ok so i really fell hard for this guy and he liked me too till this other girl came around.
we have some history so i thought he wouldnt go for her.
but he did.
now hes going out with her.
they started going out today.
how do i win him back with out making a fool of myself?
this girl is ten times prettier then me.
but ive known him way longer.
shes known him for maybe a week or two.
ive known him for almost a year.
we were great friends then we told eachother that we liked eachother.
i fell for him.
i told him i fell for him and that i love him and hes asked how i knew i loved him and its just something a girl knows.
but i dont know how to win him back cuz him mom doesnt like me at all.
thats the reason he wouldnt go out with me in the first place.
but i need to know how to win him back.
HELPPPP!!!
before its too lateee.
15/F
I hate to break it to you, but they're going out. You have to face that fact. Nothing you can do will make them split apart because, again, they're going out. Don't mess the relationship up or you might even lose his friendship. Trust me. It won't work. So for right now, get over him but still treat him and his 'girlfriend' politely. That way, once they do break up (and they will...you all are 15, c'mon) he'll have someone to go to =) Best of luckkk. [ xxxRadioGagaxxx's advice column | Ask xxxRadioGagaxxx A Question ]
DOA0129 answered Friday December 7 2007, 9:26 am: If you could answer question on why did you like him maybe things could workout.
If you really think you are meant to be make him see that your better than her
But if it doesn't work out you could always let go and maybe you'll find somebody better than him or as time pass by he might comeback to you
triquetra answered Friday December 7 2007, 7:43 am: Remind him about what your relationship meant to you. He cannot just dumb you because some other girl is prettier, that's just not fair and mean. You've had this realtionship going for a year, right? So why just stop it there for somebody else?
If i were in your shoes, i'd be down right angry and ask him as to why he's going out with somebody else. Love cannot be explained, replicated or copied and surely he must know that. To explain how you know you love him is cruel because it is something which cannot be explained, you just know.
Ask him to think about what he's doing because not only has he put you in an upsetting position, but he's also broken something which was special between the two of you.
lilteacup answered Friday December 7 2007, 7:16 am: I'm sorry.
I honestly do not think there is anything you can do. As much as it sucks, you can't get someone to do what you want. The only thing I would suggest is just asking him what happened and why he chose to be with her. It will at least give you an understanding or closure. But in the meantime, I don't think this is something you should put yourself down for...don't compare what you look like to other girls. If he chose her because she is "prettier than you"...then he is not worth it. A real guy will find the inner you more beautiful than the outer you.
If you two are meant to be together...it will happen.
Think about it this way...would you want a date a guy who can't decide on his own who he wants to go out with or one whose mom tells him what to do.
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