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What would you do if you hated life but then all of a sudden your "friends" decided to hate you. ALL OF THEM?
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well i would think positive and know that i'll make new friends later on. i mean there's a time where everyone goes through this and their friends change and they think their too kool for you but i mean as long at your positive and confident with your self you'll meet new people and life will be good again.
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Find others who also hate life as much as you do. Then when you hang out you can have heaping spoonfuls of fun. Or you could smile. It is actually easier to smile than it is to frown.
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well i would try to asked them why they hate me...and see if you can work things out...
alley
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boost my self confidence, find new REAL friends, go shopping, get a manicure/pedicure, listen to music, and do things that make you happy.
I like to shop, and paint my nails, and make new friends, and go to amusement parks and movies! :)
-Kellzie<3
always here if you wanna talk-
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It's happened to me, and others before, too!
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It's happened to me before. I just do the things that I am interested in, it is never good to make your life completely revolve around your friends for that reason.
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I would try and be open minded - I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that they hate me. I'd ask them what was wrong, and what I've done, or why they're treating me like this - at the same time being ready to accept an apology if I think it's enough, and not being determined ot hate them. It's so easy to hate someone because you believe they hate you and it's actually just a misunderstanding - I've done it myself. Don't fall into that trap, and try your best to resume these friendships before it's too late. Once you've made it up, it'll be a little weird, but you'll get over it soon enough as long as you don't expect it to return to normal straight away.
Pick out one or two friends you were closest to and try and make up with them first. They will value your friendship more than the others and be more likely to make up.
Trust me...I've been through this a couple of times myself. Sometimes it's just easier to make friends and get on with it, even if it is just a surface friendship to start with. After a while, things get normal again. I still have a few people who I wouldn't trust as far as I can throw them, but as for the rest of my friends...it's all good! Don't hesitate to email me at mitzirox1986@hotmail.com if you ever need to chat!!
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well first of all i want to encourage you to love life! theres so many amazing things out there, whats not to love? First i think you should talk to your friends and try to find out what went wrong, maybe its just a big misunderstanding. but if you find out its for a false reason, or no reason at all then there not the kind of friends you want to hav anyways. you need to find real friends who will love you no matter what. you should try joining some after school group where you could meet ppl with the same interests as you and make some friends who you could hang out with and have fun! Also, you could try maybe going to a youth group at a church near you. Youth groups always fun becuase there not going to be judgemental of you, your all just there to support each other and hav fun! hope this helped! **John 3:16 <333
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well its happened to me before...find new friends, find someone that cares, be your own best friend or maybe try to reconcile with them. (its happened quite a few times...) keep your head up! <3
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my friends did that to me before! just suck it up for a lil bit i know it's really hard! Try to hang out with some new people. when my friends did that to me and i started hanging out with all guys! they tought me how to do allot of stuff! so just kinda forget about them.
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Well a lot of people hate life and my friends once did that too me. It was because of a rumor or something like that....I would see what made them hate you all the sudden and then go talk to the one you think WAS the nicest. If they won't talk to you consider them an ex-friend. But don't try to hard, like really nervous kind a way, because if they see that they will hate you even more...it is weird. But if they don't even try..consider they were never your friends to start with...I mean if all your friends hated you..that would be discouraging but I'm sure there was someone who was your best friend. If all does not go right...think positive and go find some new true friends...your hating friends may realize how they were wrong.....hope all goes well
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sounds to me like your having some problems. if i were you, i'd talk to my friends about what ever i did and try to make it right again. i know its really annoying when none of your friends want anything to do with you, but eventually they'll probably come through, and be friends with you again. as for life, i cant help ya there because life is gonna suck, most of the time, no matter what you do. it depends on what is really the issue, but most of the time, "life" cant be helped. good luck.
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Obviously they're not good friends. What I would suggest is asking them why they suddenly decided to just hate you so much, and if they say a stupid reason, just find new friends, because they're not going to be worth it. Real friends love you no matter what. <3
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hm. try to think about what you may have done to make your friends upset. you could have talked about them behind their back, or been mean to them. whatever the reason is approach them and ask them why theyre mad at you. no matter what the reason is, say that youre sorry so that theyll forgive you.
ps-dont hate life! thinking about the bad things takes time away from the good things.
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