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I just got my period in July sometime and i use pads but i have her people say that tampons are so much better and LESS MESSY. but i am SOOOOO afraid to use one because just the thought sickins me. I'm asking people from experience....does it hurt the 1ST time.
-arielle- (link)
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mine did, but it's okay after. PLus, i find that tampons take the pain away from periods.
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dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-arielle- (link)
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they will grow. don't worry. and look at paris hilton, she has nothing there and she's proud. plus, your still young.
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Girlz, I need your help! I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now...Im supposed to go to his house tonite, he says he wants to have dinner and us cuddle and watch a movie, then he wants to tell me something he says will shock me and bring a smile to my face...Here's the problem, Im on my period..I do NOT want it to screw up what is going to be a great nite...Does anyone know or ever heard of any at home remedies or anything that can stop my period? I just started, so it's a barely there kinda' thing right now, but I dont want it at all! please help!!!! I rate HIGH (link)
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well, if he tries anything, just tell him. there is no home rememdys. lol
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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy. (link)
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Well, there's a chance she couldn't, and a chance she will. Let's say 50/50 just for the hell of it. See, just because you pull out early, doesn't mean she can't. Your precum has sperm in it as well. And if she is not on birth control ... oh god. lol. Anyways, if you can't find a condom, go to a bar during the day or something. They have like, machines that you out change in and One pops out. lol.
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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers! (link)
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Don't say anything. If they think you are they will say something, or they might not mind it seeing as your using a condom and such. Also, when you wash your purses, sometimes the zippers move, or unzip rather. Maybe she didn't even notice anything. My purse has that too, and i put everything in there and non one ever notices.
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At school I was in the locker room and I was taking a shower and then a brat came by whe nI got out and told me she wanted to show me something and I only had 5 minutes before the next class so I just was like fine so when I went to see what it was she got about 3 of her friends to take off my towel and pushed me out side with all the other people and then the classes where changing and the locker room was locked and every one say me naked I mean butt naked and now ever one makes fun of me saying I should be a striper and all (link)
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you should probley tell an adult in the school, and get the girls caught. You could fo the the police as well.
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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him??? (link)
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GO OUT WITH HIM!!!!!! Other people don't matter when it comes to relashinships
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Ok I'm addicted to rice!! All I eat is rice, I don't know how to get out of this rut! I won't eat all day long and then come home from school and pig out of a huge bowl of rice! It's to the point where I just eat it all and barely taste it, I want to get out of this habit! Any tips?? I have tried to cut it out cold turkey I will last about a week and then cave and pig out. (link)
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hey, a fellow Canadian. lol, yes, i know. I don't eat all day, and then i come home and eat a big bowl of rice as well. lol. It is addicting. And it's not like it's unhealthy or anything. Your getting a serving or 2 or 3 (oh well ... however much you eat) of grain. Just as long as you leave room for vegtables, fruit, dairy, meat ... you know, and liquids of course. lol. Your not alone. lol. your okay
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Can you get pregnant from pre-cum? (link)
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yes, you can
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All my friends do all this oral sex crap with all the guys... im waiting till im married to do all that stuff. I think they are total sluts for doing it with just a radom guy they know, when they dont even have feelings for them at all, just friendly ones. I really think its gross i mean were only in 8th grade and were 14... i mean makeing out and that is ok but yeah ... am i wrong? (link)
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Your not wrong. You have the right to yor own opinion, just as everyone else. Their opinion is that oral sex/whatever else they do is great and they want to explaore their sexuality's, and that is completly normal. It's great that your waiting till marriage though. But don't call your friends sluts for having their own opinion on sex!
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Hello guys, long time reader but first time writer here. I really need some advice.
I've had this best friend for about ten years now (ever since the second grade) and he knows all my secrets. He has been the friend I've been able to go to for all my problems for over half my life. He's always been a great guy, but lately he seems a little different.
He came up to me the other day and told me that he needed to talk to me after school, and of course I told him it was no big deal. Well, when I got to his house after school he called me back to his room. When I got back there he was completely naked and said that if I didn't suck him off then he would tell everyone about my issuses with my sexuality that I had confided in him. I didn't have any other choice, I can't let everyone now that I have impure thoughts about other men since I'm in a private Christian school, but I'm not attracted to him at all. He's really overweight and he has hair everywhere.
