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I'm 19/F and for the past few years, I have been showing signs of being a hypochondriac. Any little thing that goes wrong with me (headache, cut, stomachache, etc) I assume it's the beginning of or a symptom of something life threatening. I stay up all night scared I won't wake up the next morning! How can I get over this? I'm sick of making the small things big, but I'm also incredibly scared of catching a disease or dying. It's a huge, unrelenting fear that affects me every single day.
I gotta warn you I wrote a lot...cause I deal with the same thing...
Man I agree with the last person (littlegirlblues) I know what you are going through. I have it too. It used to be REALLY BAD. It's gotten better though. I might do psychotherapy one day. hahaha The thing that has worked for me has been meditation. Meditating on allowing the mind to flow without having any emotional attachment to the thoughts and Meditating on keeping the mind clear. They are just delusions and the only difference between you and I and others, is that we sometimes let the immagination get the better of us. You probably witnessed something when you were really young that got you really scared and it just grew and grew and grew until you are at the point you are at now. In fact I can remember the first thing I ever saw that gave me the feelings I have sometimes. It will be good for you to try to find that old feeling and heal that part of you. Also let go of the body vigelance. Stop looking at it over and over and over, checking it over and over. Just Stop! Say "That's body vigilace and I release it now!" Get dirty! That has been a good help for me, my boyfriend doesn't wash his hands sometimes, it freaks me out, but I started doing it too. Not with everything, but with some things. Only read about health when you can. Focus on healthy people and how you feel when you are health and the fact that you are healthy now. Do those work books at Borders on OCD and Hypochondria. Those are really helpful. Talk your self out of the fear...The best thing I started doing (aside from meditation) Sleeping with soothing music CD/DVD/Theradio.com, or something like that on! Man that helps. It keeps your mind calm DO NOT GO TO SLEEP WITH THE RADIO OR TV ON! If you do that you will hear the commercials and dream about stuff that has nothing to do with you, it's just what you are picking up off the tv...so if they are talking about sickness you are going to dream about it. Drink herbal teas like Catnip, Rosemary, Mugworth (if you are not taking any medications, if so make sure they won't react) Sleepy time tea. Stuff with no caffine, it will help calm your mind. Get Busy, do stuff that keeps your mind focused on positive things... Art work, writing, giving adive on this column, reading, stuff like that. Watch your posture...I am sitting like it now...:P bad posture makes your body feel funny and you get feelings that can start to make you paranoid. Positive Affirmations. Look in the mirror and say I have a clear and positive mind, I am at peace with my creative thoughts, I love my thoughts bad and good true and untrue. I allow them to flow. I know the truth for I feel it inside of me. I think positive things, My mind is relaxed. Things like this. Eat less sugar and if you want dark chocolate. White sugars increases depression...Dark chocolate is a stress reliever. If you do happen to do some drugs like a little mary J or something like that, make sure you are in a controlled enviornment with people you trust. Preferably at home so if you need too you can take a shower to bring you back to earth. DO NOT WATCH TV AND COMMERCIALS WHEN YOU ARE HIGH...i'm not saying you get high, i don't knwo but if you do...take my advice...The best thing to do ALL AROUOND is to totally mute the commercials when you are watching TV or listening to the radio...There are so many ads on sickness you wont believe when you start to pay attention. Just keep your mind focused on good stuff :) that's all. Hope it wasn't too long, but it's pretty much everything I've done to get my self a lot calmer than i used to be OOOOOOOOOH BEFORE I FORGET! If you have the money...invest in Lucinda Basset's Videos on dealing with being a "What If Person" Also these vitamins are good to take:
Vitamin B6, B12, Folic Acid, Vitamin D, Vitamin A I think all of these are good for calming down the nerves and eat cellary, it is good for calming down the nerves! You will see big differences if you do this stuff.
Peace and Peaceful mind :) hit me up anytime!
my friend thinks she is fat and guys always make comments about her being fat also. what do you think?
