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:.Hey x3My name is Emily and blah blah blah.
:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.
:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.
:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.
:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.
:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.
If you have general questions on the topics I can be a lot of help in (as listed above), most likely, they will be in my FORUM
If it is not, you can inbox me to request me to put it up.
:.If you want to ask me a question directly...
a)if it is not urgent and can wait a week or so, inbox me.
b)if it is an urgent question such as "I'm being eaten by a shark! What do I do???" first of all, I'm quite amazed that you can type while being eaten and second of all, e-mail me at cancel.life@gmail.com. I will answer you by midnight of that day (or if it's 11:55PM, probably by 3PM the following day).
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well this is your typical, boy falls in love with his best friend. i have loved this girls since high school, and out friendship is the strongest friendship anybody could have. we are like exactly the same.
well, i never told her how i felt, i believed that i had no chance with her. she was always with someone with someone else, and she seemed happy. certain things happened , and i had to tell her how i felt. we had to stop talkin for a couple of years, but we are now talking but keeping our friendship very private and hidden.
i have been in love with this girl for like 6 years, i know it could never be, but something inside tells me that she is the one. :-( i am aware of my situation, i know i should let it go, but i cant. every day i am more and more convinced that she is the love of my life, and i can't do nothing abou it. i really dont talk about this , i have these intense feelings and yet i must pretend that i dont feel anything, so it would help to hear form others. has anyone been through this?
My question[s] to you is this:
-Is friendship that can last a lifetime more important or getting into a relationship with one person who is in doubt about it and will only last a year or so more important?
-Are you really willing to throw away the friendship EVERYONE looks for but is unsuccesful in finding?
You should never throw away a friendship that you guys have that's so valuable. It's hard to find ONE goodfriend in a life time and it seems like you've managed to do that. And if you throw away that friendship, man, you are going crazy.
Bottle feelings up inside is very very bad for you. From a girls point of view, if my best friend that's a guy said he loved me (Which won't happen because he's homosexual) than I would freak and get mad at myself for not noticing then confused about how to handle this and not wanting any of this stuff to have happened because I really wouldn't wnat to ruin the friendship. Then I would try to keep my distance from him because I wouldn't want him to have any feelings for me to get more intimate.
You should go to clubs, go party, do something with a lot of people and FEMALES and get your mind off her. Keeping your feelings all bottled up for one girl for 6 years while you could've shared those feelings with others was bad. I mean you cold've met someone you love LOVE more than this girl that is your best friend.
Meet new people..PLEASE. I'm sure there will be someone out there for you that you love mroe than this girl. What is the point of mourning and weeping over this one girl that is
1)Your best friend 2)Doesn't share the same feeling back 3)Probably really hates to ruin this friendship 4)LOATHES the fact that her best friend is in love with her.
It's pointless to love someone who won't love you back in the sense of relationship and such. But don't let that hold you back from meeting new people. There are millions of people you can meet but mourning over one won't change anything nor will it motivate you to meet new girls
My girlfriends mother, well I don't really know how to explain it but she expects her to be perfect I guess. But, prefect when it comes to the way she looks. She lets her know when she's gaining weight, she doesn't let her eat past 8:30, she tells her if she looks like shit, etc.
The big thing her mom cares about though, is her weight. She's pretty thin (5'4 and WAS 118 lbs and she's a C cup so apparently those are heavier?) but her mom still constantly is on her case about it.
Well, I've recently noticed a drop in her weight. Clothes are getting bigger, she's buying smaller sizes, her waist is smaller, and her boobs (UGHHH!!). It seems like she's lost I don't know, 7 lbs? And I know the only reason she's losing the weight is because of her mother.
Don't get me wrong, I have the utmost respect for her mom and she's like a mom to me as well, I'm just concerned about my girlfriend. Should I bring up the subject, or what?
Well, you're in a sticky situation which sucks..*beep* erm anywhos. Your gf should be at least 120lbs and if shes about 111 lbs, she is underwieght by 9lbs yo and that's NOT healthy.
