well lately i've been watching like lesbian porn. ones with just females in it or just one female herself. & I enjoy it! A LOT. thing is though I absolutely love MALES! like everything about them . well not everything about them. yeah though . like sometimes it freaks me out about dating a female but if it freaks me out why do I like lesbian porn?
sorry if this confuses . i'm just saying what's in my head
If you wanted to try stuff with other girls, that may make you bi-sexual, but definitely not lesbian if you love guys.
But don't label yourself. It doesn't matter what you call yourself, all that matters is that you are with what you want to be with. So don't stress out. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
asknava answered Saturday December 27 2008, 12:07 am: I'm the same way. I really like to watch lesbian hentai or lestai porn. The weird thing about me is I don't like to watch human lesbians, i like to watch the Japanese anime cartoons only. Not even regular cartoon lesbian porn. I agree with the first person, different things turn people on. I am totally turned on by men. I kissed a girl before when I was in college when I was learning how to kiss, i didn't feel anything. Nothing at all, but a guy could touch my hand and i start to get wet...excuse the detail. :) Don't worry about what you like to watch, just do you. And shoot, if you one day decide to be a lesbian, or that you are a lesbian, then hey...do you. But if you are a lesbian, i'm sure you will know. :) You'll feel it in your heart. :) [ asknava's advice column | Ask asknava A Question ]
ediemarie answered Friday December 26 2008, 11:53 pm: Hi,
you didn't say how old you were, but either way it just sounds as though you have a normal curiosity. Lots of things turn people on. Just because you like looking at it doesn't mean you are a lesbian. Sexual things turn us on no matter what the sex is. It's normal. I wouldn't worry about it.
However, if you feel like you want to be with a woman in the future, then that's something different. In any case, be true to yourself and be proud. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie [ ediemarie's advice column | Ask ediemarie A Question ]
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