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When I saw the picture of your friend I was SHOCKED! I can't even believe someone would dream to call her fat! What the Hell do they look like!? Now I will agree with the girl before, if she wanted to tone up her body some then she could do it, there is almost always room for more toning, but not being as tone as you "could be" and being Fat are 2 totally different things. These guys need to get a life and you all need to get some better guy friends who will appreciate your beauty. There are girls BIGGER THAN HER Who aren't even considered fat! Please. *scoff* I can't even believe it. The other girl is right, she better watch who she listens to before she get's a ED. On that BS!
Peace.
Well i have a fear of germs and i wash my hand for about 10 min and my family goes made at me for taking to long and i hate to sit next to people. And my sister brings home toys form my nans house i and from school i will not let her come near me with them. And fear of getting the stomach flu.I have had a bad case of it when i was 11 years old and now i am 15 years old and i have the same fear. before i had the stomach flu i was i normal kid.My family said i have a ocd but i have never been to a doctor about it. A hate going shopping with my mum and i hate going to school any where with people i hate it.Do you think i have a ocd.
Well OCD ran in my family. I don't know if anyone was ever officially diagnosed with it. But those are similar behaviors. The only thing is there is a little more to having OCD. At least from my experience. You may just be like a germaphob hahaha you know like just scared of germs cause you don't want to get sick again. Usually with OCD you have things like this: you have to have things in a certain order, when you go to peoples houses or stores you have to arrange things in certain patterns, you may have ticks and clicks that you do in certain number patterns and if they are disrupted you may get really sad or aggitated. You may have to do things over and over. Like rechecking and rechecking and rechecking. You may be ok with some germs but not other germs. You may have panic attacks about things that don't even exist or may not at all be rational...for example...if i touch a spiders web, spider babies will go inside my finger and i will have them breeding inside of me and that thought will overwhealm you until you have a panic attack and you are washing your hands non stop in steaming hot water that would normally burn someone just to touch hahaha...that's how bad stuff was in my family. I started working on it...there are books at Borders that will help you release the emotional attachments you have attached to certain behaviors and then you can start to release that kind of stuff. So if this sounds like you then maybe you do...other wise you are probably just really fearful of getting sick again and are doining everything you can to avoid it :)
Oh my god I don't think I will really get anywhere in a better place with my mom. Her personality just irritates the hell out of me like I am going to go crazy in my head. She does not get me just cause that I seem to act lazy does not mean that its who I am going to be for the rest of my life. Once I get my own place it will be more organize than this house. There is really nothing I could do in my part for her to speak to me much more respectfully. Cause she thinks its fine to have such a demeaning tone in her voice cause from the other country we came from its ok. Well I dont think its ok its sounds rude. And I hate that kind of rudeness. I walk into a same room with her and she tells me to open the lights like hey stupid drama actress do it. She has a problem with me mentioning her at sunday school although the subject I was talking about was me just me. I even ended up self critizicing I have to talk there cause I did not want to seem like I don't talk to people. What her problem is that I sound fake how could i fake that out. What bad did I say if I said yeah my mom can not stand me sometimes. I feel like she just has problems with my fashion and everything so what am I supposed to do be naked in front of everyone will that make her approve of it. I even tried to be much more social and made a new friend today but she still will not back the hell off. I think that seems too extreme. Throw away my eyeliner that is so so insulting. And is it cause she is jealous of me. I am in my 20's could do those things. I don't get what she see is so sexual about me that she behaves like I put out and things like that. I don't even know any men or had been sexually active. this is just to rude for me to deal with. Sometimes it upsets me so bad that I believe her insults and I get all like yeah lets just have sex when I am around a guy. And after it I just think why did I do that? See how I would think like I did something wrong. One movement I do and all of the sudden its bitchy. I even wore preppy clothes and to her its still like oh your trying to attract a guys attention. what am i supposed to do then when I cry she acts me the same question. God she needs to back of my personal fucking life.
Well did you try any of that stuff that i suggested to you?
Ok on google I typed in how to fight emotional abuse I had done it before. And on the things it says like the signs of emotional abuse I would say yes to everything but this one does not have anything to do with a relationship with a man. It's about my mom. I am not saying right now that she does anything bad but this is my problem with her. I know this doesnt sound like a question but right now there is nothing I could do to leave and move out. When I feel like she hurts me feeling I just cry and I dont like crying. But is there anyway I could make my situation more positive because I get mad when I feel like she tries to put me down and I think that causes more problems. I tried to ignore but that does not work at all.
