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does anyone have an idea whats wrong with him?
heyy
i like this guy, lets call him Pete. and we were at school camp last week together. okay well he is new at our school and hes really shy. we had a dance party there and he asked me to go to his cabin room with him instead, and i did. we were sitting down and then he goes "Can i kiss you?" and i was shocked because he doesnt talk that much and hes shy so i went all red and didnt say anything and just hid my face and then i stood up and ran away and sat on the top bunk, and he was leaning against the ladder, and then a teacher came in .. xD. we got put on 1 hour of after school detention and he got upset about it because hes only been new for a month and didnt want his reputation with teachers to be ruined, and i tried to cheer him up and then i said If you want to be alone then i can leave and he said Yes please, so i left. He talked to me the day after and said Sorry about ignoring you last night and then we talked for a bit and everything was fine. That night we got back to school and everyone was getting picked up, and my best friend Andrew came to meet me. I got him to carry all my luggage for me lol so we were walking and we walked past Pete, so i said bye to my friend and sat down with Pete. He didnt talk at all so i got a bad vibe and so i asked "Do you hate me or something..?" and he just shook his head no and didnt say anything. I felt abit weird so im like Okay what the hell so i got up and walked off. I didnt talk to him since then and today i had a double class with him, and my friend sat down next to me just do that Pete would have to sit next to me or there would be no seats left. Well that didnt work because he didnt talk to me at all. I feel as though hes ignoring me. I dont want to be lame by seeming clingy and talking to him first..I dont know whats wrong with him because if i remember HE was the one that told me to go to HIS room, and HE asked me if he can kiss ME. does anyone have any idea whats wrong with him?
thanks :)
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Maybe if you didn't act like an immature little girl when he asked to kiss you, you wouldn't be treated like one.
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Sounds like he may be a little jelaous our your friendship with andrew. I am a guy and guys don't like it when you seem too have a go to guy for everything. But anyway don't be afraid to tak to him first. He may be to shy to talk to you first or even scared who knows. But also he is in a new school right? That may also be putting some extra stress on him and making him a little moody. The only thing you can do is help him through the transition through the schools and let him know that you and andrew are nothing but friends. Ask him how he feels about you, clear the air of any confussion at all.
Good Luck!
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Ok this is what I think. I think he is a little jealous of your friend andrew. what probably happened was, of course when you guys got in trouble, he wasn't necessarily upset at you...he was just upset at the situation and kind of took it out on you. but he obviously has a thing for you. so then he sees you walking and probably lauging with this guy that has been knowing you for way longer than he has, this guy is probably cute (or he thinks you think he's cute) and he's thinking oh you know what kind of chance do i have with her and shes already close to this guy (andrew) and so he's like shy and a little jealous and has like mixed feelings and doesn't know how to deal with it. so he is ignoring you so he doesn't really have to like face his feelings. i mean like, it might be hard for him to talk to you cause probably when he talks to you he gets all giddy (inside) haha and he feels like nothing is going to happen. i would go ahead and talk to him again and if you like him maybe like tell him or hint at it a little more so his confidence goes up. I mean it's already hard switching schools, then trying to hit on a girl at the same time ...that's can be a lot on the ego. :) hope this helps.
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