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God help you if you trusted the advice I gave at 13.trisspoke (7:31:17 PM): make me your forum link!
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i have had thought of suicide in my mind about 6 times now. i have attempted it, but i dont think i have really tried hard enough to kill myself. do you think i would be concidered suicidal?
Yes, you are suicidal and you need help. Talk to your parents about getting a psychatrist. You may be suffering from a diaese; furthermore, if ti goes undiagnoised any longer the affects may be fatal. Stop trying to kill yourself people will be heartbroken. Suicide is never a solution, it's the same thing as running away from a problem. Basically it's murder creating a bigger problem. Talk to someone who could get you to a doctor. I hope I helped!
i am a 13/m and i just cant seem to loose wieght i am 5,4 and wieght between 120-125 and i skateboard and am very active and sweat alot but i just cant seem to loose my baby fat and my gut i have a six pack but it doesnt show that much and when me and my friends skate to impress the girls i want to keep my shirt on so how can i loose wieght faster then i have been
P.S. i have lost about 10 pounds in the last 6-8 months
First off congrates on losing 10 pounds. As you said you have a six pack which is a lot for someone your age. And the truth is mucsle (sp?) weighs more than fat. But if you're still self-consious the best thing to do is cut your calories and exercise more. You're obviously active so try having a 1500-2000 calorie a day diet. Also when warming up for skating (which you should do if you don't) do some sit-ups/crunches and push-ups. Or after you skate condition. Conditioning isdoing heavy exercise after you play a sport. Some good excersises for conditioning is running laps, jumping jacks, sit up, push-ups, and lunge walks (very annoying but they work). Do these activites after skating. I hope I helped!
Hey I was just wondering which would be better for health reasons: eyebrow, nose, bellybutton or lip piercing? thx
I believe a bellybutton piercing is safer. It's harder to get infected from what I've heard. Your next safest bet would probably be an eyebrow. I hope I helped!
I'm a singer, and how can I make a bigger sound/be heard without yelling or hurting my voice or singing "too loud"?
Open your mouth wider. To know if your mouth is wide enough put two fingers right in front of your ear. Start opening your mouth. You will feel a hole widening. Once the ballpoints of both your fingers fit in there it is wide enough. Also sing from your diaphram. I hope I hlped!
At restaurants - what is the accepted etiquette/percentage for tipping someone who you have an outside friendship with?
You tip the same amount as you would tip any waiter/waitress. That is around 15% of the bill. It can be more or less depending on how goo of a server they were. Nevertheless, you tip the same as you would tip anyone else. I hope I helped!
Ok so i heard that you stop your period as soon as your like at the age of 50. Is that true? And at what age should you stop having your period?
Yes, you are partially right. However, it doesn't need to be exactly 50. From the ages of 45-60 you stop your period. You go through menapouse. It's when you cannot have kids anymore. You start getting your period irregular (even more irregular than when you start) and then you just kinda stop. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
Ok..i know this is sucha weird question..but have any of you people TRIED bloody mary? you kno where you go in the bathroom and turn off all the lights and say her name 3 times and shes suppose to come out?? or maybe i got it wrong..all i really wanna know is that if anyone tried it..and whats the story behind it and what do you do exactly to see her??? pleaassseee reply! i`ll rate high =)
It's something kids do to scare each other. Anyway the mirror is supossed to turn green if she's not coming or red if she is coming. However, when I did it I saw a face in the mirror and the water I put on it turned red but I think it was my imagination. Anyway where I live you're supposed to splash some water on your mirror and chant Bloody Mary three times while spinning around. If you are feeling really daring when you're done with this ritual say mirror mirror on the wall who's the bloodiest of them all? I'm not completely sure how true it is because I learned it in elementary school and you know how kids are at that age. It's always changing but whatever. I hope I helped!
what's anarchy? like will someone explain it to me because one of my skater friends is obsessed with it. he carves it into his walls in his room and his arm. but what is it?
It's freedom. There are no rules or leaders. It's a lawless form of government.
13/f this is gonna be long. in the past two years i've had three really intense sex dreams where i wake up and i'm really sweaty and kind of shakey and i feel all tingly and stuff. the weird thing is that about a month after i have these dreams i have another dream where i will be in the delivery room at a hospital having the baby. one time i even woke up with cramps in my abdomen. this has happened for the first two times but i only had the last dream like two weeks ago. Are these dreams just a weird...really really weird coincidence or could they mean something?
K.A.
It's just puberty. Not exactlly a coincidence but it's nothing to worry about. Your hormones are doing this to you. I hope I helped!
i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high!