Well it's funny you should ask me of all people cause i had a similar situation with my mom. Now I don't want to give you the wrong idea...my mom is great, she is giving and supportive and helpful and a great guide, and i don't know what your mom is like but this is just me. There were times though when she would say some really harsh stuff to me, especially when she was stressed out. I used to take it really personally. I would be depressed for weeks. Things like calling me an idiot all the time, or telling me i didn't have any common sense. One time i accedentally started a fire cooking for her and she said I did it on purpose to collect on her life insurance hahaha like i really tried to murder her. When I would say i love you some times she would say yeah right hahaha. But then there were times that she would tell me she was proud of me, she loved me even if she said it fast :P hahaha tell me how wise and tallented i am. So, i learned to understand her personality. You should do some resesarch on your mom's astrological sign and read a book on personalities so you can learn to find out who your mom is and how to deal with her. Also read books on building self esteem. You gotta get that garbage she told you about your self out of your head. The only reason it is important to you is becuase she is your mom. if she was a stranger you probably wouldn't give a damn. When she tells you some stuff, don't argue, just pray for her and tell your self positive things about your self. Make a vision board of you getting a long with your mom. Imagine only being around her when she is in a good mood. Eventually you will see less and less of her negative side. Tell her some good things about herself, whatever she is saying to you, more than likely her parents said it to her...change that. If she is approachable, talk to her, say hey mom why sometimes do you say this and that to me? do you mean it? are you just upset? if she means it then bless her, it's ok, just cause she believes it to be true about you doesn't mean it is. you decide who you are and what you can do, not other people. There is a really good book...Adult Children of Abusive Parents: A Healing Program for Those Who Have Been Physically, Sexually, or Emotionally Abused, by Steven Farmer
I read this book, among others, this one is really helpful in the emotional part. :) Hope this helps and you can message me anytime you want. :)
my parents are really pushing me to get a job. im 16 and i dont have my permit, or my license yet. and kroger is nearby, so i could basically walk to work if i got a job there.
the only problem is im very well-aware that they test your urine for drugs. and i smoked weed twice within the last week and a half, so i know i'd fail.
im not wondering how to pass one, im just wondering what happens when you FAIL one. like, do they get the cops involved? do they call your parents? or do they just say i cant have the job and send me out or fire me, ban me from the store, or what?
No they don't get the cops involved from my experience. They just tell you you are not eleigible right now. Another thing you should find out is if they test you at the begining or if they test you if something goes wrong. Cause like the job my sweetie applied for does drug testing, but we asked and they only test you if you have an accident on the job. And that's like a major accident where you either like break a lot of valuable stuff or like you fall or something and you may qualify for workers comp. It has to be pretty serious.
I know you are not looking for something but they have 24 hour cleansers that will clear your urine for the test. You just take it like an hour before the test and you should be fine. Never heard of one not working. You can get the on line or at the health food store or sometimes at drug stores. :) Best of luck.
My situation is that I was involved in a fellow employee being suspended then ultimately being transfered to another location. My involvement in this was not up to me I was a witness to inappropiate behavior that another employee also witnessed and then reported to management.I was called in to give a statement in which I told the truth as vaguely as possible do to the fact that I did not want said employee to get fired. The behavior that was innapropiate is considered sexual harrassment and was not taken lightly by the company but do to me not being meticulous about details and stating that I was not offended he was able to keep his job. He was an aquaintace and I am not into ruining peoples lives. My problem now is that he slandering me at his new location and it is getting to me. I did nothing wrong to him, I just told the truth. Actually I saved his job by talking with HR and letting them know I was not offended. He is aware of that but is still blaming me for his mistake. Normally I wouldnt care about him saying bad things about me but there is alot more to this situation that has complicated matters.If I go to management he will most likely be fired and I will look like the villian he has made me out to be. I am at alost here because it no matter how I look at this it is a lose lose situation for me.I can just let him get away with it and let it really bother me or have him fired and let it really bother me. How do I handle this without ruining his 35 years with the company and keeping the many years I have left as not being known as a whistle blower that I am already falsely accused of? Any ideas?
