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All my friends do all this oral sex crap with all the guys... im waiting till im married to do all that stuff. I think they are total sluts for doing it with just a radom guy they know, when they dont even have feelings for them at all, just friendly ones. I really think its gross i mean were only in 8th grade and were 14... i mean makeing out and that is ok but yeah ... am i wrong?
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no thats grose and wrong your only 14 u should think its wrong your right yo think its wrong cause it is
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No your not wrong!I think you need new friends or atleast don't follow their footsteps.hope i helped
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Your not wrong. You have the right to yor own opinion, just as everyone else. Their opinion is that oral sex/whatever else they do is great and they want to explaore their sexuality's, and that is completly normal. It's great that your waiting till marriage though. But don't call your friends sluts for having their own opinion on sex!
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you are entitled to your own opinion and props to you for having the will power and the mentality to abstain from these activities until marriage. However everyone is different and you can't expect people to value the same things you do. Just because they fool around and have oral sex does not make them sluts-i will admit 14 is a little young to be engaging in such activities. If they know the consequences and are willing to put themselves at risk and if they feel that they are ready to have oral sex then that should be their decision. Doesn't mean you have to agree with it. Personally i think you are smart for waiting until you are ready so you aren't wrong, but you aren't right to think of them poorly for the decisions they make in their lives.
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No you are not wrong at all. It seems like your friends do not have a lot of morals or self-respect for themselveds. I am also in a situation that you are in because I am waiting till I am married. You should tell your friends how you feel. Maybe you can change there minds about what they are doing. Keep up with what you are doing. You dont have to give oral or mess around with guys,and if you ever find a friend who thinks you are prude for not doing it, then they are not your true friends. Its good to hear that someone besides me is in a situation like this. If you dont love or really have strong feelinsg for someone, dont do anything you dont want too. You might regret it. Hope I helped!
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no you are not wrong at all! you are absolutely right..there is NO rush in anything!! wow, that's great that you want to wait until you are married. That's really great, because you don't hear that alot anymore these days. So much respect from me goes your way. Just because your friends are doing those things does NOT mean you have to, and i really hope you don't ever feel pressured to either. It's all in the mind and stay strong and stand up for what you believe in.
hope i helped..if you need anything else..please dont hesitate to write.
love, ash
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No, you are not wrong. In fact you seem to be the only one of your friends with any sense. Do they know where those things have been? Yuck! In the right time with YOUR guy, tt can be fun, but quite frankly if I'm not willing to go all the way it's a waste of my time. Random acts of sex are just stupid. Plus anything you can get from sticking it without a condom down there, you can also get the same way in your mouth. Happy Herpes to your friends!
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Girl thats understandable.. i agree wit you that is nasty for them to do that wit random guys.. but glad to hear your not a follower..you arent wrong for not doing that either you are doing what you think is right.. hope i helped...*$BABYD$*
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I don't think you should judge your friends to much. Yes you are right in your beliefs but so are they. You can't force what you believe on them not to mention it will hurt their feelings as well. Hi mate- YOU'RE A SLUT, isn't the nicest way to treat your friends.
I think its kind of bad to lose your virginity to a random stranger, someone you are not close to but hey- since when has that been a new idea in our society. It happens all the time.
Slut is a very powerful word, means they sleep around a hell of a lot. Its very offensive and not a term to be used lightly.
They are your friends for better or worse, that means no judging so don't. You can tell them how you feel and that what they are doing probabley isn't right, but you can't pass judgement on someone.
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Well, to break the mould of answers...<p>
No, it's not a great idea to be handing out sexual favours when you are 14, just because that is a young age to be making decesions about what you want to do and whether you are, in fact, ready. I do however think that sexuality and how it is expressed is a personal matter - if a girl wants to give or recieve oral sex, then it's her buisness. As long as she's able to make that decesion rationally for herself (which, arguably, a 14 year old can't, just because they are too young to really judge all the possible effects of what they do) then it's okay and should be left to her to decide.<P>
Nobody is asking you to do what these girls do. I think it's highly commendable that you've decided to wait to do these things until you are older and married - but that is *your* decesion, and whilst its great that you've decided to live that way, you have to accept that not everybody does. Remember that, whatever these girls do, you do still call them your friends, and names like "slut" and calling their behaviour "gross" really isn't nice - consider how you'd feel if they complained about their "prudish" friend? Names don't get us anywhere. You might not like what they do, and that's a valid opinion, but don't waste energy slagging them off. Stick to your guns regarding your own choices and opinions, but don't try and push them on other people. All the best.
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I agree. It is NOT wrong. In fact your the only one around here with some common sence. DO NOT I repeat DO NOT change for anyone or any guy. Mallisssa is right. Imagine what they will causually be doing at 16 or 15...You dont want to be into that. It could be disasterous to you and your health and your life and so on....Just do what you feel is right. The heart contols you...Not trends or peer pressure....
Hope I helped!
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I don't think you're wrong. I definatly think waiting till your married is the best way to go. Besides, if they're doing that with random guys now at 14, think of what they'll be doing casualy when they're 16. I wouldn't get into that stuff if I were you. You don't want a bad rep. Hope I helped!
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