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14/f
ok so i have to wear this really weird poodle skirt dress type thingy for something in school
and it bulges into the skirt part like right at my belly button....now i'm not fat, but im not like skinny either, i might be a little above normal when it comes to weight i guess...are they any tricks to making the dress look better on me?
like something i could wear under it or over it like a belt or something?
thanks! (link)
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i see that you are only 14... a quick, cheap way to get it to 'suck in' under the clothes and not look bulgy... is an ace bandage. wrap in around your middle.... nice and tight, and have a parent help... but do make sure you can breath.
good luck honey
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is it normal that when you smoke a cigarette it makes you lightheaded and dizzy? why is this (link)
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the reason it makes you lightheaded is because it shrinks your cailaries. less oxygen to you brain.
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are their underwear returnable?
i havent worn them and i just bought them two days ago (link)
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you should be able to return them, but it is my own personal experience that the victoria secret girls can be really rude to customers that return merchandise.
good luck though.
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i like totally loved my friends boots but i have no idea wat theyre called so i cant find em theyre not knee high boots they go way higher than that they go so high up your leg that when u wear a min skirt y can barley see any of your skin. can anyone help! (link)
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they are called thigh highs. most commonly found in adult novelty stores. also, i googled them online, and found this site
http://www.snaz75.com/boots-thigh-high.html
but there are plenty of other sites available if you just look for them.
remember, google.com is your friend
good luck
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is it true that there is DNA in waste? so it would be a bad idea to leave it on someones porch, right? in the movies ppl never get caught, but i dont think thats what happens in real life. except that DNA testing prob takes a long time and money and effort. your thoughts? (link)
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yes, there is DNA in poo. and in the movies, i assume you are referring to flaming bag of poo left on the porch? it's usually dog poo.
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I have no confidence whatsoever in myself...none!
Is there any way i can fix this?
what are some positive things i can think? (link)
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I completly agree with Mangy Mama. the only thing I would like to add to her suggestions, is say all those things in a mirror. When you wake up, before you start your day look into your mirror, tell yourself how great you are. that you love yourself. that you are beautiful. really, Mangy Mama's list covers it all.
print it out nice and big, and tape it to your mirror. read it to yourself while looking at your face in the mirror. it has worked for me. you will start to see a difference in your face. you will start seeing things that you like in the mirror, and you will start feeling better about yourself.
good luck sweetie, and don't let anyone else drag you down. people that cut at your self confidence, lack their own.
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16 f
there is this kid that i know. he will NOT stop touching me. he's had a crush on me for the longest time, and wont leave me alone. he's really gross and perverted...and just an idiot overall..I hate him. I dont know what to do to stop him. I've hit him before..but he continues touching and squeezing me. I tell him stop like everyday, and he would say something along the lines of, "but I thought you loved me" or "dont you love me anymore"
It's like freaking RAPE, I swear! I'm scared he'll rape me one day =(
what can I do to freak him out? :| (link)
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This is a very serious issue that should not be taken lightly.
with sexually agressive stalkers, if you use an intimidating friend, there may be a time when he catches you alone, and by then he has built up in his head that you are doing this to hurt him, and he might take his harrassment to a new level, and prove your deepest fears to be true.
what you need to do is go to a parent, then have you and your parents go to the principal of your school. if that doesn't work, go to the police and file sexual harrassment charges against him. then a restraining order.
Do not EVER tolerate this kind of behaviour from ANYONE! it is your right to feel safe, and you should not let anyone take that right from you.
be strong sweetie, and stand up for youself, no matter what anyone else says.
good luck!
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Please, only answer these questions if you really know about them. And just answer the question, don't try to persuade me into a different direction.
1. What are the best over-the-counter appetite suppressants?
2. What is better: Walking a mile, or doing 200 sit ups?
3. Can cigarettes really suppress your appetite?
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my only advice that i can really give is for question 3. i am overweight, and still trying new ways to lose weight my self....
as for smoking, if you are not a smoker right now, don't do it! it is an addiction that i am trying to quit now.
smoking is not really an appetite surpressant, alot of people associate boredom for hunger. when you smoke, your body is 'doing something' so it's not bored.
sweetie, don't smoke to lose weight. it's a matter of being over weight, or having cancer. seems like an easy choice when it's put that way.
next time you feel a little hungary, have a glass of water. 80% of all people are walking around dehydrated, and thirst can present itself like hunger.
good luck, and hapy new year!