If she has dropped a lot of weight in a short time, that is very very unhealthy and bad for her. If she keeps that up she could develop eating disorders (Like exercising a lot more than she should and eating less or anorexia, bulimia, etc)
I would tlak with the mom but that's a no no. You should just talk to your gf. Tell her that you're worried about her lose of weight. Tell her that she was perfect before but now she's losing too much weight.
Your gf needs to talk with her mom about this too. I mean it is her body and her mom is getting too worked up about it lowering her daughters self esteem and confidence and steering her towards eating disorders =X
its the end of summer and i have a little tan i was just wondering is their anything that will keep you tan? thank youu.
Okay, everyone knows that sun and the sunbooth is vvery very VERY harmful to your skin
I don't know about a lotino or whatnot to keep the tan in place..but there are products that gives you a tan without the harmful UV rays.
Neutrogena:Build-a-Tan Gradual Sunless Tanning is a lotion that gives you a gradual tan every use. It's about $9 at CVS or some place like that.
There's also Sonia Kashuk™ Sunless Tanner sold at Target for abou $15 ish--this is a good one since it's oil free and won't clog pores..so not breakouts yo.
I can't sleep because of my hormonal feelings. What am I supposed to do!? I really need to get my sleeping schedule on track again for school - any ideas?
Erm, go to bed thirty minutes earlier than the day before everyday...wake up 30min earlier than the day before everyday.Do that until you get to your regular nighty time for school. And if you really really can't sleep (and counting backwards or sheeps won't work)Think about boring stuff like the life of Betsy Rose...or the life of a plant...
i went away to a wilderness camp in early june. and my first week there i got my period. and haven't gotten it since. we were outside 24/7 and had constant forms of excersize. i don't exactly know why i haven't gotten it yet since i've been back home for about a month. it's sort of scaring me and i'd like to know what it could be. and im not sexually active.
thank you. xx
There are two possible answers:
1)You've just started your period and it's comming ireegulary...if you're period was regulary coming, go to #2.
2)Exercising will effect hormones which, in turn, affect a girl's menstrual cycle. You can get your period to come back by easing up on the amount you exercise or by eating a balanced diet. If you miss four periods or more in a row than you should go see a doctor.
okay.. well i've got a huge problem. i like this boy and well i was hoping to get to know him better ((im a freshmen && so is he)) and well i jus found out he's in NONE of my classes.. i see him from time to time. && people are always like "you should jus moveon" && stuff. but i'm the type of person who won't giveup on someone until i get them if you know what i mean. i've had plans to hangout with him by getting my other friend who's SUPPPER tight with him to hangout.. && so on. && no one wants to help me out anymore. i really don't know what to do. we're not close enough for me to jus ask him to hangout. we talk occasionally online && last year we used to talk like everyday @ school but now it's totally diff. and well there's absolutely NOOO one in any of my classes that are as perfect as him.. i dunno.. i've tried over and over again to get over him but it's impossible.. && i jus wanna know what i should do, like how can i get to know him better?because alotta guys like me for my personality && looks.. but me and him have never gotten to know eachother super well.. if you know what i should do it'd be alot easier if you'd e-mail me. my e-mail is k_wingett14@hotmail.com ...thanks
bleh. sorry but I'm too lazy to open another window, sign it, click compose, and email it to ya hon. =P
Even if you're not that close, just ask him to hang out with you and your/his friends. Just ask him casually if he wants to join you and your friends to go to the movies or bowling. Reconnect with him and talk to him and get closer to him. Who says that you guys can't hang out cuz you guys aren't close enough???
Join clubs or activities he's in...not like stalking him but only if you like the club he's in. Sit next to him at lunch...or meet up with him after school to squeeze in a small talk
**emm[y]
So I have these two friends that I'm really close with. We hang out all the time and such, but sometimes it feels like I'm so different from them. You see, they are both always the center of attention and ALL the guys like them. No lie! Like, I always feel secondary when I'm with them. For example, I was hanging with both of them the other day and we were with 3 other guys. Two of those guys likes one friend, and the other guy likes my other friend...but I always feel left out because no guys like me. It's like they're always hanging out with people when I'm there and I'm never really part of their "clique." For example, the guys invited both of my friends over and didn't invite me. It's like I'm invisible. I don't get it; people say I'm really pretty and nice and blah blah blah and it's not like these two friends of mine are devestatingly gorgeous but the thing is, I'm never the center of attention, I guess I'm just too laid back. I kinda wish I was more outgoing and confident like these two friends. So what I'm asking is, does anyone know how I can be more confident and noticed like my friends are? Any tips or websites on how to be more outgoing and noticed and to get guys to like you? Because obviously what I'm doing now isn't working. Thanks mucho.
