Ok, last week my 3 friends and I got in a fight, them vs. me. It kinda sucked cause i was like, definatly on my own and no one coul dback me up on anything, so we arent talking, none of us. And I want to talk to them so bad I just cant because I dont think they even like me anymore. One of those 3 friends was like my friend since 3rd grade so I see her as a BFFFFFFF. And shes the one who doesnt even want to TRY to make it work again. She even told me that we should just give up and that we arent gonna be best friends again. Hmm. what do i DO?
Ok, - I agree wtiheveryones answers. You are here trying to solve everything and they arent putting an effort in, especially that one girl that was y our frind since 3rd grade. Im sorry hun, but best friends are not forever, only the friends who stick by your side and do everything in their power to stay your friend, are the ones who last forever
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Hi, Im Andrea 15/f Ok, i've basically lost my best friends. I dont know what to do at all. I love them so much and I hate just not talking to them for a DAY so whats it gonna be like the rest of my life? And I mean, I just wish one of them would text me or IM me or try to talk to me because I feel like they don't even miss me. I don't know what to do, and right now I have NOONE to go to because i dont have any friends now. So how can I get them back? And what should I do? AAAA. This is ruining my life. I cry every 10 minutes and I've NEVER cried over friend problems before. I just dont wanna lose them, they mean so much to me. OMG. HELP!
aaaaw man. wow. thats kinda weird. anyways, um, yah, i think we are twin sisters having the same problems. forget your friends, or try to, i know its freakin the hardest thing you will ever do, but you have to, because obviously (since they havent made an effort to talk to you) they dont want to remain friends so why should you sit there and beg them? meet other people and hopefully one day you'll find a new best friend who cares about u enough to even talk to you during this hard time.......
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Well..i have these two friends lets call themm Tina and Mellisa well Mellisa has been a very good friend of mine for a long time n she has been my bestestfriend for a while.. so the other day me tina n mellisa were hanging out n then mellisa was acting differnt around tina n i dont like it at all cuz they like talk n say its private n stuff, n i feel like there talking about me n now everytime we hang out it sucks cuz mellisa acts differnt..what do i do?
Ok this kinda in a way happened to me, and I felt that my two other friends were getting closer and that i would get left out, and i like freaked out and thought one of my friends was changing, so we kinda have the same situation lol. But heres whats going on, tina and mellisa are probably getting closer, and i dont think they WANT to leave you out, they just are becoming better friends and i know its not gonna be the same and i know you probably wish it was back to how it was, but your gonna have to roll with it and try as hard as you can to be niec and not get jealous. Maybe you could do things with both of them sepearte so YOU could get closer to each of them. Like invite Tina over for a sleepover and then maybe the next day you can go somewhere alone with mellisa, just until you feel like your in the circle and your good friends with BOTH of them. hmmmm kinda long and confusing, lol, but o well good luck. :D
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i have this friend right. we have been really good friends for a long time but latley she has been bugging the hell out of me. all she ever does is critisize me and disagree. she has such a big ego and it is so annoying. she thinks that only she has the answers. i would stand up to her but i can't i'm at the point to where i am going to explode on whoever back talks me! what should i do? i can't talk to her because she knows everything.
Ok, if you have AIM or XANGA, you should write a huge message that says everything you feel, and then send it to her and she cant like, ignore it because everythings there for her to read. Tell her that if yall dont stop critisizing eachother, eventually its gonna ruin your rfiendship and you dont want that to happen. Tell her everything you said here and if she doesnt accept it, tahts her problem and you should ignore her for abou tlike 3 days and go from there. If she really cares about you and wants to be your friend, she'll come after you, or call you or whatever. good luck! :D
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I recently had a fight with my friend....and we havent talked in months. at first when we had our fight she told everyone she didnt want ot be my friend ever again...but today i asked my friend to ask her online our status. and she said she didnt think we would be the same, but she may still want to be friends. how should i act if i want to be friends but i dont want to seem annoying or clingy? i really want to repair this friendship! any tips for what to say and when?? help! i rate ^!!!
Ok, I think you should be like, "hey you wanna go to the movies or something, because we havent talked to eachother in forever and even though we might not become as close as we used to be, i think it would be really fun to hang out with you every now and then " and go out and do something with her. chat friendly every now and then. :D good luck!