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im thinking of doing my school's talent show in spring. maybe solo, or with my friend. can you give me good ideas of songs i can sing solo, and songs i can sing with my friend? im in 8th grade and a girl (if its not obvious). and i sing... well its hard to describe, like i can be alto and then kinda soprano sometimes-ish. and please dont say songs like "Fallin" by alicia keys.. like not TOO mainstream but not TOO weird either.
thanks! :) (link)
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a classic that you two could have ALOT of fun with is "anything you can do" from the musical Anne Get Your Gun.
its the perfect dueo song and you could really spice it up with props and such.
a good laugh to be had, and you can use your vocal talets with it!
good luck
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ok so for christmas i got this bare minerals starer kit thing and i really don't know how to put it on or like where on my face to put everything. Could you guys help me out? for any of you guys that have this makeup the kit came with 2 shades of the spf 15 the light and fairly light and then this warmth stuff, and glee, andddd mineral veil. THANKS : ) (link)
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i don't really wear alot of makeup myself, but i hear this stuff is awesome!
i did a google search for you, and found a website that gives a bunch of different application tips. didn't want to just copy and paste it all here, but here is the website.
http://www.raesinimages.com/mineral%20makeup%20tips.htm
always remember, with any makeup, the best way to find what you like is to experiment with it, and find what suits you the best.
good luck!
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I really like these:
http://images.freepeople.com/is/image/FreePeople/75A0023_04_a?$detail$
But I'm not sure what shoes are supposed to be worn with them. I'd wear the socks with a denim miniskirt, if it helps. In the picture, the model is barefoot. Any ideas? TIA. (link)
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if you absolutely must wear these sox, i'd say a nice pair of soft brown uggs.
they are a very bohemian pair of socks, and with a denim mini, i would be really cute.
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hey, i've been talking to this guy for quite a while now. The way i met him is that i saw him at his prom that i went to with my friend and added him to facebook. He starting to talk to me on msn a month later. He's really nice so i talked back. At the time i was grounded for a month and couldnt hang out with him. So for about a month and a half we would talk on the phone everyday. Everyday that we talked on the phone i started to be more open and comfortable with him. After i was ungrounded he wanted to hang out. But we didn't hangout till 2 weeks after i was ungrounded. When we did hangout i went over to his house, met his parents who were very nice, and we just watched movies all night. We didn't kiss that whole night till he drove me home and i said goodbye to him in the car, and we started to makeout. After that we hungout alot, i barely saw my friends anymore becasue i was always with him. He would pick me up from school and we would go out for lunch sometimes. After hanging out with him for a long time i discussed with him about dating or at least seeing each. I had had bad expericene in liking a guy before where i had got badly hurt. I had mentioned that to him and he understood where i was comnig from. I noticed whenever i hungout with him i could tell him anything. I would tell him that i had my period or problems i was having with my best friends, or even work problems. The guy before that i wasn't really that open with. I like this guy alot, but his reputation that i hear from doesn't look so good to me. He's the type of guys that isn't really a "kiss ass", or doesn't go out of his way even if he's dating a girl. I have had sex with him, and he was making me feel really comfortable with it. He wasnt the one to ask me if i wanted to, i felt ready so i talked to him about it, he had asked me if i really thought about it, which i did, and he told me he didnt want me feeling pressured that i have to becasue he didnt want to hurt me emotionally. I really want to date this guy, but i really don't know what he feels. Although i ask him about it i feel like what he's telling me isn't true. I always wonder what he says to his friends about me, or if he even talks to his friends about me. I don't want to seem like im rushing things just because i dont want to get hurt. But the truth is i don't think i can handle getting hurt again. All my friends are "if-y" about him, because i get really upset about him soemtimes, and they hate seeing me hurt. Should i break things off, or keep seeing him and see what happens? (link)
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it is my firm belief that your friends know you better than you know yourself. they can see what you refuse to when it comes to the opposite sex. it might be better to trust their instinct on this one sweetie.
i know this isn't what you want to hear, but it is better to pass up mr. right-now, than lose friendships with peole that can help you spot mr. right.
good luck sweetie.
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ok so i am into snowboarding and theres a certain mountain i have been looking at in france, it is called Chamonix (i think the full name is Chamonix Mont Blanc) i know what the last 2 words mean "mountain White" but what is Chamonix? and how do i say it? or do i say it exatcly as it looks? Char-mon-ix? (link)
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onlyinyourdream is wrong, and missbananafontana is correct.
dictionary.com
Cha·mo·nix [ sham-uh-nee; Fr. sha-maw-nee]
–noun a mountain valley in East France, North of Mont Blanc.
just go to dictionary.com and type in Chamonix in the search bar.
trust me, i use dictionary.com all the time, and it is a godsend.
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Hey,
Well this can get a bit confusing but I will try to explain it the best way I can.
There's this guy I have liked for a while.And we went to the movies all his friends and me and my good friend. So , he goes and sits beside me and I found him sometimes starring at me too. On msn we chatted and he said he was too shy to put his arm around me and next time he will and everything.Well, though after that day we haven't really talked.. should I keep talking to him? And ask him to come to catch a movie??
PLEASE HELP ME!
Thank you , betty! (link)
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absolutely keep talking to him... drop the hint about a movie you want to see, but you don't have anyone to go with.... he should get the point and ask you.
as for the physical contact part, keep talking to him, and as you get more comfortable around each other, things will fall into place.
