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I dont know what to do anymore
I came across your column so I thought I'd ask you a question, since it looks like you're good at this. Ok so heres the story, me n my bf broke up like over 7 months ago. I know its sad but I'm still in love with him and cant come over the fact that I'm not the love of his life anymore. See we dated for over 9 months and he even asked me to marry him and gave me a ring...this guy had me believe we actually were gonna spend the rest of our lives together. I went away for the summer and we still talked none-stop and then he started talking to his ex gf and he started having feelings for her again and so we "took a break" then somehow it turned into a break up. I dont know what I did wrong, and now we barly talk and he says hes in love with someother girl who already has a bf and doesnt love him back...I dont understand, he knows I still love him , or I least I hope he does, so he knows that if he ever feels alone I'll be here. But she doesnt love him so why cant he just stop trying so hard on here and give me another chance. I'm a different person now I have friends now and I do everything with them, not like when we dated I only had him and so we did everything together, but now I just want another chance. Is this bad for me thinking that I'm still in love with a guy that treats me like crap? Is it bad I cry about 3 times a day and probably cry about 4 out of the 7 days? Should I like see a shrink or somthing? Please help
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I thought you were old because you said he proposed. Gosh, you could've said you were 16 haha. Well he's a queer if he left you for Dorothy, and he isn't worth crying over. I mean I guess if you still like him then try and talk to him. If you REALLY REALLY REALLY still have feelings for him then try talking to Tyler, but there isn't much you can do. If you like talking about your feelings and stuff, and feel better getting them out, then tell your parents you want to see a psychiatrist or whatever they're called. Don't forget about all your friends though, they're probably willing to talk. Even if you think and hope he knows how you feel, you aren't positive that he knows, so make sure he knows that you care, and that you don't think the other girl does. Or if you can find a way to prove that she doesn't. Just remember, his feelings for her are probably the same as your for him. If you really care then you'll want to see him happy right? Well let him be happy with her and when he finally realizes what he's missing out on with you, he'll hopefully come crawling back. Tylers a good person, and he was worth the tears, but he was worth them 7 months ago, if he doesn't realize what he's missing, then you should just try and move on. You aren't in love with him anymore, you just miss the way you felt with him, and that's normal. You need to try and either find another guy, or try and find something in your life you really like doing to keep your mind off of him. Try and talk about your feelings with him or anyone else, that could help. Talk about the good times, but remember the bad. He left you for his ex, he could do the same to her. I'm sorry I'm not much help. Good luck!!!!
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