I should do, and she e-mailed me back. I never signed my name at the end, and I never used any names... well not up until a while ago. I e-mailed her about a lot of crap in my life and it turned out she was a lot of help. Just seriously e-mail me with more elaborate information, or just more information then you gave, let me know about her life at home, and then I can really respond to you from personal experience. Good luck with your friend! Please, my e-mail adress that I check frequently is Maniac_Munchkin@yahoo.com and my one that I check almost as frequent is Bull_Dawg_Babii@yahoo.com

This is a serious question, so please don't joke about it. I know it's long..but if you read it, I'll really appreciate a decent answer. My friend and are both 13 and female. Yesterday at lunch my friend wasn't eating. She usually doesn't eat lunch, but I hadn't really caught on until now. I asked her why she wasn't eating and just said "I don't know". I asked her when she had last eaten a full meal and she said it was about a week ago! Only a couple of her close friends know this, but I was the most recent one to find out. Why aren't her friends doing anything about it? I've been thinking about it all yesterday and today. I had a long chat with her online last night about it and she answered some questions that I asked. One: I asked her (again) why she hadn't eaten in the last week. She told me it was a way to relieve "stress". She also said she thought of doing this, since it is better than cutting herself. Her parents are divorced so she says to one parent that she eats at the other house and vice-versa. Basically our whole lunch table knows this about her, so one of my friends buys her a snack everyday. We try to make her eat it, but she just turns her head and shuts her mouth. She said that she won't let it go that far. I told her that this is going to become a bad habit for her and she needs to start going back to her regular eating before it gets worse. I never would have expected this to happen to her. She's not fat (and she doesn't think she's fat either), she's NEVER sad (always happy and hyper), I just don't know. I know I have to tell someone about this. But I didn't think I would ever be in a situation like this. It scares me. She told me not to tell her parents or anyone else. I want to tell so badly..but at the same time, I just want to let it go! If I tell, I'm so scared I will lose her as a friend. I need someone to help my friend and me. Please.

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Hey in response to the feedback. Do you two have any classes together? If so, and you have more than one, then after class one day ask the teacher if you can talk to him/her with your friend, but totally confidential because you don't feel comfortable talking to a guidance councilor. And if the teacher says yes, then tell that teacher what's going on, if the teacher says no... well that's why I sent anonymous e-mails to about 5 different teachers, and the one's that wanted to respond could (2) the one's that didn't want to respond didn't have to (3) because I let them know I was sending the e-mail to more than one person. Ummm, if you want to talk or give me more information on the subject then seriously, e-mail me Maniac_Munchkin@yahoo.com or Bull_Dawg_BAbii@yahoo.com. All you have to do to talk to guidance (at least at my school) is go to the guidance office and either fill out a paper, or just see if the councilor is free. Usually you have to check in with a teacher before going to guidance, but it might be different where you go to your school. If you want e-mail me with the info on the whole 'anorexia?' thing going on.
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Well if she really doesn't want a parent to find out, then DON'T tell guidance, they will HAVE to call home. Tell her that if she doesn't tell an adult YOU will. Tell her that you're giving her until the end of the week to tell an adult, if she doesn't, then starting monday you will find a trustworthy adult. BUT when you or her or both of you talk to the adult before saying anything make that adult promise not to tell anyone what's going on. Back when I cut my wrists and stuff my friends told me that if I didn't tell someone they would. So I told a teacher about it, and she was lots of help. The only bad thing was before my 3rd period I was telling my friend about a convresation me and that teacher had, I didn't know that my 4th period techer was behind me. So by fourth period my teacher noticed the scars and told guidance, who told my parents. So tell her if she doesn't tell someone that you will. First you can go to guidance and say you know someone who is doing that to themselves but you want advice on what to do, and that no way no how will you inform them or the parents who it is unless it gets more serious then it is. Ask a teacher if you confide something in them and ask for help that they won't tell anyone otherwise you won't confide in them. I don't know how well it will work. Or at least tell your friend that you will tell someone if she doesn't eat during mealtimes when the two of you are together. And make sure she doesn't go to the bathroom after that meal time because you don't want her to throw anything up, or at least not for a while because as long as she gets nutrients and stuff into her system. Just seriously tell her that if she wants you'll go with her, but if she doesn't tell someone by the end of the week you'll take matters into your own hands. Then ask her what teacher she'd be comfortable with knowing (or just say you'll tell her parents) and ask that teacher if you can confide in them. Or send the teacjer am ampmy,pis e-mail, just copy and paste what you told us into an e-mail, don't sign your name, and ask then what you should do. Good luck with everything. I was anorexic for over a year, it isn't a cool thing. I was almost bulemic, but after the first 5 times of throwing up I thought just not eating would be easier. SO PLEASE, DON'T HESITATE TO ASK ANYTHING!!! My e-mail is Maniac_Munchkin@yahoo.com or you can try e-mailing me at Bull_Dawg_Babii@yahoo.com I check the Maniac e-mail adress more often, but e-mail me on whichever. And please let me know how things go!!!!!! GOOD LUCK!!

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