actually, i am not going to say much, because rhazi pretty much covered it. I was going to say about the same thing. Truth is, it's just like high school. People are going to start rumors and you can either choose to get caught up in it, or you can say you know what people can say and think what they want. that's their business. Truth is, if it was really important your boss would say to you hey is this or that true? and then you can say yes or no. if they believe you fine, if not you will find a better job somewhere else where you work with nicer people who appreciate you more.
in regards to him, if he get's fired, it's because he is not supposed to be there anymore. it has nothing to do with you, because he creates his reality. you may say what you have to say, but the truth is, if the bosses want him to stay he will stay, if they want him to go, he will be gone hahaha
i know it's hard sometimes not to worry, especially when you have a kind heart. but you can't save everyone, not everyone wants to be saved, and not everyone is meant to be saved. be the good person you are, associate with the people who are respectible, and just do the best job you can do. his fate is his own. yours is your own. let it go :)_
Hi i as wondering how do people get taller? i am an asain american so therefore it's a bit hard however,my whole family are around like 5'5-5'9 but i am barly 5'1.I am 15 .Female. I eat regulary and eat calcium but i dont know what to do.I am scared that i wont be able to grow anymore and be short forever,
which will really suck when i reach my 30's.
Is it also true thatgirls stop growing as soon as their period begins?
Let me tell you something, you need to love your self. I'm 5 feet talll and i'm a sexy bi**h! You better know the men love it! My aunt is beautiful and she is 5'1, when she goes in a room all the heads turn! Nia Long is a beautiful successful actress and she is only 5'2. Keshia Knight Pulliam is only 5 and 1/2 inches tall, beautiful, model, famous, the men love her. Tila Tequila is only 4'11"! and she has the most myspace views on myspace, last i heard on mtv. Judy garland was only 4'11", Reese Witherspoon 5'2", christina ricci is 5'1, lucy liu's 5'3", Rachel Leigh Cook 5'2", Hillary Duff is 5'2 (i think she's about done growing) ayumi hamasaki's the britany spears of japan is only 5'1! So you need to get with your height and love your self, cause let me tell you, unless you do some crazy yoga exercise, or have a growth spurt...that's it! hahaha CAN I GET A WITNESS! POWER TO THE SHORT AND BEAUTIFUL!================= I'm really glad you feel a bit better, i struggled with this too for a while, so i know where you are coming from :)
heyy
i like this guy, lets call him Pete. and we were at school camp last week together. okay well he is new at our school and hes really shy. we had a dance party there and he asked me to go to his cabin room with him instead, and i did. we were sitting down and then he goes "Can i kiss you?" and i was shocked because he doesnt talk that much and hes shy so i went all red and didnt say anything and just hid my face and then i stood up and ran away and sat on the top bunk, and he was leaning against the ladder, and then a teacher came in .. xD. we got put on 1 hour of after school detention and he got upset about it because hes only been new for a month and didnt want his reputation with teachers to be ruined, and i tried to cheer him up and then i said If you want to be alone then i can leave and he said Yes please, so i left. He talked to me the day after and said Sorry about ignoring you last night and then we talked for a bit and everything was fine. That night we got back to school and everyone was getting picked up, and my best friend Andrew came to meet me. I got him to carry all my luggage for me lol so we were walking and we walked past Pete, so i said bye to my friend and sat down with Pete. He didnt talk at all so i got a bad vibe and so i asked "Do you hate me or something..?" and he just shook his head no and didnt say anything. I felt abit weird so im like Okay what the hell so i got up and walked off. I didnt talk to him since then and today i had a double class with him, and my friend sat down next to me just do that Pete would have to sit next to me or there would be no seats left. Well that didnt work because he didnt talk to me at all. I feel as though hes ignoring me. I dont want to be lame by seeming clingy and talking to him first..I dont know whats wrong with him because if i remember HE was the one that told me to go to HIS room, and HE asked me if he can kiss ME. does anyone have any idea whats wrong with him?