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Well I'm a 15 f and my last period was around the 11th of novemeber I believe (I'm not sure because I don't keep track of my period like I should). Anyhow, I've had sex a few times since the begining of november. Both were protected and all but I haven't gotten my period yet this month and also I've had diarrea a lot lately. I googled it and it said that diarrea could be an early sign of pregnancy around the time that the women miss their periods. So I'm kind of scared that I may be pregnant. Can someone please tell me if its possible or not and give me some advice on what to do now. Thank you in advance. (link)
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in the first few years that you have your period, it is completely normal for you to be irregular. Alot of women are irregular their whole lives (unless they are on birth control). As of right now, I wouldn't worry TOO much about being pregnant. but here is a website i found through google.com that might help you.
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/earlypregnancysymptoms.html
if you have some of these symptoms, i would wait a week or two, and take an at home test. if it is positive, you should see a doctor. there is information about contacting places that will help you on the above website.
But don't be too much of a hypochondriac.
and with the diarrhea, have you changed any of your eating habits lately? there are alot of foods out there that can cause diarrhea or even constipation.
just stay calm.
everything will be fine.
good luck sweetie.
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What does 'mongomous' mean? I'm not sure if it's spelled right, it's probably not because I couldn't find a definition of it on google. It's just I've seen it a couple of times and I have an idea what it may mean.. but not completely sure. Any help? (link)
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dictionary.com is your friend!
Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1) - Cite This Source - Share This
mo·nog·a·mous /məˈnɒgəməs/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[muh-nog-uh-muhs] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–adjective 1. practicing or advocating monogamy.
2. of or pertaining to monogamy.
Also, monogamic.
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[Origin: 1760–70; < LL monogamus < Gk monógamos marrying only once. See mono-, -gamous]
—Related forms
mo·nog·a·mous·ly, adverb
mo·nog·a·mous·ness, noun
Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1)
Based on the Random House Unabridged Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2006.
American Heritage Dictionary - Cite This Source - Share This mo·nog·a·my (mə-nŏg'ə-mē) Pronunciation Key
n.
The practice or condition of having a single sexual partner during a period of time.
The practice or condition of being married to only one person at a time.
The practice of marrying only once in a lifetime.
Zoology The condition of having only one mate during a breeding season or during the breeding life of a pair.
mo·nog'a·mist n., mo·nog'a·mous adj., mo·nog'a·mous·ly adv.
(Download Now or Buy the Book) The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition
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do girls get more horny when they have their period? (link)
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as everyone else has said... depends on the person... some studies suggest that women get "horny" just before and sometimes during thier period because of the bodies desire to procreate.
the higher the sexual desire, the more likely it is that the body will have sex during that time, and the more likely it is that pregnancy will occur.
good question, though!
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how do i get rid of a hicky (link)
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I Personally HATE hickys. i've never had one on my neck, because it is a mark of possession by whom ever has given it to you. And I feel that no one owns me. but that beside the point, i found a web site for you that should help... has a few different scenarios, and remedies. give it a gander.
hope it works!
http://www.getridofthings.com/get-rid-of-a-hickey.htm
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my boyfriend and i dry hump...well id most likely call it having sex with clothes on.. and last night i had underwear on, and he had boxers and athletic shorts...well i was wet down there and he was a little too and i just dont want to be worried about this. (and from now on were going to use something like a condom just incase) but he could have gone in me a little bit even with the layers on.. (not far in at all)
Am I overthinking this?
Should I be worried? (link)
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DON'T WORRY!!! it is just a reaction that your bodies are having to each other's sexual actions and desires. You were wet because your body was creating a lubrication anticipating penetration. Basically, your body was getting ready for him to insert his penis in you, and making it wet so that he can go in easier.
he was wet because of pre-cum. Pre-cum or pre-ejaculatory fluid is released when a guy gets an erection. It cleans out the inside of the urethra, which is the tube that carries semen and urine out of the penis.
The fluid makes the urethra less acidic and gives the sperm a better shot at surviving the trip from the guy's testicles to the girl's fallopian tubes. There's usually NO sperm in pre-cum fluid.
But, if there are live sperm inside a guy's urethra (because he has ejaculated recently), the pre-cum can "pick up" the leftover sperm on its way through the urethra and out of the penis. If a guy pees after he ejaculates, that would kill leftover sperm.
also... even if he did cum, the odds of it getting through three layers of clothing, is unlikely. plus, most underclothes are made to keep moisture in (or out).
on top of all that, you would have to be ovulating.
So like i said hun. Don't worry. have fun, be safe, and always make good choices.
Don't worry sweetheart.
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why is it that all the brunette jokes are about our boobs?
just because ours arent FAKE doesnt mean we dont have them.
what do you think? (link)
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Every group of people make their own stereotypes about people unlike them. When blondes get together, they make fun of brunettes. When Brunettes get together, they make fun of blondes. When blondes and brunettes get together, the red heads are the targets.
my theory is.... if it does not directly pertain to you, don't worry about it.
I've found the best way to get over stereotype comedy, is to become a professional at it. learn to laugh at yourself. they are just jokes.
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