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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate.

i dont think age should matter. i mean you should beable to date/marry whoever you want. but yea under 5 years i dont think matters. i actually like a guy whos a few months, close to a year, younger than me. but i think its kinda kool lol.
hope i helped.
simone

Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.

it depends if you want to or not. some girls shave it all off.. some trim it (most girls choose this) and some just leave it alone.

Ok, well I came home from school today and found my cat behind one of our landscaping trees, so I called his name, and he kind of looked up, but didn't come, which was REALLY unusual, so I knew something was wrong. Well, I took him inside, and kind of checked him out, to see if he was ok. I think I found what's wrong: in his right ear, I can see a little blood, and there's also a bit of dried blood below his ears on his fur. When I tried to touch it, he flinched, but when I touched his other ear, he was fine. So I'm pretty sure it's his ear. But he won't eat or move much at all. Right now, he's behind the rocking chair in the corner, not really moving. I'm scared, because I've had him for about 9 years, and I recently lost a dog who was only 7, and I can't bear to lose my other pet. I'm thinking he either got in a fight or got attacked by another animal. (he's an outdoor cat). My question is, does anyone know what's wrong with him? Is it really bad that he hurt his ear? I'm taking my dog to the vet tomorrow to get her sutures (sp?) removed, should I take my cat too? I tried calling both my parents, but they didn't answer. I'm really scared, what should I do? Please help me.

i would take the cat with you when you take the dog. Just to see if they can check it out. You cat might have an ear infection or something, i'm not really sure though.

is there a difference between going out end being gf/bf?
i have been going out with this guy for a while and people say oh you two are going out right? and i dont know if he considers us bf/gf?

if you're going out then your considered bf/gf

I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex?

i think it depends on each state but i think the legal age is 18. but im not sure.. but i would also think twice if you did decide on doing it. but yea i think 13 is too young..

hey
wats a good IM name to have???
heres some words i like:
pink, love, cherry, juicy, hate, hell, red
n ma name is emma lol
thanks in advance ♥ ◊

emjuicyred
pinkemjuicy
lovemmared
hate3mpink

and basically anything i guess. try mix and matching them a little.

ive made a couple of myspace layouts and now i want to make an xanga site full of them, what do i do, how do i post the codes, etc., and are there any tips or websites you can give me? plz help much♥

set up an account on xanga for you myspace layouts and then you need to open new accounts for your layouts that you link to you site. and the code you just put in the webblog of you layout.
if you finish it soon could i see it?? i need a layout for my myspace.
h.i.h.
simone

Ok. This might sound kind of wierd, but here goes. When I go to use the bathroom and I pull down my underwear, there's this nasty, sticky, white, creamy looking stuff in there. It doesn't like cover the whole bottom of my underwear, it's only like a little bit. I'm not sexually active, so it couldn't be from that. What is this? Why does this happen all the time? I rate 5's on good answers!!!

its white discharge. girls get it before their period. and after. nothing to worry about.

besides PBTeen, is there any store/website i could purchase a shelf that leans in? like :http://ww1.pbteen.com/cat/pip.cfm?snav=1&pkey=corgshv&gids=p952&ctid=orgshv&area=shp

you can try IKEA

I'm 15/f.
Usually a couple days before I start my period, I get this feeling like I really want to beat someone up that I hate. Lol, it's really weird. I'm not psycho or anything. I'm a really really happy person usually, and I'm super nice. It's just like 5 days or so before I start my period I just want to beat someone up. Is this normal? Does anyone else feel like this?

i think its just mood swings lol but yea sometime i do too... but maybe more like yelling at the person for no reason lol.

First of all I'm a 14 year old male. I would like to know if this girl likes me at all. Here's why I think she does: Everyday when I hang out with some of my friends, if we pass by her, for example at a football game, she'll only say Hi to me and she'll get all excited. I'm a shy kind of guy and I usually just say hi and blush. She's a popular girl and even in class when she sits on the other side of the room she'll stand up and wave and say hi. I talk to her on ICQ sometimes, but it's nothing big. Should I go up and talk to her, I mean, I do sometimes but I don't have anything to talk about. Also, She usually hangs out with older guys, would she want to talk to me? Most of the guys in my grade are immature jerks though.

she might, i mean if a girl gives you that much attention then it is possible. I think going to talk to her would be a good idea. Get to know her better. If shes popular then she's probably more outgoing, which is a good thing, because she'll talk to you.
good luck!

whats "come hither"??

its just a fancy way of saying come here. more something shakespear i guess..

how much are guitar lessons?

it depends on the teacher but usually i think they are around 20$ or so. maybe more or less.