Gah. Oh no. Another girl feeling down because no guys like her. Bleh. And I say that in the nicest way...anywhos =D
Well, I'm not sure if there is an website that tells you how to be confindent and bold and outgoing. But if you feel invisible and left out (which I feel the same way with my other two sorta friends(they're homosexual so they end up flirting with each other and I'm just sitting there...trying to not get grossed out..again)) you should consider talking to them (Which I never really did with mine). I mean 3 in a group doesn't work out as well because one person is bound to feel left out few times or a lot.
In this case you feel left out a lot. I suggest this: keep your 2 friends but while they're doing their own things, you go and meet other new friends. I mean there is not rule that says you HAVE to be with them 24/7 right? There are a lot more people out there that you can get along with better than with those two friends.
As for th Boldness thingy: #1 rule: BE YOURSELF. Don't change yourself to be noticed by people..that would lead you to another mask you have to put on to impress others. When you go somewhere like parties, go join a group where few people are gathered and introduce yourself or if at school meet new people in your new classes. Get aquainteed with everyone there and no skipping people...unless they're really morbid or in the "bad crowd".
And you do NOT have to be in a "clique" to go and be bold. Just introduce yourself to as many people, make new friends (even guys) and talk to them. Start on AIM or YIM or MSN and talk to guys a lot. And when you meet them, just flirt.
hey my boyfriend is in the army and he had to go back to iraq today and he's already been shot twice.,... i just basically need help to keep going... im so scared that he might get hurt or worse ... not come back
thanks
OH no. I'm sorry but I hate the Prez for doing something worthless as this. Killing people to do something the other people don't favor...and if I just lost you, I lost myself there also.
You should write him as much as possible...send pictures and such.
And also if you keep thinking and saying what if he gets shot, what if he doesn't come back a lot, it's bound to happen so keep positive thoughts.
He's been shot twice already but he's still alive, still fighting, still strong, and such. He'll be fine. He WILL come back...maybe a few scratches. But that's it. He will come back soon with only minor injuries or none at all.
Just keep thinking positive thoughts and I promise you that he will come back with none or little injuries.
Which makeup do you prefer best?
Like, should I splurge for the ULTA brand of Bare Minerals? I breakout somewhat often, but I want to bring a natural glow and high light my eyes. Thanks!
If you break out often, make up is a no no. It will just clog up pores and make you break out 24/7
You should never wear foundation, concealers, and face powders. There is a L'Oreal Sunless Sublime Glow Daily Moisturizer that gives your face a radiant glow from head to toe with regualr use. Now I'm not so sure if it will cause break outs--from the oil in there but my friend really loves it.
And for your eyes:
FOR BLUE EYES
1. Tried and True: taupe, gray, violet, purple, deep blue (a darker shade than your eye color makes your eyes really blue), black (mix it with bright blue for a smoky effect)
2. Funky Favorites: silver, turquoise, fuschia (brightens any shade of blue)
GREEN or HAZEL EYES
1. Tried and True: brown, apricot, purple, plum, deep khaki or forest green (because they are in the same greenish family, they brighten green eyes)
2. Funky Favorites: gold, lime-green, really light green, bright purple (super modern)
BROWN EYES
1. Tried and True: copper, bronze, champagne (soft pink with a touch of apricot), brown (for a doe-eyed look), beige, and khaki-green (lighter shades add highlight)
2. Funky Favorites: tangerine, royal blue, hot pink, lime-green (the contrast adds punch to brown)
ALL EYES
1. Tried and True (Classic): navy or charcoal base to define and a powder-blue shadow for highlighting (it brightens your brow bone so any eye color pops)
2. Funky Favorites: silver-sparkle shadow makes all eyes look edgy.
so i have really big dark brown eyes and i like them . but i have this problem cause under my eyes are like these weird bumpes like tear bages or something i dont know how they are called.
sooo please can u give me advice how to get rid of that????
thx
Dark under eye circles can be caused by fatigue, poor circulation, extra-thin skin under the eyes, hyper-pigmentation, illness or allergies. Treating the cause will help keep dark circles from coming back. In the meantime, consider the following cover-up tactics:
1. To hide dark under eye circles, select a cosmetic under-eye concealer that's one shade lighter than the foundation you're using.
