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well, there's this guy who hasn't really ever shown any reason that he would like me. we generally hang out because my roomate (at my high school) is friends with him. we occasionally talk over msn but it seems to end with us argueing cause he can be a total jackass. but yesterday we were all watching a movie and then later when we were alone, he kissed me. and then my friend came in, she didn't notice and we pretended nothing had hapened. i've avoided him all day today, but even so he hasn't called or anything. i'm not sure he actually like me... does he?
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I think he does, who kisses a person who he doesn't even like, unless he was dared to kiss you or he just kiss you for tripping. Maybe he hasn't called or anything because he doesn't know what your actually thinking, maybe he thought you felt weird on what he did. You wouldn't see what he really feels to you because maybe he is shy to let you see or he don't want to destroy his current relationship with you.
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Okay, so I like my best guy friend. Thing is, hes enagaged. He will call and ask if I want to go over to his house and play videogames. He referrs to the times when I go over to his house as "dates." He also says that he plays better when I am not around because when I sit next to him I make him nervous. He is always flirting with me. He will tease me, playfully hit me, and playfully kick me in the butt. He is also sensitive to my feelings, and is always trying to figure out what is wrong when I am upset so he can make it better. If he goes to the store, he will usually ask if I would like to go with him, or if I go to the store he will usually go with me because he said that he would feel bad if something happened to me. Also when we go out he will pay for me. I try to pay him back, but he wont let me. Also when I leave his house to go back to mine he will walk me out and watch me as I walk home to make sure I make it okay(we're neighbors. he lives like 2 houses down from me.)
Now him and his fiance have been engaged for almost a year now. They have not set a date, and they do not live together. They only see eachother on saturday, but other than that, they talk on the phone a couple times a day. She is leaving soon for another 4 years of college in another city, some 400 miles away and he is not going with her.
Before I ask my questions though, I would like to add: As much as I do like this guy, I would never get involved with him as long as he is with his fiance. I have no intentions of breaking them up either. If they were to break up, I dont want it to be because of me.
So onto the questions. Do you think he likes me? Do you think he is possibly having second thoughts about getting married? And do you think its weird that they are engaged but dont live together and havent set a date for their wedding yet??
I know this is kind of long, so I appreciate you all for taking the time to read and respond to this. Thanks! (link)
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it is possible he likes you,and it is also possible that he has second thoughts to his marriage because as you say "they are engaged but don't live together and haven't set a date for their wedding yet".
You said you like him, But just be careful to your steps you said you have no intentions of breaking them up and you don't want it to be because of you. Hanging out with him that much and letting him treat you like his girlfriend will get you involved, cuz in the part of his fiance it hurts and might cuz them to break up. Just let him, and treat him as a friend if you don't want to get involved.
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i'm very worried about my grades in school. i'm a f/sophomore.
i have all honors and a.p classes...i usually get very good grades, and last report card, got all As and Bs.
this grading period...two of my grades are slipping to Cs...and I don't know how to pull them up..i try my best. i just can't do well in those subjects. and this makes me hate myself...really badly =| i don't know what to do..i really do try. and the worst part..is that i know i'm smart, but i see other people doing better than me and it just makes me hate myself even more! i used to be one of those students that always got the highest score...but its as if i got lazy and i'm on a hiatus or something.
what can I do in this situation? I know that i can do better. but there are way too many distractions.
i guess this could be called "smart person's block"
lol. please help. anyone with the same experience? (link)
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Me myself sometimes is in that position except that i don't feel angry to my self when i get low, just worried. i feel this way because a lot of people ( mostly my classmates) say that I'm smart. So i cared to my grades because it is like already my reputation.
So now that it's getting harder, i ask help to my classmates that are good at that subject and sometimes you could ask help from your teachers to explain again, you could also do research. Just relax cuz you can't be good to all subject you can't always get. Just do what you can do but try harder, but don't pressure yourself. When your already pressured try to do something fun before you go back to study.
Sorry if my advice is very long
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I started talking to this ridiculously sweet guy a few months ago. I absolutely love being around him and every time i'm with him i find myself smiling and laughing. I love being with him! We talked about dating, and we both said that we REALLLLLY like each other, but he nor i want a commitment.
As time goes on, i want a commitment with him, and i know he has a lot going on and that he doesn't want one.
is there anything i can do to help him? not to like.. pressure him into dating me, but feel more comfortable around me.
it pretty much feels like we're dating, but we're not. (link)
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Don't rush him, you said he has a lot going on just give him time. Be patient but stay close to him, you don't need to stay away from him just to give him time. Just wait, if his ready to tell you what he really feels about you, he'll let you know.
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I'm normally a ridiculously happy person, but during a class trip I was really downing the vibe. Everything and everyone was beginning to frustrate me and it's not because I'm moody; these people were simply being annoying...
My question is:
despite all the annoyances I may be presented with, what is a good way to overlook them and be a ray of sunshine? (link)
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Just try to control yourself, don't mind annoying people. Just stick to the people whom your comfortable with ( who will not annoy you). Just don't force your self to join with the people that your not comfortable with because you might burst in front of them when you get really annoyed.
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i don't know what do give one of my good friends for christmas. i want to get her something good cause she's been there for me 6 years, what should i get her?
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You could give her something you made or something you work for or a gift that will let you and your friend remind you of your friendship. Just give or show something meaningful like videos of you and your friend( something funny at the same time very meaningful)
Good luck i hope you can think of a gift that you can give to her
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ok so i really fell hard for this guy and he liked me too till this other girl came around.
we have some history so i thought he wouldnt go for her.
but he did.
now hes going out with her.
they started going out today.
how do i win him back with out making a fool of myself?
this girl is ten times prettier then me.
but ive known him way longer.
shes known him for maybe a week or two.
ive known him for almost a year.
we were great friends then we told eachother that we liked eachother.
i fell for him.
i told him i fell for him and that i love him and hes asked how i knew i loved him and its just something a girl knows.
but i dont know how to win him back cuz him mom doesnt like me at all.
thats the reason he wouldnt go out with me in the first place.
but i need to know how to win him back.
HELPPPP!!!
before its too lateee.
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If you could answer question on why did you like him maybe things could workout.
If you really think you are meant to be make him see that your better than her
But if it doesn't work out you could always let go and maybe you'll find somebody better than him or as time pass by he might comeback to you
if my advice is not good
I'm sorry
Good luck
Always be confident and don't lose hope
It's just part of life
there still more
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