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17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high
aaw i cry all the time too. Crying really helps you let out your problems even if you dont know what they are. I think you need to go out and do something fun with friends and don teven think about anything, just go have fun. Watch a funny tvshow or make up a crazy dance and film yourself. Try to think of ways to brighten your day and make you happy. Im sorry you cry all the time and I hoope you get happier! :D
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i'm 13/f and i'm thinking about getting contacts.
i'm a little freeked out about putting them in though. does anyone know any goos tips for putting in contact lenses?
~thanks
When you first get contacts, it takes about a week for your eyes to adjust to having something put IN them. In the beginning, you may find it hard to keep your eye open, but just follow the eye doctors instructions. Its a little scary at first, but its worth it in the long run!
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how do i get rid of red bumps after shaving my legs??!!?! please help! i rate HIGH!
I would suggest applying moisterizer after you shave to your legs, (i suggest lubriderm) Or you could try Oil WITH vitamen a to get rid of them. Thats what I do and it works.
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does anyone know of a good book or website to learn how to french braid?
please and thank you!
yup, go here : http://www.ehow.com/how_17115_french-braid-hair.html. good luck!
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whats the song that goes all i wanna do is zoom zoom zoom, or something like that. sorry! i heard this kid sing that and i've heard it before but i don't know who sings it or anything. plz help?
Here are some songs that have those lyrics -Zoom by Dr. Dre and LL Cool J link=http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/bulworth/zoom.htmRumpshaker by Wrex-n-Effect or, most likely zenon! link=http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/zenonz3/supernovagirlz3remix.htm PROBABLY THE LAST ONE. i just gooogled and this is what came up
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yeah okay, so my friend is being so stupid right now. so i know i have been doing a lot more with another friend, but she's one of my best friends. they both are. i think she's jealous or something. me and the friend i've been hanging out with more were saying how she's really pissing us off and being stupid lately. but she didn't know that. so whatever. i know you shouldn't talk about your friends but still, you know most people have. so randomly, she hasn't talked to me in 2 days. she's giving me and my other friend really nasty looks. we say we don't care, but i do. i hate people being mad at me. also, i'm in a state of minor depression, so this helps me none. she keeps saying like through profile and away message that someone should be killed, some is such a such a fag, or my friends are such bitches. but the thing is, i don't recall EVER doing ANYTHING to her to make her do this. i'm really ticked off. i haven't said or done the things she has, nor anything to provoke this. NO WAY would my friend tell her i talked about her because a)so did she, b)the girl is mad at her too, and c) she continues saying things about her...i say some but i am NOT the only one. so i don't know what the hell is up with her...but yeah. any advice?
note: don't say to just confront her, because when i do she says "whatever" or walks away or ignores me. so ya.
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I would suggest emailing her or IMing her, but say everything in ONE BIG PARAGRAPH so she cant block you, or say whatever, or anything until she reads it. Tell her that you dont know waht you did to make her mad and say just what you said on here but nicer. Tell her that sometimes she overreacts. and i suggest you try to stop talking abou tyour friend because i used to always talk about my friends and it is sooo mean and now we lost a friend because of it. So watch what you say because you never know when y our friendmight tell her. if she does - DENY it. :D good luck. ps- if you really dont wnat to be her friend, dont be afraid to let her go. at first it will suck and you will wish you never did it, but in the long run, it makes life so easier not having a nagging annoying friend starting all these problems!
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my hair is strait up top and wavy down below. i hate having to straiten it or blow dry it every day. it there anyway i can get it to dry stait w/out having to blow dry it or straiten it
-bad hair everyday
Theres really nothing you can do to straighten your hair except get it permanently straightened which could cost between 100 and 400 dollars. My sister had it done and her hair is stick straight everytim eshe gets out of the shower! If that isnt an option, I would suggest buying a straightening sprits and using that when you straighten, and buy a good straightener so it goes quicker. After you streighten evryday for like a year, it starts to become easier and more normal, straightening your hair everyday.
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My 14t birthday is May 12 and I want to have some sort of party. My mom thinks i'm too old but all of my friends tell me my parties are awesome and keep asking me if i'm having one this year. I want to maybe just have some friends over not have a huge party. First I need to know how to get my mom to let me have a "party" and then I need ideas for things to do.
Parents are more likely to give you what you want if you have everything planned out and organized. I know it sounds corney, but make a powerpoint presentation and include all of the important details such as times, things you will do, and people you are inviting. Explain exactly what you will be doing at the party and the more details the better. When your parents are in a goo dmood and they arent busy, Tell them you have a presentation for them. Bring them into the room and close the door so it is just you and your parents and its quiet. Now present your presentation and ask them if they have any questions. They will feel so much better knowing all of the information rather then just saying yes to "some party".