2. Understand that a pale yellowish concealer helps hide blue or grayish circles, while a light blue or mauvish concealer masks brownish under-the-eye bags.
3. Begin with a freshly washed and exfoliated face. Dab concealer under your eyes gently, using a soft circular motion.
4. Apply foundation up to the concealer and blend the two shades together gently, using a circular motion to cover dark under eye circles.
5. Finish with a dusting of untinted face powder for a polished, seamless look.
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Some tips:
Avoid concealers containing oils, because the oil will settle into the fine lines under your eyes and draw attention to the circles.
When using a cosmetic under eye concealer, wearing foundation is a must to avoid the "white mask" look.
i eat constantly. i'll eat to the point that i feel like i'm gonna pop. seriously. and i get hungry really easily. i eat healthy food pretty much, and i dont throw up or anything. i guess when i;m sad i eat a lot more. so is there a name for this? its like i'm a compulsive eater. i havent gained or lost any weight, but is it still bad for me? i'm 5'3 and 104 lbs. and i'm overall happy with my body.
I don't know if there is a name for it...but you're lucky. You probably have fast metabolism.
But be careful..on the long run (when you get older) you'll have a risk of getting sick or going overweight all of a sudden =X
This may sound crazy but i really want to know how i can gain 'healthy' weight. I know that sitting on the couch w/ potato chips is a way to gain weight but i want 'healthy' weight. Like my best friend isnt fat but BUFF (and i REALLY mean BUFF) and i know that i am under weight. not WAY under weight. i eat 3 square meals a day and walk my dogs usually 4 times a day and play basketball and soccer alot. I am really skinny and short. Being short isn't a problem (well kinda for me anyway) but i really want to gain weight so i can get healthy and 'more buff' (stronger if that helps) PLEASE HELP!!!!!
thanks alot:)
Umm...well most people don't sound too happy when they say: I gained a pound!..but you might
haha
Anywhos here are 5steps on how to gain weight:
) Count how many calories you eat in a normal day. Don't change anything, just eat like you normally would and count how many calories you consumed. This is an extremely important step, so try to be as exact as possible. Also, weigh yourself.
2) Starting the day after you counted calories, eat 500 calories MORE then you normally do. So, lets pretend that the day you counted calories you counted 2000. For the rest of the week, you would now eat 2500 calories a day. Instead of eating 3 big meals a day or eating all day all the time, spread those calories out over 5-6 smaller meals. Eat one meal every 2 and a half to 3 hours. To get big, you have to eat big! Remember that.
3) Weightlifting! Get in the gym and lift! This is another important step to how to gain weight, so make sure you are doing it correctly. For more information on weightlifting workout routines and splits, read the workout routines and splits section.
4) At the end of that week, weigh yourself. You'll notice you're gaining just after one week! Now, don't expect to see a 10lb increase. Gaining anymore then 1 or 2 pounds a week is unhealthy and means you're putting on way to much fat. So look for 1 or 2 pound gains at the end of the week. Don't sound like much? You can be gaining 5-8 pounds a month!
5) Heres an important one. At some point, you will stop seeing weight gain. At this point, you will have to eat even more. So, when you stop gaining for at least 2 weeks, it means it is time to start eating an extra 250 calories a day. Every time you see you haven't gained weight for at least 2 weeks, add an extra 250 calories.