Now he's saying that I have to give him head everyday or he will tell everone about my secret desires, even my parents. I don't know what to do, he tastes horrible. I can't keep doing this. (link)
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omg, what a fucking jerk. That is considered rape. What a basturd eh? Okay, if you don't want anyone to know about your secret desires, you can go to the cops, or maybe a therapist in your school that you can talk to where everything is confidential. But if you must risk everything, refuse him. And tell him what you think of him now since he started blackmailing you. It would destroy him, like he is destroying you. Whatever you do, good luck
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okay well i shave down there and it grows back really fast. like in a week! is that normal or what? is there anything i can do to prevent it? and i also get those little red bumps and sometimes the hair is not always completley gone! any tips please? thank you. (link)
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it's totally normal. And if the red bumps and hair roots bother you so much, you can always wax.
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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :( (link)
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hey there. don't be scared. I doubt you are pregnant, but in the future, take it everyday, and as soon as you remember, because i don't think you want to end up with a kid.
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My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him? (link)
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Keep saying no!!!! And tell him that if he doesn't understand that you'll feel uncomfortable with it, then he isn't worth it. I know it ain't that easy, to be in love with someone and to tell them that. And it would bother me bad if my boyfriend was talking about having sex with other women. And you feel bad when you say no? He should feel bad for even asking. Fantisies are nice ... yes, but a fantasy should be performed with only the one you love, and no one else. Good luck
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i think i might be pregnant but not sure please help (link)
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OKay, first, you must calm down. I'm just going to give you the advice i know of, from when i went throught this situation. First of all you must talk to your partner about this if you haven't already. Look for the symptoms, but don't concentrate on them, because if you do, you'll imagine you are developing the sympoms. And wait till you skip a period to take a test. You should go to your doctor or the hospital one morning and get tested there. Home tests aren't accurate.
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hey um.....i tried to use a tampon b4 and it hurt....BAD. I need help am i doing it right??? HELP!! (link)
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yeah, it hurt bad my first time as well. You might not be doing it wrong. Remember, you have to have it at a 45 degree angle, and you have to relax, or your muscles will tense up. Also, make sure you have the right tampon for your flow. Supers are huge, but regulars are small enough so there is no pain
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gah just got my period and im supposed to be seeing my guy this weekend what can i do to make it go away faster? (link)
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lol, i would love to the answer to that very question. Go on the needle? that takes 3 monthes though. You should really schdule when your period will be so you won't end up in this mess
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ok, heres the deal, ive been 18 for a month or 2, and heres the deal, im kinda sexually advanced, except ive never actually gone all the way. and ive always been proud of this...untill now, and its freaking driving me nuts, like i all of a sudden have to have it. and this is unbelievably unlike me cuz ive always been the upright goody goody that everyone can always depend on. so for the love of god, somebody give me some advice!!!!!! plz ladies, i need some advice (link)
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well, don't throw yourself out there. get a bf or a friend with benefits. someone who you can trust
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ok there is this guy that i like alotn he likes me but he is one of my brothers friends n my brother would get soo mad if we would go out n he would find out about it n he knows that i like him n everything n i know that he likes me but we dont know if we should go out bc of my brother i talk th this guy on the phone n online but my brother doesnt know that either n i'm afraid that if my brother doesn find out that he will get really mad at me n him n then not be friend with the guy n he will like not talk to me for a while plzz help me!! i'm so confused!! (link)
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You should tell your brother, and if he doesn't like it, then you guys should work out a plan that you can both live with
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Yeahhh... my boyfriend, who I like a lot, is a different race and my parents are racist. That caused some bumps in me just telling my mother that I liked him, and put drama on us already. And I don't see him much, and hes in one of my classes. He says that hae cares about me, and I believe that he does. But how do I know how much he cares about me with out asking him annoying questions? (link)
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with that sorta thing, you just know. I mean, sometimes you have doubts, sure, everyone does, most if most of the time, you can actually feel how much he cares bout you, you'll know he actually does. And about your parents ... screw em. I really don't think your relashinship is any of their buisness. Like you you wanna like, and don't listen to their damn racist comments
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