Try cooking grilled cheese. Since you don't know how to cook very well don't fry it. Start by toasting bread. Then out cheese on the pieces of bread and stick it in the microwave from 20-60 seconds depending on how melted he wants it to be. It's that simple. Also make chocolate milk pour milk in a glass add chocolate syrup and mix it up. I hope I helped!
i hav just started developing boobs im at the stage where i cant wear a shirt with out like a sports bra but there uncomfortable. Is there a really small cup bra that i could try out?
Maybe you could try an AA bra. They are very tiny and probably would be good for you. I hope I helped!
I'm 17, and I have my first job interview ever at ShopKo on Friday. The only problem is that I don't know what appropriate attire for an interview is. What am I supposed to wear?
It is best to dress to impress. I'm not sure what kind of place ShopKo is but I think it's a ShopRite kind of place. You don't need to wear a tie or suit jacket, if that's what it is, only a button down shirt and dress pants (or skirt if you are a girl). I hope I helped!
well i got into a fight with a friend of mine, something she did really hurt me, but it isnt something so horrible that i want to end the friendship over it, basically this would all be solved with an appology but im not sure how to go about this. its been two days and i havent talked to her since then, so should i need help on what to do, should i wait until she IMs/calls me and appoligizes or should i do something else? 18/m if that matters at all
I think what you need to do is call her and talk about this with her. Tell your side of the story and ask for hers. Then you can figure it out. If you owe her an appoligy give it to her. If it wasn't a misunderstanding wait for her to come around and give you an appology. I know talking about seems very Full House but it's the best way to become friends again. I hope I helped!
I`m at home right now, and i really dont have anything to do. I cant leave the house or anything. Does anyone know anything fun i can do inside ( websites, arts & crafts, etc.) thanks ♥ i will rate
websites:
www.homestarrunner.com
www.albinoblacksheep.com
www.minilcips.com
www.habohotel.com (i think that's how you spell it)
www.addictinggames.com
crafts:
painting
drawing
snowflakes
anything with gliter
tye dye
cooking
If you need any other ideas leave one in my inbox. I hope I helped!
How much does lemon juice actually lighten your hair. and how much are you supposed to put in? and what are some other ways to lightn your hair without dying it?
thanks.
Yes, lemon juice does really work. Another thing you could do is spray Sun-in in it. You can get that at any supermarket or drug store. Lemon juice looks more natural though.
when i was in fifth when we used to kiss it use to be tap and now im in 7th and every one is tounge kissing and im scared that if i go out with someone hes gonna wanna french kiss and i wouldnt mind but i never tounge kissed anyone before and i m scared im gonna do somthin wrong and hes gonna tell people im a bad kisser cause i dont know how to french kiss now how can i learn how
OK only an idiot would really break up with you if you were a bad kisser. There is way more than that to a relationship. It pretty much comes naturally when you do it though. If you really really want to learn how to there is a way. Eat a maracino (sp?) cherry. Then try to tie the stem in a knot in your mouth using only your tounge. It's extremely stupid but if you really want to practice that's how. I hope I helped!
alright, my pubic hair has grown outside of my bikini line and it's really noticable whenever i wear a bathing suit... what could i do to get rid of it besides shaving or waxing??? please help, it's like really really embaressing...
~mandy
Well it you don't want to shave or wax you only have two choices. You can wear a bathing suit the comes a little longer (as in shorts or something that comes a little father that the average bikini line) or bleach it. You probably want to stick to your regular bikinis so I would say you should bleach it. It may be painful on your skin while your doing it but it'll be worth it. I hope I helped!
Hey how do i get a girl to like me?
Be yourself. That's the only thing you can do. If you act like something else by the time you go out with her she would figure it out. However, be nice and helpful. Don't worry you will find a girl for you if you act like yourself.
people say running is a way to lose wieght but can i just walk instead? if not, why cant i?
Yes, you can walk to lose weight. It's better to run; however, walking is an effect way to walk also. You just need to walk longer.
Hey. I was wondering, what is the best way to get highlights done...at a salon or at home using the highlighting kit. How long would it take if I were to get temporary highlights? How long would it last? How long would it take for the highlights to appear on my hair? I have like dark brown hair that looks black (I'm African American), and I was thinking of getting brown or light brown highlights. What do you guys think looks best?
P.S.: If I were to use the home highlighting kit, which is the best one?
In my opinon it's better to get a home kit. That way you would be able to pick where you would like them. And it's cheaper. I'm not sure how long it would take to get temporary highlights. But I do know they last about 1-4 weeks (not sure how you can keep them longer but my friend got them and that's what she said). It doesn't take long for them to show up. If you get them done in a salon they show up before by the time you leave the salon. You would have to read the back of the box to see how long the at-home kit takes to show up. The colors that would look best for you is brown or dark red. The best home highlighting kit to get is any kind that has a comb to show you where your hightlights would go. I hope I helped!