thanks :)
Ok this is what I think. I think he is a little jealous of your friend andrew. what probably happened was, of course when you guys got in trouble, he wasn't necessarily upset at you...he was just upset at the situation and kind of took it out on you. but he obviously has a thing for you. so then he sees you walking and probably lauging with this guy that has been knowing you for way longer than he has, this guy is probably cute (or he thinks you think he's cute) and he's thinking oh you know what kind of chance do i have with her and shes already close to this guy (andrew) and so he's like shy and a little jealous and has like mixed feelings and doesn't know how to deal with it. so he is ignoring you so he doesn't really have to like face his feelings. i mean like, it might be hard for him to talk to you cause probably when he talks to you he gets all giddy (inside) haha and he feels like nothing is going to happen. i would go ahead and talk to him again and if you like him maybe like tell him or hint at it a little more so his confidence goes up. I mean it's already hard switching schools, then trying to hit on a girl at the same time ...that's can be a lot on the ego. :) hope this helps.
hey i was wondering..when you play with a guy with your hand its called a handjob..but what is that called when you do it to a girl..like rub them and play with their clit or just rub the area in general. (like without fingering)
thanks =]
This isn't an answer. So don't like mark me down cause you think it will be. I just wanted to say that's a WONDERFUL question. I am a girl and I would also like to know so if you find out let me know hahaha
my skin is ruining my life! i'm really like.. i don't know what the word for it is.. but i overthink everything. something about mind control? well, my skin never used to be this bad, until i started stressing about it so much. i'm constantly worrying about it and doing everything i can to make it better, but i get more and more breakouts everyday. i drink a lot of water, eat healthy, use good face washes, only wash it about twice a day, use lotion and good moisturizes, so don't tell me anything is wrong with my routine. it's all in my head. i just don't know how to just let it be. ugh :/ :/ :/ sometimes i just stay home when i get invited somewhere, because my skin is so bad. bleh!
To add to the previous person, shark cartilage is really good if you are talking about acne. I don't know what the problem is but it sounds like acne. This will have you cleaned from the inside out and really clear it up. If you think stress is adding to it then do some stress relief exercises. Meditation, positive affirmations, visualize your self with clear skin, pray...things of this nature. If your thoughts and words and actions align, you will find a solution. Another good thing to do is tell your body how much you love it, how much you love your face, see your self beyond the physical, see past the blemishes. This will help greatly. And most of all give it some time.
peace
so i really want my nose pierced but i doubt my mom will let me ..
do you know any way i can force my mom to let me??
if not how can i hide it from my mom??
well you definately wont be able to hide it cause if she cares about you she will see the hole in your nose either the first day or within a week. but the best thing to do is tell her people in the bible had nose rings and try to find older family members like your grandma or aunt who have or had one, that went well. no stories of people who got it ripped out or infected, make sure you get the whole story from them. my grandma had hers done! so my mom was cool with it but i was at least 18. and tel her she can help you pick out a place and go with you. :)
It's very confusing. I suppose I should backtrack. So, I was in the shower one day and, having a few gay friends, I wondered what it must be like for them - you know, coming out, persecution and what-not. Then I thought 'What would it be like if I were gay?', which filled my with this awful panic. Then I was fine for weeks until I saw a program on homosexuality, which reminded me of that panic in the shower. So I thought to myself, 'Well, if you got scared does that mean you're gay?' and from then on it's been on and off. Sometimes it really gets strong and at others it is non-existant.
So, I think - so what if I am? So I watch some gay porn, think about having sex with some traditionally good-looking guys; that kind of thing. However, when I do it honestly repulses me. I shudder. I mean, I find nothing about the male form sexually attractive - nothing - but for some reason this 'what if you are?' thought persists, despite me having a large appreciate of female beauty, being aroused by women and sexually repulsed by men.
I'm an open-minded guy with similar friends; if I was to come out as gay or bisexual or whatever then I know they're fully support me, as would my family. If they didn't I wouldn't care - I wouldn't pretend to be something I'm not to anyone. It's just this 'what if?' crap that seems to niggle at me. I wouldn't mind if I just knew if I was bi or gay or whatever but I KNOW I don't find men sexually attractive yet, for some reason, the thought niggles.
I'm also feeling very, very down for no reason lately. I generally feel depressed half the time, anyway, but that's, I believe, down by hypothyroidism and that I sometimes forget to take medication. That and my diet, which consists of junk food, especially moreso since I stopped exercising regularly. So, I'm wondering, in essence, whether this is just a result of depression of a genuine sexual indentity crisis?