And here's the site:
http://www.intense-workout.com/weight_gain.html
ok, well, im 13 and i have a 32A bra.i have two different kinds of bras....the thing is im not a full 32 i dont think,because one of the bras i got fit me well,they other kind of did... it made me fuller.last year,i had nothing,so with the new school year i dont know if i should wear the bra that makes me fuller (even though it doesnt fit as well as the other one) or the one that does fit and makes me flatter?...
i can tell that the bra that makes me fuller doesnt fit all the way,because the part of the breast (were the crease is) theres a little space(like i can stick my finger in there...the space).
i'd also like to know how the bra is supposed to fit,should it rise when you put it on? because i dont have much of a crease yet...any help is appreciated!
You should wear bras that you're COMFORTABLE with. If they're a little too big, it will look funky under a tight fitting shirt. And no, don't stuff your bra with toilet paper...it's bound to be busted by some girl.
And no, it shouldn't rise when you put it on..and if you don't really have boobs, just don't wear a bra. Wear a sports bra..
And to get your bra size, this is how you do it:
1. Measure your chest with a tape measurer (right below your boobs/the top rib cage). If it's more than 33, add 5. More than 33, subtract 5. Both way, round it up to an even number if it comes out as an odd number.
2. Measure the fullest part of your boobs.
3.Do #2 measurement-#1 measurement. Look at the chart below and find the difference
AA = 1/2"
A = 1"
B = 2"
C = 3"
D = 4"
DD or E = 5"
F = 6"
G = 7
ex: Measurement of chest was 31..then add 5..36. Boobs...say it was 38. 38-36=2. So its 36B
What kind of stretches can I do to become more flexible( like touching my toes etc)?
YOGA!! Yoga is awesome yo. It gives you a lot of flexibillity if you work at it and are commited to it.
You should always to stretched everyday..Any stretches you know. But don't force yourself or there will be a big risk of pulling amuscle which is an ouchie...=X
Just increase a litttle by little gradually.
OH and running really helps too. =D
I have a problem with getting a boyfriend and i Don't know why. Guys never seem to be interested in me. I work in a retail store and i always get compliments on how pretty i am and what not. Like people seem to go out of their way to tell me that but when around guys my age they never seem interested. Like i know people say looks aren't everything but I mean that is the first thing guys notice and i never even get approached by guys i don't know to talk to me. I mean i have guys a good 30 years older than me saying i wish i was younger so i can date you (weird i know) but no one my age.
What could be the problem?
Like i wear nice clothes that are slightly revealing (hollister, abercrombie, ae, preppy stuff) and i guess i have a nice chest and somewhat cute body to go along with it.
Could guys be intimidated by me or what?
here is my picture: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v214/sugarysweet89/d.jpg
hon, stop worrying about it. Make guy friends. Interact more. Join clubs that you want to join, don't hold back or be shy.
If guys you like won't ask you out, YOU ask them out.
Just be friendly, bold, and confident around them. BTW guys don't really like girls that wear shirts with their boobs about to pop out of too tight jeans. Also they don't really like girls that squeal, jump up & down, clap, scream, whatnot too much. They just think it's anoying and such
So just be yourself...be CALM...umm and just be friendly and yourself
In 8th grade, I developed my first real crush on a guy named Jake. I loved how he could make me laugh with everything he said. I also liked how he was so different from all the other guys in our grade.
In 9th grade, I no longer had any classes with Jake. For some reason, this caused me to act very shy around him. I would write him a note but my friends would give it to him instead of me. My friends even asked him to the sadyhawkins & homecoming dance for me. He said yes to both. But he stood me up at homecoming (he apologized but never explained why) and changed his mind about going with me to the sadyhawkins dance a day after he said yes (Once again, not explaining why he changed his mind). I was crushed after he had hurt me twice, but for some reason..I still had a crush on him. I told my friends to leave him alone and not talk to him about me anymore. Of course, they didn't stop. The end of the year came and I had finally worked up the nerve to talk to Jake. I was going to apologize for my friends bugging him and ask him why he changed his mind about me so many times. I was all ready to do it after school on the last day but suprisingly enough, he was no where to be found. His friend Justin told me he had to leave early for a funeral. I know Justin wouldn't lie because he is my friend too. Embarrassing things have happened this summer too! My sister saw him and gave him my number, telling him he should call me. He never did. I feel like me being shy and my stupid friends have ruined everything. Is there any way I could still make it work with Jake? What should I do?! School starts this Monday!!!! Helllllpppp
Well, that's like me and a nother boy and I just accepted his decisions and kept him as a friend. We didn't have any classes together for two years but I still talked to him ALOT on AIM. And over time I figured that there was nothing to be embaressed about. We can't control our feelings and you know, this is all part of the kinks in life.