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Hey guys ok well .. two of my 'so called best friends' have just like .. ditched me & come up with excuses of why they hate my guts. One of my best friends [not one that hates me] i dont really know if i can trust but everything seems to be fine. But in the past we've had a number of fights and they might be like ruining our friendship. She says everything is ok though. And for my one, true best friend.. she has always stayed true but the two friends who hate me are like trying to turn her against me. I dont think they'll ever be able to though, we've been best friends for like, ever. I just want to know what I should do. Should i make more friends? Im really the shy type, so it would feel pretty awkward for me to just start talking with new people. I will appreciate ANY advice. Thanks soo much
I guess I can sort of relate to this situation. See, your friends HAVE to have a reason to not like you. You may not see it in their point of view, but you must be doing something that irritates or makes them mad. Its not smart to lost your friends over a few fights. When you make the choice to let go of one of your friends, you have to get everything sorted out and ask questions. Try emailing/IMing/xanga commenting your friends and say "Ok, I dont want to lose yall as my friends, so I just want to try to figure some things out. I know you guys probably have a reason to hate me, and I wish you would tell me so I would know to stop whatever it is that I am doing that makes you mad. Im sorry if I didnt realize this before and I hope we can sort out all of these problems." and as for the trust thing, all you have to do is not tell your friends ANYTHING that you dont want anyone else knowing! As for your BFF that you trust, you can confide in her, but try to keep your secrets to yourself around the other girls. Sometimes people cant help not being trustworthy, but atleast you know how to avoid any trust issues that may lead to future fights.
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k theres this guy i went out with him and we broke up twice its been 3 months and last month we started becomin good friends again talkin on tha phone and we were playing tha question game and he told me he loved me next day he told me he didnt wanna be with me though we got in afight cuz he told me he lied were friends again but there was 2 other guys i like but now just one other guy but the problem is im still stuck on him do i tell him? do you think it would make a difference?
From the info you gave in the question, it seems like this guy doenst really want to go out with you. I mean, youve tried it twice before and it didnt work, so what makes you think a 3rd time is gonna work? I think you should move on and meet some othe rhot guys and get your mind off this ONE guy because if you dont do it now, you will be stuck in this situation after your 7th time going out and thats not goood. :DD good luck!
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two of my friends are coming over next friday for the first time...they are going to spend the night too...but the problem is that one of the girls has a proem of talknig about it infront of this other girl(who is not coming) and i feel bad cause she is getting left out...but lately she has been kinda annoying..like getting mad for no reason at all...so is it ok to still have just the two girls over or should we invite her too?? one of the girls says that she needs to relize that she dosent have to do everything with us...but i feel really bad....thanks!
Dont feel like you HAVE To haev a friend over that you dont want to come! Maybe you could invite the friends you WANT to come and only them, and some other time, have a sleepover with just you, the annoying girl, and another girl that LIKES the annoying girl. If you want the sleepover to be fun and you want everyone to get along, than dont invite this girl. Dont brag about the sleepover though, or talk about it. If she finds out, she finds out, just say your mom wouldnt let u invite more than 2 people.
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what do i do if people are writing bad things about me on somebody elses column??
Thats horrible and you should write a comment on their column about how you feel. Dont cuss or be rude, just explain that you dont deserve that and whoever is doing it needs to grow up. THAT is soooo immature.
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My mom is making me try-out for my middle school cheer squad. But i have a terrible mental block for over a year now (i used to be a competative cheerleader) and i Can't even throw my handspring ( i had a full!) What can i do! I have to tumble for the squad and try-outs are in 2 weeks! I RATE VERY HIGH!
Take a tumbling class! Take privates at a local competitive gym/gymnastic place. You have to push yourself to overcome your mental block, as long as theres a spot there you should have complete trust in him or her and just throw it. If you dont have a spot, go over in your head all of the necesary steps in a backhandspring. (Sit like your in a chair, jump up and back, push off your hands, snap your legs over fast) And when you feel like your ready, go on soft grass, or a mat, and just go for it. Good luck!
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When should girls start to wear tampons?
Theres no certain age. Probably like 13 I guess. They should start out with the teen kind though, they are designed especially for young teens.
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I can record videos on my digital camera. Is there any way to get those videos on the computer so I can share them through email, or whatever?
When you connect your camera to the computer via a USB cord, there should be something that pops up in the desktop. Click that or, like go to my computer and find the camera. There should be all of the pictures/files listed and you just click on a movie and save the movie to your desktop!
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