Again, I'd like to stress that I wouldn't mind being gay or bi - sexual desire is not something I'd let define me - it's just the not knowing crap that annoys me.
Thank you for any advice given and I apologise for the length.
You know what I go through something similar. Panic attacks, thoughts that sometimes get out of hand. I don't know how bad yours is but if it is like really bad where it effects your life and choices you should check out Lucinda Basset and her program. She has something for "what if" thinkers. Really helpful! The fact is that if you were gay you would know it. Your friends would know it, cause gay people usually have really good gay-dar. and you don't have to be gay to have gay-dar cause i have it. It's not like a prejudice or anything, I just know when someone is gay even if they look or act straight. I mean like me, I fantasize about lesbian relations and sometimes orgys, but when it comes down to it, i don't think i would ever be able to have sex with another woman, and just another woman, no guy around you know like a 3 some. I don't know it weirds me out, but i'm cool with lesbians and gays. But if I were gay it would not creep me out, I would be probably more worried about whether the person i liked would be freaked out. You feel me? So when the thoughts come, just feel them, allow them to flow, and keep you mind focused on not allowing yourself to get carried away with your immagination. There are a lot of people who go through the same thing. They call it an overactive immagination. You probably have some artistic tallents hiding away somewhere that are dying to come out and are comming out through your immagination haha peace.
My ex fiance said to me to call him when im older. We were so inlove,I don't understand why he would throw that away. Im 19 and female, he's 39, we have been together a year and a half. Is there anybody who's been in a similar situation? What can I do?
I just want to add to the previous comment. I don't know what kind of person you are, maybe you are mature for your age. I always have been. So you may feel like, what's wrong with me? I'm mature. But there are just things in life that you will never understand until you are old enough to experience them or be around peers that are experiencing them, your view on the world will change as you develop. So if he doesn't want you now, then it is not the right time for you two to be together. Maybe when you are older, you will not want him. I know my taste in men and what I wanted changed drasticly from when I was 19 to when I was 23ish. Date other men, get experience, learn their ways, see this as an opportunity. Hope this helps.
i want to go to juliard college in boston and be the best of the best. how???
Well I am a pretty good actress. I got into AMDA in NY. I auditioned for Juillard, and one of the staff came and personally told my mom that I was one of the best she had seen all day. That I really have something special, and I still didn't get picked hahaha
So this isn't to say that you wont cause you may have what they are looking for. But I can tell you one thing, they are looking for something and it is something other than just acting ability. From what I hear there is a look. I don't know what that look is, but all I can say is be your self. Before you go in there and audition with something you only did your self, make sure that you get an acting coach or teacher that is really talented to help you with your piece and make sure it's Outstanding! There are people who audition the first time and don't get in and then audition a second time and get in like American Idol. Just do your best and make sure the piece is something you are passionate about. Remember always play against the emotion. :) If you need more advice just ask.
Im 15 years old and would really like to start writing a book. I don't just want any kind of book but i want a best selling book. I know this is just a dream but i would love for my book to be made into a movie one day. I like fantasy novels, like Eragon, Harry Potter, and Twilight. Before i begin writing, i would like to know what will it take for me to have a best selling book?? Also i would like to know what do you think some good ideas would be for a book. I personally was thinking of maybe something about werewolfs. What do you think?
-thank you
I mean what the previous girls said is exactly it. Just write from the heart and figure out who you want to reach. Then you have to of course learn about writing, First of all just write, get your ideas down, use dreams, that's what i do. Take things you have seen that you thought to your self i could make that better or do better than that. Recreate it in your own way. Figure out what you like and what you don't like in other people's books and do your work based on that. Then when you have some stuff, go to the library and figure out how to really make it professional. From there you just have to find someone to publish you or be willing to be your agent. Being a best seller is just about reaching the audience and people like it, you just never know which book it's going to be, it might be your first it might be your 5th or 10th, you just gotta do it and see where it takes you. If you really want it made into a movie, get with writers and directors, talk about it, meet people, this is how things like this happen, someone reads it and is inspired or the writer goes out and promotes it. But there is no goal that is too big, we all start off as babies and we can all amount to anything beautiful and wonderful. Just believe in your self no matter what happens. Peace.