I can't seem to get myself motivated to do my homework! I have a lot tonight, but I always just seem to think "I'll do it later. I'm having way more fun IMing my friend right now" Then "later" comes around, and I think the same thing. This cycle goes until like 8:00 when I have no choice to start my homework, but even then I get distracted. What can I do to perk up my assignments?

thx

Trinity

sounds like you have an attention deficit disorder. i too do the same thing and it can get really annoying.. i always push it away like your self. but i guess what you could try to do is do your homework with a friend that actually does their homework, because you wont be able to get destracted until your work is finished. this is what i do and it work pretty well. so try it and see how it goes.
good luck and hope i helped!

my friend is so chubby and i want to help her get skinny but she wont listen what should i tell her. she thinks shell get skinny when shes older but the truth is if she keeps on eating like this she will be obese for the rest of her life!

well if shes like 13-16 or around that yea she'll probably loose it when she gets older but if shes older than those ages then i don't know, she might need to eat healthier and excersize daily. But i guess its also her choice as well becuase its her body, but i understand how you would want her to loose weight because it can cause all that stuff that heavier people get. And theres nothing wrong about cariing about her either. but try talking to her again but maybe not like i think you should loose weight and blah blah blah, maybe something more convinsable. just think if you were her, you would want someone to persuade you into it right?
good luck and h.i.h

This morning my dad got angry at me. The reason isn't really important. He threw the waffle that was eating at my shirt and got butter all over me. I was upset because he had the nerve to throw a waffle at me, and also because I was excited to wear the outfit that I had picked out to school. I started crying and I couldn't stop. Keep in mind that I have my period now. I was still crying when I got out of the car, and still crying when I was in homeroom. Of course, everyone was staring at me and wondering why my eyes were all puffy. My teacher suggested I go to the nurse, so I did and stayed there for half of first period. I was really happy by the time I was surrounded by my friends. First of all, I felt like an idiot because the people in my homeroom knew how upset I was in the morning, and then saw me laughing my head off with my friends two periods later. I just feel so stupid and I can't for the life of me understand why I was crying so much!! I know I have my perios, but I've never got PMS this severe before!! HELP PLEASE!! Has anyone beed throuhg an awkward situation like this?

i think its just a mood swing and maybe you were in a slight shock that your dad did have the nerve to through a waffle at you. but other wise you shouldnt really worry about it.

Okay guys do you knowe where i can get a xenga for the song numa numayay or whatever its called. It is from the movie chicken little. My annoying math teacher plays it all the time between brakes and at first i hated the damn song but now i got used to it.

the song if from O-Zone and its called "Dragostea din tei" you can probably find it on Music_911 or Music_Galore.

i was just wondering how old you were when you had your first kiss....im 14 and i still havent had mine so i kinda feel like a loser but plz put real age...ty

well if i would count my first kiss starting from the beggining then i was probably like 4 or 5 lol but other wise if you wouldnt count that then never. so don't worry. every one does it at their own time so dont rush it.

What would you do if you hated life but then all of a sudden your "friends" decided to hate you. ALL OF THEM?

well i would think positive and know that i'll make new friends later on. i mean there's a time where everyone goes through this and their friends change and they think their too kool for you but i mean as long at your positive and confident with your self you'll meet new people and life will be good again.

Well my friends and I are trying to decide on costumes. I have NO idea what I want to be. I mean something cute but not very sluttly... maybe just a tad lol. I mean I'm almost 15 and i want to be cute/hott! Do yall have any ideas of what I could be? Please help. Good answers get 5's! xoxo.
p.s. some that work in cold weather or some that work in just good temps. I dont want to wear a bathing suit when if it is like 50ish degrees! Even though I don't think it will be that cold though.

Thanks in advance!

how about one of those sexy devils lol or a hawt witch. im sure if you go to a store you'll see some kool ideas there too.

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