You should start talking to Jake on AIM or some type of messenger or email him. If he won't call you, you should call him. If you still want to confront him about why he ditched you and such, make it friendly and don't get too serious about it. I mean there are many other guys out there for you =D & if you still want to apologize to him about your friends and sister, do so (which he will see as a plus).
After getting that out of the way, why don't you carry on small conversations with him--act like none of those embaressing situations happened. Just be yourself and don't mold yourself into what he likes
have fun =D
**emm[y]
my right foot is ugly, like its always dry and scaley and stuff and i put lotion on it and stuff, then my left foot is like perfect, is there anyone else who has this problem? what can i do? i call them my women and men feet. haha
The cheapest way is to do this almost everyday:
Fill the bathtub with luke warm water just a little and add bubles or sea salt (for bathing) in it.
Dunk your feet in there for 10-15min and pat it dry. Put on Vaseline lotion on it right away.
Or make green tea, cool it down to room temperature and soak your feet in there for a while 10- 15 min ish.
Green tea is good for you body in and out =D
There's also a product called Eucerin [sp?] that is really good at moisturizing skin. Gold Bond products are made to heal dry foot problems
http://www.drugstore.com/qxp87813_333181_sespider/gold_bond/ultimate_healing_skin_therapy_lotion.htm
that's the link
Have fun =D
can yoga help me lose weight??
Definately. It gives you more flexibility and read this article:
You already know that yoga can help improve your flexibility and make you stronger. Now there's another potential bonus of doing yoga — it may help you lose weight! It's true! A study in a recent issue of Alternative Therapies in Health and Medicine showed that overweight people who were middle aged (45 to 55 years old) and did yoga regularly lost more weight over a ten-year period than those who didn't do yoga. At the same time, normal-weight yoga devotees gained fewer pounds over this time than those who were yoga-free. Why? Researchers guess that it may be because yoga indirectly encourages healthier eating and exercise habits by making you aware of your body. It's all connected!
Though the researchers say that more studies are needed to prove this yoga weight-loss connection, it never hurts to get into the yoga habit. Whether it helps you shed those pounds or not, it definitely contributes to a healthy lifestyle! So stretch and practice those postures — your body will thank you!
Have fun =D **emm[y]
Lately I have been studying 3-6 hours a day. After about an hour I start getting that weird feeling like I can't stand to sit still anymore, a cramp in my wrist, and my neck hurts. So I get up, stretch, take a short break and go back to work. Like half an hour later I'll start getting all ancy all over again. What are some good tips to help me study longer without easily getting wrist cramps, neck pains and ancy feelings? Thanks.
Well, you should only study 20min at one time. 20min studying..5-10min break, 20min study, 5-10min break, etc. Because your brain only stores the first 20min of studying and doesnt remember the rest.
You should do easy exercises like jumping jacks, stretches, sit ups, jogging in place, or just get some water or an apple or something to munch on.
Make sure you sit up straight and bend over the work while you study and make sure you're stting at a desk or table...no lying on the floor or the bed etc. Get comfy in the chair...put a pillow on the back or your butt.
i dont know if this goes here but w/e now this is embrrasing to ask ok so is it normal or abnormal to have one mipple bigger then the other one? i mean like one is bigger then the other so is there any thing i can do to make them the same size besides any type of surgery???? please help me i feelakward asking this but w/e
Your nipple or boobs? Well my friend...ones a A size and ones a C size...not the most symetrical ones...but if it's about your boobs just wear a bra that is in b/w the sizes..like my friend she wears Bs or As. Or try one of those sports bras, they will help and make your boobs look the same
Sooner or later it will even out and if it's your nipples...don't worry. It will be covered up..right?