I cant really get my hands on any KY jelly, so what are some other lubes I can use to give a hand job?
I used lotion before, as long as you don't get it in the tip hahaha Flavored massage oil is great casue you can taste it haha :P
The question is when you get the lube are you going to be able to give a good hand job, cause I can give you some sites with some Awesome tips hahaha!
Okay, so I need your help.
I am making a "end of the season" music video for my volleyball team. This special video mainly features highlights of the seniors on our last home game. So I was wondering what kind of music would best suit this music video. I am looking for some CLEAN upbeat type music.
I think you definately need to put some classics that everyone knows like: We are the Champions by Queen, and I always recommend the "Theme Song" from rocky 1 or Redemption which is the theme song from Rocky 2
These are really popular and people can relate to them
Now for something more new, If you like hip hop then maybe "Get like me" by David Banner featuring Chris Brown, because it's about being the best, also Number one Stunna by Big Tymers cause that is also about being #1 and the best. or "Neva Eva" by Trilville, that is another good one about being the best.
Umm if you like rock maybe
The All American Rejects, Gives you hell song is good cause it's about you know beating someone in life or showing someone up. What's also good about that one is that it has kind of a beach feel. Crazy Train by Ozzy Osborne, it doesn't have to do with winning but it is sweet, and would look good behind a sports video. Red Hot Chilli Peppers Get on Top, talks about being the best and is a great song.
A good instrumental one is The Imperial March song from Star Wars The Empire Strkes Back.
Hope these inspire you to figure out what you want to use!
Peace
A few years ago I had a dream that I was in a car accident with my oldest child, and about a year later in 2006 I was. Several months ago I had three dreams in a row that I got hit by a train, instead a lady ran a stoplight flying down the road like an idiot and totalled my car. Well a few days ago I started having this really bad feeling that I was going to be in a car accident. I can feel the pain. I am scared to drive. This time I didn't have a dream but I can feel something bad is going to happen. I was telling a close friend the other day and the scary thing is she had a dream about it.
The fact of the matter is that nothing is set in stone. You always have the opportunity to change your fate, but as the girl said earlier, you cannot live your life in fear. Even though sometimes that is definately easier said than done, you have to do your thing. Like she said, if you believe in destiny, and it is to be that you are supposed to experience car accidents, then this is what will be and all you can do is learn from it. What I believe in though, is finding out what path you are on that may put you in harms way and then ask your guides, angels, God or whom ever what you should do to change this path, and then do that. This is the perfect time. You have to be open though, and make sure that you are making your decisions based on your trust and from your heart and not out of fear. If you believe in keeping spiritual charms around you, then I would suggest that you go to a priest and get a rosarie or a statue of one of the saints of protection or something of the sort and pray over it or have a priest bless it for you and bless you and your child as well. The most important thing is to trust life. Speak positive things, I am always safe, I am always protected, my child is always safe and our steps are always guided in the right direction. Things like this. Say what you want. If you believe in prayer, there is a phone number that I like to call that was given to me called Silent Unity. They will pray for you in the most positive way for 30 days straight and you can call as many times as you want. Let them know how you feel and they will pray for your safety: 1800.669.7729
I hope everything goes well for you. Peace.
well lately i've been watching like lesbian porn. ones with just females in it or just one female herself. & I enjoy it! A LOT. thing is though I absolutely love MALES! like everything about them . well not everything about them. yeah though . like sometimes it freaks me out about dating a female but if it freaks me out why do I like lesbian porn?
sorry if this confuses . i'm just saying what's in my head
I'm the same way. I really like to watch lesbian hentai or lestai porn. The weird thing about me is I don't like to watch human lesbians, i like to watch the Japanese anime cartoons only. Not even regular cartoon lesbian porn. I agree with the first person, different things turn people on. I am totally turned on by men. I kissed a girl before when I was in college when I was learning how to kiss, i didn't feel anything. Nothing at all, but a guy could touch my hand and i start to get wet...excuse the detail. :) Don't worry about what you like to watch, just do you. And shoot, if you one day decide to be a lesbian, or that you are a lesbian, then hey...do you. But if you are a lesbian, i'm sure you will know. :) You'll feel it in your heart. :)